She's Cancelling Dates and Pulling Away

If a woman genuinely wants to see you, she’ll come back to you with a counteroffer to meet up at a time that’s more convenient. If she can’t see you over the next couple of days, she’ll let you know when she is available.

Her attraction level will ultimately decide whether or not she sees you or whether she continues to flake. The reason why a woman flakes is unimportant, what's important is that she’s shown, through her actions, that for whatever reason, she’s unwilling to meet you.

A woman should always be judged by her actions, not her words. The best way to deal with flaky behavior is to remain unaffected and indifferent.

Going no contact often reverses the situation as it lets a woman know you’re neither desperate nor lacking in options; and if she’s testing you, going no contact will help you pass her tests with flying colors.

If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.

Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she's pulled away from you or left you.

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Chris Canwell

[frankiemonato]

Mine keeps pulling away on regular basis whenever she pulls away I pull away too. Then one day she broke out with me because I walk away and I didn't beg and plead neither chase. Guys cut her off. Been no contact for almost 5 months.

[naturalbornkiller]

1. Set the date with specific time and place through text or call only once;

2. Don't follow up;

3. Show up at the venue. If she's not there, leave asap and never bother asking her where she is or send an angry message. If she really likes you, she would be there on or before the agreed time;

4. Back to your daily grind with your full focus and dedication. No hurt feelings.

[yawillykwily]

IF she is not truly attracted or obsessed with you then she will use you and mistreat you. The best thing you can do is have the ball to ghost her and walk away. A lot of men lack the pride and strength to walk away from a bad deal, simple because they cannot handle being alone.

[storiesbeneaththesurface]

Set up a place near your home. This way, pullibg will be essier. Furthermore, if she isnt there, you can go back home fast. Never meet a women at a destination where you would have to drive further than 25 mins.

[abubakarnura]

I set a date with a girl I've never met. But she said she had flu. The following day she was out with her female friend on a dinner posting pictures & video. I didn't bother fixing any date again.

[TheItYo]

When they have high attraction at first then a couple of weeks later they start to slip away they probably were in a relationship with an ex and decided to play the field during the breakup. After some time they may start to think about the ex again and go back to him. If they break up again with the ex it’s your decision if you want her back if she comes back to you. Me personally I wouldn’t do it because that means their un-loyal and indecisive. So that’s why you get the high attraction and fadeaway pull back from women.

[Rockthroingmonk]

I have been in an 18 month situationship with a DA widow, exhausting!

[neshifuturo]

before I watched You are only option and she found better (in her opinion at this moment)

[stevec]

Met a woman kinda chubby ok looking . Came to my house and had sex then she pushed away . Then she went away with her family and text me the whole time when she got home and was distant again . What sucks she wasn’t that good looking lol

[palindrome]

I give her a look like😀and then walk away

[BrandelSaundh-ip]

Hey Chris what should I do if my girlfriend is pulling away