Why Being Too Nice Turns Women Off | The Nice Guy Paradox

At first, adopting an alpha mindset is a conscious decision, but over time this thought process becomes a natural part of who you are. An alpha mindset endures not just because it’s guaranteed to get you more women and more sex, an alpha mindset endures because it’s the right path to follow. It’s the path to self-respect, freedom, and dignity. And just as weakness is the ultimate attraction killer, strength is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

The “nice guy” beta male who tries to please women by pretending to be kind and chivalrous does nothing to instill attraction. All he does is conceal his true thoughts and feelings. In reality, the nice guy is not nice. He’s lying to himself about what he wants, and he’s lying to the world around him. The nice guy pretends he just wants to be friends with women, even though being friends is the last thing on his mind.

The nice guy thinks that by being nice, women will be compelled to like him in return. The nice guy rushes to a woman’s defense with the hope that she’ll reward him for his chivalry. The nice guy says he’s not interested in sex when it’s all he ever thinks about. This is in contrast to the “bad guy” alpha male who does the exact opposite.

The alpha male doesn’t care if people like him or not. The alpha male has no interest in defending women or saving them. The alpha male makes it clear that he’s interested in sex and that he would love nothing more than to be intimate with a woman. As you can see, the bad guy is not really a bad guy, he simply speaks a truth that few men dare speak.

An alpha male embraces all that is masculine. He doesn’t care what society thinks or what his family, friends, and other people think. The alpha male walks his own path and marches to the beat of his own drum. If he wants something, he goes after it. If he wants to become intimate with a woman, he lets her know without worrying about rejection.

Part of the reason why alpha males can feel so confident and self-assured is that they don’t rely on other people for validation. An alpha male never seeks validation from women; therefore, women are unable to rattle him or affect his confidence in any way. The alpha male also lives in a state of abundance. If a woman rejects him, it’s no big deal. There are plenty more fish in the sea.

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Chris Canwell

[LivingALifeOfAbundance]

The price of being nice:
1. -Your wife/ girlfriend walks all over you and may cheat on you
2. -Your friends take you for granted
3. -Your employees lose respect for you
4. -Your customers won't pay (on time)
5. -You are perceived as weak by your boss so you are overlooked for any promotion.
-Your whole life, being inauthentic, is doomed.

[goptty]

Problem is society teaches us opposite of how we should be.

[thuohi]

society labeled it as Bad guys...in reality ' Bad guys' dont really force anyone or manipulate.. they present an offer 'take it or leave it' and move on... ''nice guys'' are the Bad guys here ...

[abdullahhatem-]

I ve been following this channel since 4 years now. Watched every single video. This man changed my entire life for the better. Wishing you all the best Chris. Greets from Egypt ✌️🇪🇬

[TTM]

It's fine to be nice to people, but just don't go overboard with it to the point of where they start taking advantage of you and you start saying yes to everything they ask of you.

[likenomansour]

We ALPHA MALES are becoming more mature with every additional video you present
Thanks brooo 👍😎

[NathanStrafes]

Haven’t watched for about a year and a half. This guy really helps people and when your problem is fixed its easy to forget about what helped fix it. Thanks Chris.

[mirzaharun]

Your book is great sir. Opened my eyes 👀 😁

[archangel]

Your book and videos are a life changer! Not only it helps with relationships but overall improve life quality. And I'm loving it!

[mikeklyderedpalmer]

What comes between nice and mean? indifference, its way more attractive than the latter.

[silentmusiq]

The moment when he jumped off the boat took me tf out😂😂😂😂

[yesthatislife]

Let them go with "bad guys", woman who sleeps with those types of men are for streets, you work on youre career and watch womans past!!! Find a woman with a good past and you will be happy !!!!

[GL-GildedLining]

1:19 "As you can see, the 'bad guy's not really a bad guy."
You say, glossing over all of the sweet little 'empath' girls who magnetically get into relationships with guys displaying narcissistic behavior traits. Glossing over the emotionally abused girls who seek trauma-bond relationships. I'm not saying this is all relationships, or means it's okay to be nice to the exclusion of honesty; I'm saying that there *are* bad guys in the world, not to mention lots of 'nice girls' who are not 'good girls'.

[GoldenbanjoDJ]

Bloody love how you can always identify the Alpha on this video by that little smirk

[UltimateLimitless]

You should be living life for yourself. You were put here on this earth to live life for yourself not to please others. Nice guys are never really nice because they live their lives pleasing others because they expect something in return for being nice. Life is not what you see in movies because movies and reality are not the same.

[jordanmitchell]

I can honestly say I’m glad I am not the beta male at the start anymore and am now the alpha at the end. Stop being beta you’ll save urself from a lifetime of headaches and constant problems.

[grantchow]

Don’t mistake kindness for “nice”.
It better to be “good” than nice, good lasts longer.

[Ali-roch]

I think you should seriously differentiate between being weak and being nice to people.

[wikicircle]

I wish I watched his videos 8 years back. Anyways not a big deal. You changed the way I think. Thankyou so much.

[Igi]

I feel like this is more the Sigma Male.