3 Signs that Your Ex is Attracted to You

Clay Andrews shares 3 ways to tell if your ex is attracted to you. Surprisingly, your ex probably is for the reasons discussed in this video.

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If you’re looking for signs your ex is attracted to you, this video will tell you 3 important signs to look out for.

The first is if the two of you were in a romantic relationship.

The second is if you have not gone through any major physical transformation.

The third is if you have not gone through a major personality transformation.

This is kind of controversial, and a lot of people want to debate me on this, but once your ex is attracted to you, they are likely going to stay attracted to you, barring any of the above 3 things.

Attraction is not a choice, and if your ex was attracted to you in the past, you, whether intentionally or unintentionally, created the perfect combination of physical and personality traits to attract them.

Unless the equation has changed, your ex is still attracted to you and there really isn’t much to do about it.

This is where things get a bit more interesting.

If your ex has flat out told you that they aren’t attracted to you anymore, what’s going on is that they are probably still very much attracted to you.

It’s just that the history and baggage and negative emotional experiences between the two of you are blocking that attraction from running it’s course and bringing the two fo you together.

Instead of focusing on re-attracting your ex, which would be a complete waste of time right now if they are attracted to you, the most important thing to focus on is clearing away the negative emotions.

Once that happens, your ex will naturally start to feel the attraction flowing between the two of you again, without the negative emotions blocking the way.

So, I hope you’re not worrying too much about attracting your ex. Chances are good that your ex is already attracted to you. Seriously, the likely are. You don’t need to overthink it.

You just need to give them a good reason to feel that attraction for you again.

[gertwallen]

I can be attracted to my ex girlfriend, as I can be attracted to many women, but what truly will make the bond successfull is love for each other and willingness to overcome relationship issues

[MistSGM]

1. Check
2. Check
3. I broke down crying when she broke up.

[Sporacle]

Ive had a lot of sex with people I wasn't attracted to, but Ive never been in a relationship with someone I wasn't attracted to

[joebagodonutssummertime]

She was emotionally attracted to me, but due caustic relationship via family issues, she is now not..

[dollyblevins]

Hasn’t ever stopped every one is sooo going to see unconditional love

[Tam]

Very reassuring! and makes so much sense...thank you!

[girlinthebox]

yeah i definitely know he is still attracted since last week but he does not want any commitment and now he is ignoring me.

[SouthernBelleReviews]

Yeah he just doesn't want me anymore

[admiralfishface]

Alright sounds like I have it in the bag, just gotta keep at making a connection

[mrntg]

They maybe find you great but what if they got bored and want something new? :(

[nenitajones]

lol he told me what makes him.un attractive to me was when i was being mean


so i try to filter my mouth from now on

[kolyah]

They may be more attracted to someone else.

[ihavenoname]

Hey Clay,
My ex fiancé and I broke up recently and we were together for four years... needless to say I started working full time and pursue my bachelors full time. Because of that my focus has gone straight to school and she ended it because we "grew apart". She still calls me everyday after she said we were done and I took it seriously and have been working on myself and focus, but I feel she is playing games and is not telling me what she truly wants... she is looking for me to chase her but from the past I always have and I want her to chase me but she is stubborn and so am I... this has confused me but neither of us are devastated because I feel it's a bs break up that is not gonna last... any advice?

[devo]

My gf got back with her ex literally the day after we broke up(she was talking to him), is that what made her attraction for me become blocked? (they have more history together, we dated for 3 months and they dated for 7)

[sadielovesshopping]

Does the 3rd sighn count if you've had some serious things happen in your life that has caused depression and anxiety? Because I'm worried I drove my ex away because of me becoming more depressed and anxious. This is something I'm currently getting help for but there were blocks in the way of me getting that help before the break up.

[sophiakangas]

What if you don’t know the negative things in the relationship? How can you fix them?

[Jetar]

I’m I the only one notice he says 3 signs but his thumbnail says 5 signs he might needs change his thumbnail it’s kinda confusing... lol

[yzwoody]

She unblocked me on fbook. Messages once in a while to either fight or ask if she left something at my house. Like a bra. Lol.
Lately showed up with a friend at two of my bands shows in one week.
Last show. The guy she is dating showed up. They argued then left. Thoughts? Something is up. Also her friend said that when she was was talking to her about this new guy she is dating. She she kept calling him by my name.

[skarosTHEgreek]

Me and my boyfriend broke up 6 days ago... neither of us wanted to break up. We both have a lot of feelings for each other. But I believe I put too much pressure on him. I was talking to my friends about the things bothering me and my friends eventually wanted to meet with him and "talk about me". Basically, he got the impression that he was hurting me and he broke up because he thought it was for the best.

I'm planning to reconcile with him, but I'm not sure if I really should wait a while or not. My goal is a minimum of 2 weeks where I plan to start the talk, (not start off strongly, of course). I'm minimizing contact with him, so we don't talk a lot. But I know he really does miss me. Last time I saw him, on Sunday, he looked very sad. He gave me a hug.

Do I need to try the no contact thing or can I try to reconcile with him sooner? I thought I'd be okay, but the more time that passes, the more I regret letting him go so easily!

[jabumana]

Would this method work a second time, on the same person?