Different ways of LEAVING a narcissistic relationship

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[sushmayen]

Never let the narcissist know that you can see through them. Because if they get to know they'll up their game and become more toxic. Leave quietly if possible.

[Serrasongs]

I left a covert narcissist that I was with for 3.5 years almost a week ago. I left everything behind to save myself from the abuse that I didn't even understand. I never knew about (Lovebombing, Devaluation, Discard, Hoover). I've never heard of these cycles of abuse.

They wanted me broken down, depressed and would have been happy if I was dead. They would have loved the attention.

They may have started human. But that part of them died years ago.

We are not supply.
YOU are not supply.

To the narcissists in THIS GROUP, who are stalking, watching, waiting...WE SEE YOU.

STAY STRONG MY TRIBE.

Thank you Dr. You have made a difference in my life. ❤

[lourdeswright]

The best way to leave a narc-relationship is- - -FAST! They are demons unable to change. Move away from them, and don’t leave your new address behind. 😊

[craigyanta]

None of us require anyone in our lives that treat us like crap. Pragmatic realism.

[Luckymillion]

And when we fight back we become the Perpetrator

[youngblood]

Even when you leave a narcissist you're giving them supply. Because they love the game of HIDE and SEEK, so they can SEARCH and DESTROY you.

[stellastar]

I moved to another continent and I can tell you the distance really made the healing a bit easier. But nothing is easy about leaving a narcissist.

[ricardajames]

My narcissistic mother moved into a retirement home 2 yrs. ago. 3 months after she left, I started to get on my spiritual healing journey. I have NO desire to see her, be in her company, speak to her, or anything. This is my time, and I'm working on myself. I'm no longer going to give my energy to someone who never loved me and only used me. I love myself. I'm worthy and enough. I'm going to enjoy MY TRUE LIFE!! Blessings to everyone 🙏 ❤

[doreenmarierivera]

Please get out anyway you can.
My son is sitting in jail due to his narcissist weaponizing the judiciary system against him. He has sent me many pictures of the physical abuse that he has endured from her… She has even gone so far as to beating him up in his sleep. He has stab wounds/scars…. Black eyes, multiple scratches all over his body and the latest is a big scar across his nose from where she bit him and he has to look at that as a reminder every single day.
She calls the police when he defends himself. I asked him why he never called the police on her, and he just doesn’t think that he will be believed due to society always thinking that it’s the man that is abusive.
The only reason he even stayed with her in the first place, is because they have a daughter together. There is now a restraining order in place and he is unable to see his daughter. She cut off the rest of the family as well… Weaponizing their little daughter against all of us. I’m still trying to figure out if she’s a narcissist, or a bat shit crazy, but I think it’s a combination of both.
Please pray for my son… 🙏

[CTHou]

It took me 26-years to break from my neglectful/covert narcissist. I spent years confused all while my narc was grooming me to fawn, accept devaluation and doubt myself self worth. Dr Ramani helped me put words to what I was experiencing in the shadows of my marriage - because it for sure was not and still is not visible to others.

Thank you dr Ramani for helping me find my footing, my voice, my self esteem, my pride, and mostly the strength to leave

[TorgerVedeler]

For me, the biggest thing is realizing what narcissism is and that you are in such a relationship. Once I had a name for what kept happening to me, I could make better choices and understand that I had to get out. That’s where these videos have been so valuable. Thanks!

[pinkmeadows]

The rock bottom for me was when I was in my teens and the person(narc) told me “I dont like you, I never liked you.” Said person was a family member that I called out behavior that was affecting me and others. They started attacking me whenever they could and got a few others to join in. Its a nightmare and very disappointing. These type of people hold very deep grudges and resentment.

[nanaanan]

I focused on building my new life, more than leaving them. I knew nothing about narcissism back then. Seems I was with a covert narcissist. They don’t change. Instead of focusing on that, I focused on changing my life in a way that simply didn’t include them. When I finally succeeded, smear campaign, and all the things happened. It was a rough transition, but I’ve got to tell you … I look around every now and again and SAVOR being without the toxicity.

[queenhearts]

They go no contact when they owe you money, refuse to pay a court judgment against them, or pay child support. This is especially true when they have found new supply. ☠️

[SandraLeeWyllie]

50 ways to leave your lover! Just slip out the back, Jack! making new plans, Stan! Actually the best way for me was "Ghosting" and deleting on all platforms! They don't deserve an explanation!!!

[DominieRobinson]

I simply QUIT taking calls from toxic abuser 'frienemies' . And I Completely STOPPED feeling compelled to EXPLAIN myself Or Explain Why I stopped taking their calls or communicating with them. When they go Toxic, I go SILENTLY GONE !!! No more Explaining ! No more Guilt No more explanations . Period !

[dodosmamma]

My narcissistic ex-husband has a herd of flying monkeys and his smear campaign was so debilitating for me. The lies he told (and still tells) were something I never anticipated.

He made profiles for me on dating sites, signed me up to review sex toys and trashed me in every possible way. He even accused me of having a relationship with a patient which led to a disciplinary process and I thought I’d be fired and lose my license to practice medicine. When that didn’t work, he accused me of taking narcotics from the controlled drug cupboard and using them for myself or selling them onto others.

All of this heartbreak was my punishment for having the temerity (his exact words ) of divorcing him.

Had it not been for your channel, may still be stuck in the marriage with a snake of a husband. Your help in sharing knowledge and tactics used by narcissists gave me the clarity of mind and the courage to leave.
Bless your heart. 💕🙏

[halledwardb]

I saw this title and my brain thought

"Just hop the bus

[QuiteContrary]

My only grief or regret is that I felt so desperately alone for years. He made the world seem a terrifying place and the only safe place was with him and doing everything he said or bad things would happen. Didn't even know what a narcissist was, I just thought he was closet woman beater. Not like I could go look up "woman beater" anywhere and not get caught. Can you imagine? I would have left, if I had a dime or anywhere to go but he'd taken everything and isolated me from everyone. The longer I stayed the crazier I thought was going and the more he told me I was crazy, the more afraid I was to leave because I thought I'd lost my mind and couldn't function. It was easier just to go through the motions and try to be good so I wouldn't get berated or hurt. THANK GOD for these videos. It took a week of watching them to change my life, recognize evil and know that I wasn't crazy at all. But even knowing all this I am still STUPEFIED that there are these evil humans just walking around, looking like everybody else.

And THANK YOU for everybody who comments. That's what really makes me feel like I am not alone in the world at all. You are all wonderful and I love you.

[serena]

Amen! Amen! Although, my heart hurts right now...I am also relieved that I am done. It was time for me to see clearly how important no contact is for me. I gave my all and everything to someone who defended himself and justified his behaviors. I was always wrong. It's difficult to pick up my own boot straps...but I'm doing it and I'm not stopping now. God Bless You Dr. Ramani and everyone else going through such horrific abuse. 🙏