I Think My Wife Cheated Again (Should I Ask Her?)

I Think My Wife Cheated Again (Should I Ask Her?)

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[pam]

Two immature, selfish people ruining the lives of their children. So sorry for the kids.

[BastianHelena]

I think I often have a problem with the way Dr. John categorizes affairs. No one accidentally hooks up with someone and has an affair or one night stand. Sex doesn’t just “happen” like in the movies. It’s a series of extremely intentional steps one makes to create the circumstances needed to hook up, have an affair, and hide it. No one accidentally falls onto a penis, or accidentally sticks his penis into someone else. I hate categorizing infidelity as something that “just happens”.

[FourSeasons]

One of the lessons I've learned is, those who cannot be trusted do not trust others.

[Sparkle]

He changed the dynamic of the relationship initially. She then had the same behaviour but he’s playing the victim. They’re both wrong

[shazondiabailey]

I think once she found out he cheated she left mentally and emotionally, but wasn't ready to leave physically. She never really forgave him or let it go.

[CrayolaCoffeeBean]

He shouldn’t have cheated to begin with. He broke the trust. She should’ve left instead of doing the same as him.

[Rouge]

I can’t stand guys who cheat on their wives and then get upset when she does the same thing to you.

[dayhikr]

I don't understand why people cheat on each other. If you don't want to be married, get a divorce.

[GR-ucgq]

Biggest learning lesson for this guy. Don’t cheat. Simple.

[evanl]

I could never picture my significant other physically with someone else. I would not be able to unsee that and would not be able to get back with them.

[alucero]

Dude can’t take it when the shoe is on the other foot. Wife is probably over the marriage emotionally since he cheated and she can’t trust him. Better for them both to move on at this point. He destroyed the marriage first and can’t come to terms with it. Cheaters never understand until it happens to them.

[sixthangel]

How do people have time to cheat? Kids, work, house work take so much time and energy. If both parents spend time cheating, who's caring for the kids and the home?

[sovemberneventh]

Trust is the easiest thing to break that takes so much effort to build.

[robbie]

Funny how a cheater is upset that he was cheated on. Hey Dr John, she can’t trust him. He cheated right after the wife had a baby. That’s hard to get over.

[bHneXyvm]

Once you cheat, it's over. There's no coming back from it, it's just over dude.

[ST-rjiu]

He opened the marriage and now he is mad she followed his actions. She is trying to replace him until she files for divorce. Women like to have a man before they leave a man (Not all but many)

[bloomingale]

Two wrongs don’t make a right. If she claims she forgave him, the marriage resets and now her cheating makes her equally culpable. She no longer as any moral high ground. Either forgive and forget, or move on if you can’t get over the betrayal.

[Ashley-wuht]

Cheating on a woman who just carried and gave birth to your child is just about the worst thing you can do at that time. You trashed her self esteem and trust in you. Exposed yourself as someone who’s cruel and can’t be relied on when your partner is at their absolute most vulnerable. How can she believe “in sickness and in health” could ever be true if you can’t even stay faithful while she’s at home taking care of your kids and healing. There’s no coming back from that. Dude threw his marriage away, she knows you have no respect for her now, time to end it and move on

[MiamiDreams]

You will never trust a cheater again. And both of you cheating is just a disaster. There will be no trust between the two of you. Get a divorce and get help.

[Mkay]

Y’all are in an open marriage. You opened it. Boo hoo