7 Things People Think They Know About the INFJ Male

INFJ man, do people assume they know you when they really don’t? Check out these 7 popular misconceptions people have of you as an INFJ male and see if you can relate to what they're missing about you.

[larryhart]

As an INFJ male I usually feel alone in a crowded room, most people do not get me. Good vid thank you.

[brucedelong]

I have always felt like i was an outcast. People always avoided me because of my different outlooks. I never thought to look into the 16 personalities. And I've taken the rest multiple times and always got this. But it helps to hear videos about it and hear others outlooks.

[BryanChance]

#8. They take your kindness as a weakness.

[seansollars]

I'm an INFJ and I enjoy fixing and making old things new again.

[yohananrhinehart]

Is it normal for INFJs not to remember anything (hardly) from their life. I tend to forget conversations and experiences. I remember in small pieces--every now-and-then.

[MetalOfSweden]

You are incredibly intelligent and full of quality as a person overall, easy to spot. Wish you great fortune! You surely deserve thousands and thousands of views :) ( Problem is that "we" INFJ:s are so few, and others "aren't like us" so they won't spend time learning about others and their POVs and personalities, the way we tend to do :)

Keep at it brother!

[JJboston]

It's more like 1 in 400 males. It's 1 in 100 for females.

[NdoNosCI]

I was genuinely surprised by how much I felt connected to the things you were saying. Thank you.

[zzluna]

Ok, i took the test yesterday which in turn brought me here ( INFJ-A/INFJ-T)...the result and the description literally shocked me because it was so true. It is true that most of the time people misunderstand me, or they think I am a very hard to understand and I do stay very mysterious... Also, I hate this intuition stuff you mentioned because most of the time my intuition is right 99.99% of the time...and yes I never say anything about me and always stay calm and patient... either this test is a scam or it is just too precise and it shocked me... whatever it is, now I finally know why I think certain way...
I cannot find everybody as fun and I am very picky when it comes to hanging out with people, not that I like solitude, I cannot seem to find the right people who relate to my thoughts... It kinda puts me out of most social "circles". But when I find the right people, we just vibe like crazy !

[ericm]

I've watched probably 10 of your videos, and normally they are 100% true, but I can relate to all of the examples here except the "handyman" part. Ever since I was a kid I've loved figuring out how things work. I've always loves taking things apart and putting them together, and that has made me really good at fixing things. It isn't so much from the joy of doing it, but more from learning how those things tick. Also, I've found that fixing and making things is something that I can do on my own and rarely needs a group to help me complete the task. Fix it projects are really therapeutic for me. Usually I can work on my own in a quiet room and learn how something works from start to finish then find the problem in the system and fix it.

[ROKMO]

This was very on point!! Wow, it's great to hear this especially coming from another male. Very encouraging and glad I'm not alone. Thanks again sir!!

[coppersense]

As a female INFJ, had honestly only planned to "eavesdrop" and learn about the male experience, listen and save my two cents -- then * jaw drop. Lol @ another, "TY! I"m not the only one" moment. Funny, played basketball for years, but always wished I'd played volleyball instead. I appreciate this brother ~ blessings

[martincichocki]

As usual-eloquent, illustrative, representative of the INFJ Male is this author. I have nothing but respect & appreciation for all the cool information!

[highhorseperthian]

As for me being INFJ people always say ' hey man, i know you and this girl or some friends of mine would totally get along with you because you share the same passions'. Im sorry but for in order for me to really like you its just how you look at the world and thats with an open mind, heart and how you verbally come across to me in your thoughts. i couldn't care about anything else. i get frustrated when people just get emotionally invested into a bad idea wich is obviously wrong. And here i am thinking to myself why that person would waste so much time and energy into a thought they havent even thought through properly in a non biased way.

[mikenoott]

Beg to differ on #6. Being an infj, i actually get my reprise from digging my hands and mind in to something. Gives me a chance to defrag my brain and focus

[ddoyle]

INTJ female married to an INFJ guy.. you're quite on point here! oh i laughed at that handyman one. he's so NOT a handyman. luckily, i can do a lot of those things. but def you INFJ guys have a lot of very special qualities!!

[TheBananaDeanna]

Males INFJ'S are rare & few! Would love to hear & learn more about our INFJ'S in all categories as well in all different ages would be helpful for process learning!
Your videos are always helpful an extremely informative for our growth so we can move forward.
Thank you so much in what you give!

[gadbenezer]

Some people think I dont have much emotion because i really dont care what they say about me, people tend think I don't cry but when I do they notice.

[ShawnCushnie]

It's funny because I can relate to all 7! Especially the one about "small talk" (sports and weather) and being a handyman. I hate doing anything physical like that.

[wfTitus]

I'm an INFJ, and working with my hands is one of my best strengths. The problem is getting the energy to do it 😆