7 Things Men Say That Are Big Red Flags

7 Things Men Say That Are Big Red Flags

How many times have you heard something from a man that made your gut twist just a little… but you brushed it off?
Maybe you didn’t want to seem “too sensitive” or “dramatic,” so you let it slide.
But here’s the truth: men show you who they are early on—especially through their words.

In this video, relationship coach Ismael Gomez III breaks down 7 subtle but serious red flags hidden in common phrases men say. These aren’t just throwaway comments—they’re clues that reveal how emotionally available, ready, or healthy a man truly is for a relationship. And if you learn to spot these red flags early, you’ll protect your time, your peace, and your heart.

CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction
00:57 I Like You But...
02:01 I Don't Like Texting or Talking on The Phone
03:08 I've Never Met Anyone Like You...
04:05 Quick Announcement
04:26 I've Never Had A Healthy Relationship Before
05:13 Most Women Are This or That
06:12 You'd Be Perfect If You Just...
06:55 I Like Things The Way They Are
07:39 Conclusion

1. Sounds like he’s into you, right? But what comes after “but” often means he’s not ready—or not serious. Ismael shares how to decode this classic soft rejection.

2. Let’s get this straight: when a man is interested, he’ll make time. This excuse could be a sign that you’re not his priority—and that someone else might be.

3. It sounds romantic, but when it’s said too early, it’s often love bom-bing—a manipulation tactic to fast-track your emotional investment before trust is built.

4. Honest? Maybe. But it can also signal emotional unavailability and unresolved baggage. Are you ready to play the fixer?

5. When a man generalizes women with negativity, it reveals his core beliefs and biases—and trust us, they WILL surface later in your relationship.

6. This is emotional manipulation in disguise. Real love doesn’t ask you to change who you are to be “good enough.”

7. If he’s not evolving with you, he’s just enjoying what he gets—with no intention to grow together.

Why This Video Matters
You don’t attract what you want—you attract what you accept. Recognizing these red flags isn’t about being picky—it’s about protecting your standards. When you understand the deeper meaning behind a man’s words, you gain clarity, confidence, and the power to choose better. Whether you’re single, dating, or healing from a past relationship, this video gives you the tools to:
1. Spot toxic patterns early
2. Avoid wasting your time with the wrong man
3. Set clear emotional boundaries
4. Raise your standards without guilt
5. Cultivate emotionally healthy connections

Who Should Watch This Video?
1. Women tired of dating emotionally unavailable men
2. Anyone navigating red flag territory in their relationship
3. Women ready to attract love that feels safe, supportive, and real
4. Those seeking dating tips, love advice, and personal empowerment
5. Women learning to trust their intuition and honor their boundaries

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[SaveTheMessenger]

Decode His Mixed Signals & Confusing Words👇

[AnimalLover-dwwu]

Ladies, listen to your gut. If it doesn't feel right, it ain't right. 😗

[alexpeppa]

When he's recently broke up and he seeks for a new relationship, without first doing the necessary healing job, this I consider another red flag.

[peterpisspotty]

1. I like you BUT ...
2. I don't like texting or talking on the phone ...
3. I've never met anyone like you ...
4. I've never had a healthy relationship before ...
5. Most women are this or that ...
6. You would be perfect if you just ...
7. I like things the way they are ...

[qwyt_]

Wasted my time investing in someone who was just emotionally unavailable. He stopped pursuing in the first couple of months after love bombing me, but i was in too deep. It’s been three years now and I let go a while back… Guess who’s back in my messages.
Blocked and happily talking to someone else.

[virgogoddess]

i’m so happy i left my ex! that man had me so stressed out that i didn’t get my period for 3 months & i was crying every night! i was watching your videos back in october (before i left him) & i didn’t think i could leave him! but i did! haven’t talked to him in 6 months!!! if a man makes you feel worthless, you are so much better off without someone dragging you down!

[jamalma]

'I have never had a serious relationship" this was a red flag for me...!

[SutRingNaw-kj]

Im a guy and im always worried if my crush would see me as a red flag. So i am studying about myself

[blueskies]

Not only are these important things to know to prevent yourself from being used, but knowing these things may also save your life. Some dangerous people use the same tricks.

[Mysweetdogofmine]

It’s scary how men will even lie about their status. I dodged a bullet this time. He lied multiple times when I asked if he was married. Thank goodness we only talked in public never outside the place we would see each other. I found it weird that he would tell everything about his life in general. Next

[hobsyllwin]

3 and 4. To the EXTREME! I didn’t know love bombing existed before I met that creep. Needless to say it ended in disaster 😢

[akdl-tv]

very true: 'I don't want to hurt you'; 'you are unique'; 'of course, I care about you'; 'what we have is perfect'; 'I don't like phone calls', 'I'm not someone you want to be in a relationship with'; 'you are a free woman and we're not dating' (after 11 months) and this disappointing 'hello, what are you up to?' sent every two weeks to keep you waiting rather than let you move on. Galz: do not let him waste your time!!!

[lacandulafamily]

The man that ghosted me, said I like you, I will do everything for us to workout.😅😅😅

[janeyrevanescence]

I’d like to add “Have Faith in me/You set such a high bar”

My ex boyfriend told me that his mother despised me and that in order to keep the peace, he had to accept dates on Tinder.

I told him I didn’t like it but he persuaded me that I had set this high bar and that, even if he chose someone else, we’d still remain friends.

I should’ve run right then and there. But I accepted it.

Apparently the new girl was perfect for him after the first date. He was actually running to his second date with her when he told me he was dumping me.

Well I’m not staying friends with him. He’s blocked and I’m not taking him back when he inevitably crawls back.

[AmritaSari-tq]

Many men say I've never met a girl like you before. And you know I don't believe them. I'm so smart and they can't fool me. Ismael please I need your advice, how to get rid from ex boyfriend who is NPD? I always watching your video, I love your channel.

[shubhekshatiwari]

Girls, he is completely right. I had a relationship with this guy, we met online I never saw him on video calls but he sent me his photos. Whenever I try to video call him or call him, he be like I don't like talking face to face or on phone. Turned out he was cheating on me for the very first day and he used his friend's photo as his

[aleenaiftikhar]

You deserve millions subscribers 🎉🎉❤❤❤

[puresoultv]

Someone told me this before I never met anyone like you. He said because we have the same wavelength. He's an actor in their country. But I never heard him saying bad things about his past.I broke up with him after his birthday .

[YasminSultana-jv]

Bro it's feel like u just saved my life, though it's a little bit late but finnally it's over 🎉

[KivijoCutiePie]

I think you are right about texting and pursuing if interested enuf. Thank you for waking me up 😉👍