7 Things Men Wish They Could Tell Women | Kingsley Okonkwo

Join me as i share 7 Things men wish they could share with women but cannot.

Chapters:
0:00 Intro
1:34 Men cheat because...
7:35 Men lie because...
10:08 Men deflect because...
11:42 Men are clueless because...
14:58 Men are afraid because...
17:04 Men need space because...
19:22 Men want sex because...

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[ednaayuk]

This right here just took some nagging of my husband away 🤣🤣🤣. Thank you Sir

[esthermanuamankwah]

Seriously, I don't understand why people are disagreeing to what Pastor K is saying. He is talking about an average man not a man controlled by the Holy Spirit. Even the men controlled by the Holy Spirit had these struggles but they were helped by the Holy spirit and they won't tell you so it makes you think they don't have such struggles. Be there and claim you disagree and suffer the consequences in your marriage. He repeatedly said he is not condoning such acts but he is giving you enough knowledge to help you better understand men and learn how to teach them what you want them to do for you. Isn't that simple? We should rather appreciate him because he has saved our stress in trying to understand our men.

[durbansaladyinaccra]

I dont agree that men were "not structured" to have one woman. God brought only one woman out of Adam's rib. It is the spirit of lust that makes men struggle to be faithful and it has to be overcome like all other things in us that grieve the spirit of God in us.

[akahokafor]

This is why every woman should hook up with a man who knows the Lord. The teaching is about the average man, not the saved and Holy Spirit helped-man.

[angeljameschinerye]

I like the fact that he tells us problems and gives solutions to us also.

[adebilikis]

I am a good muslim who became your fan just recently, i love and appreciate your deep knowledge and awareness of human psychology, your presentation and humour.

I have other counselors too.

Above all i applaud your sincerity for the truth . Being a Christian would have prevented you from saying it (polygynous nature of man ), but you honour God's way and His choice to have created His creation -man that way,
Good of you man .

[liz]

These men should pray and ask for the discernment of the Holy Spirit to help them not to cheat, lie, deflect, not to be clueless, and not to be afraid. Women can also benefit from this, I know I did.
Thank you, PK!

[chidimmanwachukwu]

Very interesting to watch. But men still need to apply self control. It's important

[LL-cbuw]

It’s within the flesh for everyone to cheat both men and women - the difference between the two is discipline through the respect you hold for God and yourself…

[chinonblokebboys]

Wow, pastor just exposed us.😅 Everything he said is true.

[Es_Elle]

Ladies, let us remember that we as mothers have to raise our male children to have values and respect for women. It only can't be left up to fathers to teach their sons. Mothers have just as much responsibility to bring insight and perspective to the table!

[eneiyoko]

This is a fact but absolutely heart breaking for a woman.

[Beloved_Boahemaah]

Not even done watching the video and #1 has me like 😳😳

“Women control sex and men control security.”

Thank you and God bless you Pastor K!🙏🏿

[FadeLuse]

The long and short: MEN NEED TO BE TAUGHT WHAT TO DO!

The big question is: Mothers, do we know what to teach them? Wives, are we teaching them or getting mad and angry at them?

I think that's the purpose of this video and not to excuse any behavior.

[WNdaba]

Women struggle with staying with one man too. It's not easy. We have been trying to tell men too.

[freshangel]

I just realised this content isn’t for everyone especially the unstable ones:
I believe many are “triggered” by this content and calling it excuses for men because they don’t understand men- and this is exactly what he’s trying to teach us, not to *condone* or *enable* but UNDERSTAND how these things come up their root causes and the like.
Men don’t think like us women, truth is they won’t make considerations like us it’s almost like comparing every single person irrespective of age race or status to each other it just won’t work.
Let us learn to take in information with wisdom so that we can be well informed saying things like “there’s no excuse for cheating etc” is first of all being an unforgiving person but most importantly missing the whole point cheating May happen in some cases because men’s levels of processing repercussions are different from that of women etc!
Those that want to stay ignorant should do so but the truth is we women and the men aren’t the same and it’s better to learn how we are different ‘open-mindedly’ so casualties can be minimized!

[thereseanwi]

Good piece Pastor. You have really studied the psychology of men and women. God bless u Sir. Never a dull moment with your teachings

[oluyinkaoluwole]

Deep content.💚 I'm a woman and I subscribe to everything said here. Women need knowledge of how men are structured and it is called WISDOM when you apply knowledge to hold things together. If you reject this knowledge as a woman, you'll most likely suffer bitterness which doesn't destroy the man but you.

[adonaisservant]

This man is like a walking cheat code for this game we call life. Stay blessed pastor.

[BlessingSamuel-wk]

I'm blown by your generosity Sir for going out of your way to enlighten us because I know it must have cost you and it wasn't an easy decision to make.
May God show you a token for good so that all who hate you may know that he's your defender. Once again thank you do much Sir. You and your wife are a blessing to this generation and I'm grateful for the gift of you🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️