I Cheated on My Husband (Should I Tell Him?)

I Cheated on My Husband (Should I Tell Him?)

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[VliengWieng]

My wife did this to me, she told me that she 'kissed a guy' and that it was a mistake and it was over, I took us to counselling. The therapist saw through her lies in 5 minutes and she cracked open. Turns out she had a full blown emotional and sexual relationship with a coworker for a year. I'm divorcing her now. Cheaters are the biggest selfish assholes on earth.

[nikkole]

Why do people refer to cheating as a “mistake”? It’s not a mistake. Cheating is a choice. You do not trip and fall and land on another man or woman’s privates. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[rossmanngroup]

What the heck is this? She found herself in an unhealthy relationship? Found herself? Like she had nothing to do with engaging that relationship, starting that relationship, participating in that relationship? She just found herself there. The way I find a dollar on the floor.

[christiancanan]

She cheated.
She manipulated the situation.
She gaslighted him by lying.

[kunya]

"I found myself in a relationship"
"He just started talking to me"
"We ended up sleeping together"
"I made a mistake"

No accountability. At all. If she had any she'd say "I chose to cheat on my husband. It was awful and now I don't know what to do."

[zerocrutch]

She didn’t just betray her husband. She betrayed her whole family. Poor kids.

[fullmetal_neet]

This woman isn’t sorry for cheating. She’s sorry she got caught. When asked what would do differently, she never said she wouldn’t have cheated.

[deleon]

John is way easier on this woman than other men who have called in regarding the same subject. Come on John.

[biancav]

The fact that when she was asked “if you could do this all over what would you do differently?” And she didn’t immediately say not cheat on my husband speaks VOLUMES

[drewdjv]

As a married man - this really hurts my heart

[spencersmith]

This is so awful. Charles Spurgeon once said, "So many times we trade an ocean of trouble for just a teaspoon of pleasure." Sin is a dreadful thing that should never be entertained.

[serendipitouscomet]

He said “bravery.” People love to sugar coat things for women and put them on a pedestal.

[aaroncoles]

He gotta get outta there. She doesn’t love him. He was just the “safe” guy.

[jonos]

Imagine you are a happy married husband and you casually listen to youtube, suddenly you hear your wife.

[d.barrett]

The fact she lowkey admitted the affair only stopped because the husband found out about the messages is sickening.

[DisIzDaName]

She's a cheater.
She's a liar, even when caught.
She's STILL looking for validation for her decision to keep the truth from her betrayed husband.

Every day she keeps it from him compounds her betrayal with another lie of omission.
The longer she waits, the worse it'll be.

[jasonbourne]

“I was in an unhealthy relationship” I swear, these girls can’t just admit what they did.

[ultimouomo]

If the husband hadn’t found out about the communicating right after the hook up had occurred, she would have happily continued cheating with the trainer at the gym. But she got caught ‘communicating’ so she had to cut her losses before her husband found out about the sexual affair. I hope the husband has the courage and self respect to leave her and never look back. She knew EXACTLY what she was doing every step of the way; and she doesn’t deserve a second chance. She said she lied because she was scared about losing everyone & everything? Funny how that fear didn’t cross her mind when she made the choice to throw it all away.

[michaelchamberlainart]

Ever notice that women almost never call it cheating. It’s always “a relationship with” or “an entanglement with”. Just my anecdotal perspective.

[PropaneIsLife]

This is the worst type of person: her husband didn’t like her hanging out with that guy and told her his reason, she says nothing will happen and continues to hang out with him. Something happened and then she lies about it for months/years. BTW she’s still lying, I really doubt they only hooked up once, why would you cheat on your husband and only do it once? It wasn’t the guilt, because she’s been flirting for months…