it's time to let go.

Simon Kim
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[wholesomesimon]

I know I've taken a break from posting adventure or longer videos, but will be hopefully creating some soon :)
For now, enjoy these short words written from spurts of thoughts I've had over the past week.
Much love

[borusaa]

Everything ends and it's always sad, but everything begins again, too. And that's always happy. Be happy.

[jinsomi]

"what's meant to stay will stay." i really needed to hear this

[wyjaehan]

I lost the girl I love the most, because I was blind to how I've been hurting her. I spend hours dwelling on the past, thinking about how I regretted everything. She still loves me, and I still love her. But it's time to let go so we can both heal and become our own person. We are apart now, but still connected. I hope she becomes the person she's always wanted to be, and that she knows I'll always be there for her. Letting go means that I love her. And I've let go.

[eleanorhesketh]

I lost 2 of my best friends about June-July 2021 and I feel like it was my fault aswell. I really felt so annoyed at them at first because I made these fake scenarios in my head saying that they were always talking about me but it really wasn't true. I always assumed that whenever they saw me all they throught about was how horrible I am. I still believe that the relationship ending was half my fault and half theirs but whatever it was I feel so extremely lonely all the time. I do have friends but they just don't compare to how much fun I had with my old friends. I am finding it hard to let go and forget. Mainly because I feel like they acted like I was invisible even months after we broke up. They moved on so fast and I feel like I am still stuck in July 2021. They made new friends and now I am stuck with people who I don't not like but I have had more exiting relationships with other people.

People always say that if you talk to someone it will help and a few weeks ago I finally did talk to my parents. It didn't do anything at all. They gave me tips and said they were allways here to help but I still feel stuck.

Thanks for reading I really do appreciate it and it does help Simon to know that I can relate to someone like you with something like this.

[cloverloser]

I really needed this today. I’ve been stuck with the thoughts of not wanting to let a certain friend go. I’ve come to realize that it’s not that I want to be friends with them again but the fact that I don’t want to let go of the past. Definitely needed a reminder to say that it’s ok to let go and that everyone has a different path to take. I really love the small simple video you posts too. Sometimes it’s good to have a simple reminder ❤️

[christinen.]

Always take breaks when needed and letting go can be hard but it just takes time, stay safe and healthy, love you Simon <33

[nathancombong_]

I think good friends support you no matter what. As adults, we should learn that things aren't the same as it used to be. We are faced with challenges and responsibilities that we no longer have enough time to hang out with others and it is totally fine. Appreciate those who stayed simon. Like you said, what or who is meant to stay will stay. Love this video☺️

[bluefyre]

you have no idea how much i needed this, thank you

[Chen.roblox]

Yes I lost some many friends.
Edit: For some reason every year I make a friend I also lose one.
I feel like in whatever friendship I’m in I’m always doing the work so it won’t fall apart :(

[mina-uwu]

thank you simon, i rlly needed this. my friend of almost a year now had to go for a while and im just missing him everyday. it's gonna be our one year in may and words can't describe how greatful i am for meeting him at the right time. he saved me from going down a deep path that i haven't been wanting to see again for the rest of my life. it's just hard when you don't know when they'll be coming back.. hopefully sooner than later <3

[idk]

This video made me sad. I hope ur okay Simon. You’re not lonely. You have us if that makes you feel better. Your very inspirational and you took this in a very mature way. I hope this small text makes you happy. I hope you have a great and awsome day/night

[paulajurczak]

Whenever I hear it’s best not to hold on if it’s not benefiting everyone, I don’t want to hear it or believe it. But it’s always what I need to hear. I’m sorry you lost a friend. You were right tho success doesn’t mean you have to be lonely

[o.o]

I cut off my best friends exactly two years ago from now and letting go of them was hard but one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I believe that it benefited all of us.

I took some time to just be independent and change my environment/who I surrounded myself with. So now I have pretty great friends but I’m having trouble staying close with them. They all have pre existing relationships with each other so I sometimes feel isolated. Also, we’re all focused on our education so it’s hard to keep in touch with them 24/7. However when we are together, it feels like we’re with each other all the time.

[rory]

This is so beautiful, simon. I've been struggling a lot these days and your videos are really helping me stay calm.i just wanted to say thank you for that

[DevRaj-whsp]

I just randomly saw a video that named "a video when you are sad" and i watched that it was 2y ago vdeo and then i start exploring thi Channel and when i was at my low destiny let me met to this channel when i really needed

[mxurene]

hey hey simon,

I don't want to believe that you have to be lonely in order to be successful either. I remember reading a comment you replied to about success and you are right; that it all depends what success means to us. it may change for sure but it doesn't have to be just one thing. can be a mix of things like the right company, time for yourself, being out in nature, etc etc!! choosing or not choosing something is still a decision being made. it doesn't have to be all black and white but its hard to find a middle ground for sure. its like a seesaw id say because it's like bouncing to either side but it takes a lot of intention to be both balanced eh? trial and error. you're also right that there can be beauty in taking whatever it is, just how it is. yes, we are allowed to grieve over the "should haves" or "could haves". if those are some of the consequences that comes for daring to love, so be it. but that doesn't mean you have to stay living in your mistakes. you can live life carrying the love you have for them even if its from a distance. they can show through feelings of nostalgia and smiling about those moments. or even show through tears. but this time you showcased it through your art; this video. thank you sososo much for sharing the love. take care, simon. I mean it!!

[Yygrizz]

Today was the first time in 2 years that really reached out to my friends and hung out with most of them today. I isolated myself for 2 years and my friends would still call me and text me time to time and I would ignore their calls and texts for 2 years but I finally reached out today and we got back together instantly like nothing happened. I mean a lot happened but they knew I was just going thru depression and I just wanted to isolate myself. My doctor told me I’m very lucky to have friends like this because most people don’t. I didn’t realize that but then when she told me and I realized I became a lot more grateful for my friends.

[degrees]

Real friends stay, even when you're busy.

[cd]

I lost basically all my friends after Covid... instead of keeping in touch online... we just... drifted. I tried to reconnect a few times but no one really seemed too interested. I've let them go now... but it still doesn't fill the void that they left.