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[alevela]

The silent treatment is one of my dad's favorite forms of abuse. Living with him as a teen was soul crushing. This same man who would pretend I didn't exist nearly every day for years will go out of his way to be kind to strangers, makes friends on every vacation he takes, showers his other kid with love and financial support, and is generally loved by all his coworkers. What a fraud.

[CoastCoast]

I love these. Also, I had an ex who did this all the time to me. The best thing I did was to examine what I truly loved about being with him. There really wasn’t much, if anything at all. I realized I liked going out to dinner with someone, cuddling and watching tv together…then it hit me! I can find that in ANYONE else! Why was I suffering with this jerk who gives me the silence treatment and shuts down? Then I began to look for what I truly deserved which is loyalty, communication and actual love. People who shut down like that and give the silent treatment are heartless, they will do it even if they were married to the most beautiful and successful celebrity. They are absolute trash human beings and should be left to deal with their own vortex of pain they cause others. So move on and find someone who will LOVE and cherish you and treat you with RESPECT! It is hard to break free, but break it down, what do they actually offer your life???

[ranaeid]

Other people's actions rarely have anything to do with you.

[oncetwice]

I HATE the silent treatment. Personally, if I am upset with someone, I will tell that person that I need a minute to myself, then think about the issue and what caused it, then talk about the issue later and try to solve it. The silent treatment is a no-go for me and it hurts like hell.

[John-qtcl]

Absolutely... this helped alot. The abusers are about control and manipulation.

[JoyLady-]

I grew up in a household with 2 narcissists parents. I was use to this tactic.
So I have spent the last 25 years married to a narcissist and this behavior was normal.
Thank God for education I got out 🦋

[toddmccormick]

The woman that I used to be married to would give me the silent treatment, and I would fall apart inside, and sometimes on the outside too. You also just described me- I'm bad, and I'm unlovable, this is so crazy!!

[breakthroughmoment]

We can even limit the hurt (like setting a timer) once we understand that it’s their problem, not ours.

[vampireslayer]

I never really healed until I understood "my codependency to my Narcissistic mother", the roots of that codependency, and how it caused me to people please and attract Cluster Bs. It is IMPORTANT to look at the roots of our own insecurities.

[bradmcewen]

Best thing to happen to me was progressing through MLN videos. A genuine relationship with yourself awaits and does not disappoint.

[izawaniek]

That is true. Thank you so much for your help and support. We must heal our childhood wounds of abandonment and feelings of being unlovable and not enough! Being neglected in childhood affects all our relationships. We must reparent our inner child asap.

[somerandomyoutubechannel]

I've found that what bothers me is that I'm seeing him trying to control me with that behavior and I know that is wrong. He was trying to teach me that my feelings get in the way of what he wants in the moment, and his silent treatment was a form of trying to silence and control me. I had to work on this by seeing him as a bully who can't manage his own stuff so he tries to control me instead, and this was very childish behavior. The more I made it about him, the less it affected me. Because, ultimately it was his problem, not mine. My problem was that I taught him that I accepted this behavior by there being no consequence for it. It wasn't that I believe I'm bad or unloveable, it's that I always rationalized his behaviors by believing that he had unhealed trauma. But after some point everyone has to work on their stuff and not put it on others.

[anandanabila]

Yes we think that we are not lovable and because we didn’t receive the right love from our parents

[BryanAllen-ktvq]

How to become untouched by the silent treatment.

1. Recognize it as a blessing.

Initially it hurts because you feel inadequate but silent is quiet quiet is peace.

When i look back the silent treatment was the most peaceful time whe i was in my marriage

[jessicajackson]

For me this is very painful, my ex gave me the silent treatment for 9 days. I broke up with him even though i loved him. I will not tolerate emotional abuse. Now i have learned to lay this down as a hard boundary early on and let the man im seeing know that if they ignore me for more than 24 hours without expressing that they need space and when they will be back, i will leave.

[GLDn]

Them: Silent treatment.
Me Now: "Looks like you need time to yourself" /takes my ball and goes home.

[roycejonesempowerment]

this is a game changer. heal your unhealed beliefs

[Peaches-ii]

My immediate family has done this to me for decades. Always been the scapegoat and when conversations cease to be about them and their interests it quickly goes silent. They are talkative people, rambling on with each other, but the second I come in it's like everyone just stares straight ahead and pretends I'm not there. They won't talk over me, just be silent and it can go on for hours. If I ask why they're doing that they act like they have no idea what I'm talking about. My brother, father, and sometimes my mother will talk nonstop when I'm in the other room usually about themselves. They fluff each other up, yet also fight for the top narc position. "No, I put up with so much, no one recognizes my hard work!"

[wulfclaw]

Silent treatment from a spouse or partner is ignoring you.
Ignoring is the opposite of love.
It is the worst fotm of abuse.
They will eventually if not soon after cause resentment.

[DNTCreativeMedia]

my god this video is 100% accurate and you're totally right that the underlying beliefs are where the pain stems from.