How to Get Men to Approach You Attract Quality Guys

When it comes to dating, the more people you talk to, the more options you have. And options = power.

So, how can you get more high-quality guys to approach you when you're out without feeling like you're coming onto them too strong?

Back in the day, before I started coaching women, I used to coach men and work with them on their body language and help them connect with women. And here's one thing you should know about most guys: they would rather die than be rejected by a woman they're attracted to.

When they're out in a bar, what do they do? They scan the room and look for the woman who is least likely to reject them. So, here are some strategies to make sure you look more approachable.

[xxx-ehs]

My advice to women: just stare at the guy you like. It's that simple. We all know you don't want "any guy", you want a particular guy that attracts you. So just look around find out the guy you would actually like to meet then just look at him. Your body language is already enough to tell a guy you are into him and * if * he is also into you he will stare back at you and approach you, eventually. It's not that hard, body language tells the whole story.

[mindfulculturecreators]

I like to give a genuine compliment, usually wardrobe based, sometimes smile. That always works like a charm.

[karenjensen]

When my marriage broke up and I was newly single I found a hotel lounge with a piano bar. I don’t drink much but I sat at the bar and got got friendly with the bartenders.
I found it very easy to strike up a conversation with a guy who sat down next to me or was standing near the bar. It wasn’t long before this really cute guy sat down next to me one night. I think I made a comment about a news story on television. The rest was history. We were together for 24 years until he passed away.

[brendah]

This is truth. Every time, I hang out with a male friend…. I NEVER get approached 1:53
Facts

[brendah]

2:40
Is this the reason the bar is in the center of a room? 🤔

[brendah]

Not that I would do this… 6:03
But doesn’t that solve the issue of men feeling rejected? It wouldn’t be rejection then

[brendah]

Always 3:13 try to smile. When you got a bad RBF? No body gonna approach you. Another fact

[EdelweisSusie]

What do you do if your friend is SO gorgeous, men always chat her up and ignore you? Just wondered

[CerridwenAwel]

What if I don't have a friend nor like bars and parties?

[Monntanaaxx]

What if my closest guy friend/s are gay? How could I get guys to approach me when out with them?

[ShareBearChelle]

So you used to be Will Smith from Hitch? 😂