Why Do Narcissists NEED To Belittle?

Dr. Les Carter is a best selling author and therapist who has semi-retired to Waco, TX. For 40+ years he maintained a counseling practice in Dallas, conducting more than 65,000 therapy sessions and many workshops and seminars. He specializes in anger management and narcissistic personality disorder. Since creating his YouTube channel, his videos have received more than 115 million views.

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[Hatbox]

They can be brutally hateful. After so many of the put downs, you really begin to lose interest in sharing space with a narcissist.

[IzabelaWaniek-ix]

True. Narcisists are all about power and control and forcefulness and nothing about love, patience, respect, care and tenderness.

[leaamber]

I love these shorts so much because they make me feel validated while helping me understand the why.

[SteeleMagnolia]

I found that the more they are threatened by someone else's kindness, the worse the put downs will be. Their inability to show true compassion eats them alive, but they know that they have to fake it, in order to be halfway accepted.

[kelly]

They are VERY "small" minded..
They want & think that they are "entitled" to POWER, DOMINATION & CONTROL..
When in fact they are NOT..

[tyremanguitars]

the belittling is often subtle as well and they are good at hiding it so it can look like a compliment, I have experienced that a lot.

[alissahartling]

I did not realize I was married to a Narcissist, these shorts have described my ex-husband so well and has helped me understand it wasn't me, I am okay, I was not always wrong or the mistakes were not all my fault. This has helped me cope.

[aravind]

They always need information about victim because it is the fuel to punish the victim don't give any information hide everything otherwise you will face the consequences 😊

[fumarate]

They hate it when you question them the more nicer to them you are the more they treat you like shit.

[francesbernard]

Communal narcissists often demand recognition for how according to them they possess superior morals. When they do not get that recognition for being morally superior then they will go out of their way to do fault finding of anyone who no longer frequents their distinct in communal narcissism public places.

[BrightStarMorning]

Dr Carter - “you have to be little to belittle” Thank you for being so brilliant and caring enough to spread your much needed words of encouragement to all! May God Bless You. A very merry Christmas to you and yours ❤🎄

[N.gVanUytrecht]

They Like To Keep Someone On The Line, And They Believe They Know You better Then Yourself

[mozh]

Yeah..
Narcissists are so cruel that they mock others belittle others.. immediately as someone points them out how mean they are, they point out others flaws!!
They are entitled to think that it's normal to mock others!!

[joannbyrd]

Shut them down by your silence and no contact means exactly that. No contact, Especially if they're physically abusive. Take back your life and never look back.

[Shortstacksandticktacks]

I recently became very aware of how good I feel around people who do the opposite, speak highly of others who aren't in the room, especially when it comes across as genuine and appreciative.

[allanfischer]

They belittle because they want to bebig.

[jeffreyjackson]

My deceased narcissistic father was such a person. I am the son of his five graduate from highschool and the only college graduate of all his children. The only one with a professional job. My success, in his eyes, emphatically spotlighted his failing at life, which he covertly couldn't stand.

[MasoudJohnAzizi]

Sharing an observation: Only the belittled belittle. Only the enlightened enlighten. Only the hated hate. Only the loved love.

[notbextley]

Then they think they're entitled to attention when they're ignored. What about them? 🤮

[leerubin]

They bully so that you won't have the strength to deal with their insanity!