3 Signs You'll Never Get Your Ex Back

3 Signs You'll Never Get Your Ex Back

In this video were going to discuss;
Sign #1 - You Don't Execute Your Plan
Sign #2 - You Fail To Call Audibles (AKA Adapt)
Sign #3 - Your Ex Is Completely Unresponsive No Matter What You Try

This may seem a bit scary to talk about but since your watching this you will have an advantage and almost have a sort of precognition so that you can possibly prevent these things from happening.

Sign #1 - You Don't Execute Your Plan
You should have a structured game plan when it comes to getting your ex back and my clients follow either a 21 day, 30 day or 45 day no contact rule. This enables them to recover themselves while they are apart from their ex. This is vital in getting him back in most situations. You need to come back to the relationship with a more logical approach instead of an emotional one. Clients that have broke, this no contact rule over and over have less of a chance of getting back with their ex each time it is broken. The other parts of the plan that are key to getting back together is the texting phase and rebuilding attraction; however, if you break your plans by sleeping with your ex right away or going from a first text to asking him on a date right away your chances of getting back together lower significantly.

Sign #2 - You Fail To Call Audibles (AKA Adapt)
So, when your plan doesn't go as you originally mapped out you will need to be able to adapt. This is where coaching comes in handy. Your coach should be able to steer you in the right direction and get you back on track if there is a kink in the plan. For example, I had a coaching client that was doing a 45 day no contact because she gnatted her ex. She cried and begged him not to breakup with her. She did all of the mistakes that will need some extra no contact time; however, she found out that he was going to have to leave the country for work. But he had a choice on where and when he could take this other position. In that case I shortened her no contact to 30 days and started the rebuilding process slowly. Ultimately, he decided to take the job closest to her and they got back together. As you can see, if she waited the full 45 days and he had to make a decision within two months that would not leave her a lot of time to rebuild the attraction needed for him to stay close by.

Sign #3 - Your Ex Is Completely Unresponsive No Matter What You Try
If your ex has ignored every attempt you've made and you've been trying to get him to acknowledge you for over 6 months it may be time to move on.

[mariannakrejniuk]

It's not necessarily about the ex who's not responding to your phone calls but rather about the fact that they don't respond to your changes (improvements) at all. But if you've done the personnal develepment and actions properly, normally they do do respond. Most of the time if they don't respond, it's becauae you haven't done your work properly.

[mailisaf]

So if he not responsive, is better to find another guy

[heidimurphy]

Hi Chris can i do no contact if I slept with other people after the breakup, is there still a chance for me?

[laureensalinas]

We had an argument then he decided to just not respond to my apologies then he completely blocked me on everything.. I dkw what to do.. we haven’t talked for almost 2 months now.. does his unresponsiveness means he is not coming back? 😔

[annacoolmum]

Hi Chris do I do the no contact if I'm the one who dumped him. And he doesnt know what he wants.

[harithat]

my ex left me 23 days ago...it's not a genuine reason I think..but he loved me too much I think..he said me that his marriage is going to decide by his parents and he is fear to talk about me to his parents because we are neighbors...he left me with tears..but I don't know what to do...he said me that he is going to delete my photos n contact..but he is friend in fb and not deleted my number...I am totally broken and cried and begged to him ....then am in no contact period..he posted new photos in fb.. during the breakup he said me that there is no possibility of being together in our future..so u must forget me..like that...I don't know what to reply

[outdose]

Me and my ex broke up at least 2 weeks ago and she just shows she doesn't care. She tells me she loves me as a friends and cares for me but just wants to be friends. Today I was dumb having a mental breakdown I said that I'm thinking of killing myself I told her that I was just talking crazy I'm gonna try no contact for like 3 weeks.

[jean-luccastagnede]

I got back in touch with the girl I cut contact with five years ago. She’s responsive, and open to hear what I have to tell her. She even told me she “likes the idea of us trying something together but I’m afraid of the result”

I guess the door is slight ajar because she hasn’t explicitly told me she doesn’t want anything to happen.

[DarkMelody]

Hello Chris,
How can I get one on one coaching with you?

[kevinhobson]

Chris ....me and my ex were together for 6 months the break up she allowed me to keep the mobile phone contract i have in her name ....is this a good sign we will get back together?

[LUNA-mvvn]

Gosh it's horrible I just broke no contact after a week by going to his place begging and pleading him to come back to me but he just pulls away and become cold saying we are never getting back together because I'm toxic and frustrated I asked him he wants me to get out of his life and he said yes I'm sorry so I just had gave him a word saying I made you whole but you crushed me and I walked away 😳 after that he didn't message me until today it's been 2 days now. he seemed very happy breaking up with me I don't know if its for good or what but I started no contact again for real but for a new reason to be a better me, I don't wanna focus on him right now but myself first if he comes back he comes back but hope it's not too late if he won't then I'll just accept it. But to be honest I can still feel the pain it's very deep since we dated for so long.

[omerakyildiz]

Dear chris my ex gf dump me because i inappropriate touch her down there but she touch me down there first and i was ok with it we been dating for almost 10.
When it was my 17th birthday me and my ex went to the movie together and i touch her down there she didn't say anything about 2 weeks later she wanted to broke up with me because i touch her down there but now we are giving eachother space now but i really love her we had a good relationship together i need your help to get her back and show her i can change

[Danimal]

My ex is unresponsive and unnecessarily blocked me and is with a new guy (all happened quite fast). Short of waiting for a while and just SHOWING UP, there is nothing I can do, even for closure, which I obviously don't want, but she's inflexible and incapable of forgiving me and moving past the hurt/anger. I also believe it has A LOT to do with the fact that she has a new man in her life (already) and she doesn't want me getting in the way. It's as though our 2 years together meant nothing at all to her. Feels very heartless and cold. Any advice?

[renep]

My ex lives 40 miles away. I treated her like a Queen, then she dumped me, yet she’s coming to my town, to visit all the places I took her to, and posting the pics on I/G. It’s been just over 30 days into No Contact. Why is she visiting the places I used to take her to?

[thechristovgerhardshow]

I have a question what does it mean if my ex still texts me just saying hi what does that mean

[Vishalkumar-peit]

Me and my ex didn’t talked since three months and now she texted me on my birthday which was on 11th June, I replied her with the thank u text, and now she has her birthday on 26th June, what should I do, should I text her birthday wish ?

[HasLove]

My ex broke it up with me a month ago, through an email, i said okay and moved on. Iy was very hurtful, but i accepted what he asked for. I know there wasnt a huge problem, he just made an impulsive behavior and said what he said, but couldn’t take it back. A month later- on my borthday he emailed wishing happy birthday saying hope all is well.
I didn’t respond. Its been a week after that day. I went through same trauma as when he broke up over email.
A day ago i found out that he unfriended me on fb (he is a guy cancer/leo cusp). I really don’t know what to do but i am hurting ... is this the end? Or he is angry i didnt respond and thinks that i moved on and to move on he took me off fb to not see pictures or new things to remind him of me.? Do you think i did the right thing to not answer to the bday email? Also do you think i shall send an email and talk about the pain he had caused. I feel that he is hurting too, and wants to talk to me, but again who knows

[jerryswackeyfunadventuresl]

I am not worth dating I have failed every time I had a girl I even lost two wife's I just don't have what it takes to be with a woman

[pragatimukherjee]

Hi Chris,
Let me know how shall I contact you via email or Skype? I need your advice, I am quite vulnerable and unstable right now. It would be helpful if you can guide me.

Thanks

[angelhill]

My ex left me about a week ago and he blocked me on everything but he unblocked me texting a bit asking if i was okay but my friend told me he was with one of my friends and he was and then he was saying sorry about that and he left her and i just dont understand what is going on and then he also said he wasnt comming back to me and blocked me later on .what should i do?