I Cheated on My Wife 8 Times (How Do I Tell Her?)

I Cheated on My Wife 8 Times (How Do I Tell Her?)

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[liesavillandre]

8 different people is not a mistake, that is a lifestyle.

[rebeccaoprea]

Confession is not repentance. Confession is getting things off your chest so you feel better while the other person now carries your weight . Repentance is changing your ways .

[dink-znkj]

My worst pain was when i found out my husband cheated on me all during our 27 year marriage. He was a bad husband too in other ways. i divorced him and he married 3 more times. I AM VERY HAPPY NOW AND FREE OF HIS BS AND LIES!

[BSCTrainerRob]

She's in her mid twenties she should leave and start over. Forget him

[myyt]

He didn’t cheat 8 times. HE HAD 8 DIFFERENT PEOPLE COUNTLESS

[grandma]

He starts by saying they got married when he was 18 - and married now for 8 years. My question is, why did he call her, in the first 30 seconds, "my CURRENT Sure sounds like, deep inside, he expects his confession to propel him into a different future. So he's going to hurt her so that SHE ends the marriage and he won't have to DO it himself. WHAT A selfish COWARD!

[LauraLParr]

Okay so you didn’t cheat 8 times, you cheated with 8 different people. That’s different dude. God knows how many times you have cheated. Let her go man. She deserves better than what you can give her today.

[midlifeandnailingit]

You tell her I cheated on you 8 times, so I’m going to file for divorce because you deserve better than me. Then you leave! Problem solved. This guy is unbelievable!

[AndrewTank]

He only wants to tell her so he can feel better.

[lorinmotta]

If they are approximately 26, the best thing is to split up and start over. They're still young, and she deserves better. It's devastating, but if they have no kids, now's the time to make that move.

[RocioLopez-wiqc]

As soon as he started listing his reasons for quitting cheating on his wife, all I heard was "I this, I that, me, me and me". I was so glad Dr. Delony pointed that out.

[JordanEvansMusic]

I’ve been in my relationship for 5 years and we’ve been married for 2 years. How the heck do people find time/opportunities to cheat. I don’t even talk to other women outside of church/work. But just from a sexual energy standpoint I don’t have anything left. Like I literally cannot fathom how I would find the time/energy to pursue that and hide it from my wife it seems like so much work to live your life this way

[taytayqueen]

The audacity of this guy to portray himself as a victim.

[sitcheyr]

Did he just seriously say it’s completely unfair to HIM that she won’t give him her full trust? 🤮 I hope she walked.

[haleytruslow]

I have a STRONG aversion to cheaters. And 8 different people? I hope she leaves and finds someone who deserves her.

[specialK]

It makes me truly want to vomit that people can cheat once, twice, any amount of times, and then come home and kiss their spouse and lay down next to them in bed. How sickening. I've been through it and I ugh, prayers for this man and definitely his wife.

[claireemily]

The cheating isn’t going to hurt her half as much as the deception is

[chitlinjuice]

I truly don't think it's possible to love someone and cheat on them. If you cheated on them, you never loved them or respected them enough in the first place. People think they love folks but the truth is shown with action, not words.

[amandabrittenden]

Cheating is a deal breaker in my marriage. I was cheated on many times before I met my husband and I know for a fact that he'd never do that to me, but if he did it would instantly be over. It would rip my heart out. I won't allow myself to be treated like that. My ex gave me an STD and still denied cheating on me. As if I'm stupid. That's not happening to me again. Be a man, tell her what you did and be prepared for a divorce.

[HiyaNope-psyg]

My knees buckled and I felt nauseous when he said 8 different people and I'm not even married to him. WHAT!!! I feel so bad for his wife.