How My Parents Treat Me Like My Younger Sister's Twin

[cassandrafoley]

I can't imagine being belittled like that for so long.

[justpassingbytheway]

So basically what I got from this story is OP is a child who listen to her parents while op's sis (who is already spoiled) doesn't, parents can't control the sis because she just ignore's them.
Yes it is normal to hate your sis in these circumstances,
AND you don't need to worry because yours sis loves you op cause people wouldn't cline to someone who they hate when they are vulnerable/scared...

[lindah]

If OP plans on college or trade school, just play nice with the parents for now if they're paying. If they aren't, check into grants and student loans. OP will get some distance with that. After graduation, disappear. Get a job out of state. The farther from the parents and sister, the better.

[DoesNotConcernYou]

Why having children shouldn’t be a right. It should be earned. Same as a license.

[kazoosc]

break the similarity. break the tie by going a different route. style, your own interests/hobbies
.. outline all of the inconsistencies of your parents - a list of grievances clearly delineating their favoritism and hypocrisy
.. a major break would be secondary education - going to a different school .. making friends without the associations

[darthbiscuit]

OP will feel much better when she gets some distance

gotta move out of that house

[butternaan.]

nta, parents are raising an abusive narcissist and your sister is just as bad

[msnawrecka]

When are you leaving for a job or college.