Dating: Understanding Men : How to Get an Older Guy to Like You

Getting an older guy to like you involves maintaining a level of maturity and exhibiting intelligence that is easy for him to relate to. Attract an older guy with tips from a relationship specialist in this free video on dating.

Expert: Dr. Paul Vehorn
Bio: Dr. Paul Vehorn has been a nationwide talk show host on Sun Radio Network and IRN.com, and he has a Ph.D. in behavioral psychology.
Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz

[sayunijay]

Me reading people's old comments which were written 10years ago 😂
And wondering what might have happened after 🤣

[jaeT]

i love older men, they know what they want, they know what we want, and they have been there done that no need to play mind games, and they love unconditionally. :D

[AnnaMillr]

I'm 15 and i have a huge crush on a man who is 47! obviously that is not something that will ever be a realistic situation but i still like him<3

[papilow]

Mine is 35 and i'm turning 21. Caring ...thats what i really like about the older ones. He's not perfect but older guys don't beat around the bush. They let you know what they want and when they want. They're just overall more straight with you. What he said is true. older guys don't want a dummy. Unless he just wants sex. You need to have some brains to impress them, they don't want to be caring for you like one of their kids >:-(

[charmleneboni]

Since I was 7, I've liked men between the ages of 40-65

[MotherSwaqTerssa]

I am dating a 40 year old and I am 19 :) I love him so much

[theboringuynextdoor]

So what, I've got to study for a date?

[peepzstar]

ive actually in love with him ever since the first time i met him at my honor band concert...i never got to see him since but i still love him and always will. i hope he waits for me.

[musicallytalented]

i guess so. im 18 and crazy bout a 34 year old guy.

[emresudn]

Lolita was 12 and she was not INTO him he abused her

[shortylov]

Girls if you are not patient enough to wait to date that older man, then you're probably not ready to date them at all. If he says later because he wants a serious relationship and you can't wait it's because you are crushing on them, and and not looking ahead. When you think about older men you have to think of your responsibilities too, because if you marry an older man you help with finances, and maybe his kids Sometimes time is just the best teacher and if you can't wait it's because you are not ready. You are longing for affection but not a relationship. If you want the relationship and not just the man then you can wait and plan and think.. You need to think before you act ladies.

[MaddyKuhl]

you can know what love is at 14. most people try to anilyse what love is. that's not how it works. you just feel it and it's different for everyone. i fell in love at 13 and i know it was love. i'm 18 now and i still know it was. we lasted two and a half years. i don't think if it doesn't work out that it has to do with age. and as for kid. many people are highly mature by that age and i have seen a relationship like hers work before so that's a lie. they have been together for six years now.

[channel]

"...In terms of being up-to-date in communicating." I doubt he really even knows what he's trying to say there. Horribly worded.

[RLyon]

At 1:18 he said exactly why I like older men: What do you know?
This is why I like them, 'cause you can have many interesting conversations, of various issues... A cult man, who can represent a woman, as THAT WOMAN also can represent a man. It´s perfect. And would show that the brain is that other humid part of your body and it exists. Now if, this person is also sexually wise... okay, this is it. It's then more than perfect!

[AmberFaithChloe]

I know this guy who is living in the States who is 47, single & has two little boys. I am very attracted to him eventhough I am only 19 this year. He's into Asian girls & I am Asian & we've been exchanging mails since the day we got to know each other online. He's such a sweet person & very real too. I hope I'll be able to move to the States soon so that we can finally meet face to face.

[evhsguitar]

im 16 and at my crossfit gym is a 24 year old guy and i like him soo much.. i even have a secret handshake with him. im sure he probably just thinks of me as a little sister but my gosh, how i wish i could date him at some point in my life... i love him sm but he'll never know that. :(

[animekoi]

im a 13 yr old girl that likes an 17 yr old guy, me and him r only friends, in the past i kissed him on the cheek and he smiled confusingly without saying any words and so after in 10 minutes i asked him to take a picture with me and i stand right next to him and suddenly he grabbed me and he was hugging me in his arms and snuggling his head on to me and he wouldn't let go of me, i really want to know how can i make our friendship more than just friends and make him ask out me ...

[rezrunner]

im 21 and im dating a 31 year old guy. he doesnt mine that im still a little immature. =D

[sahnie]

I'm 21 and i like a 31 year old... doubt that will work out too...lol

[musicallytalented]

im british and im 18 years old....problem being i really like this guy who is handsome, funny and all that but he is 34. wat am i meant to do?