60 Characteristics of Complex Trauma - Part 18/33 - Abuse Authority

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Complex Trauma is the result of the abuse of authority. Some people with Complex Trauma, who were on the receiving end of the abuse of power, end up abusing power themselves when they get in a position of authority. Why is that? What can they do to change?

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[karenwallace]

I am a fifth generation Aboriginal survivor of the most horrific kind of trauma… in my community we learned to turn the anger and pain towards each other- called “lateral violence”. I wish people in my country could understand this as well as you do.

[chilloften]

The workplace has traumatized many beyond repair. Never have I seen such evil as in healthcare. Know it all gods everywhere, every level, every department.

[johanna]

Serving others is the best way to reduce ego.

[HappyCat]

Thankfully, I have never abused power. But I have been abused and bullied badly by people above me and it’s affected me deeply. I’m hoping to be able to stand up to these horrible people in the future should I encounter such abusers again.

[TiffanySloots-Baxon]

This particular video should be mandatory for everyone to view. We need for the world to change to make room for generational trauma to heal. We need to stop the repeating pattern/cycle.

[JuliaRock-op]

It sounds more and more like, people in business are taught these abusive tactics in college.

[Muck-qyoo]

OMG! I have never heard so much truth been spoken just straight away!

[stefaniamirri]

THE MOST IMPORTANT LESSON OF THE SERIE.
You are talking of Narcissists and their victims. You are right on the fact that even the victims can end there if not aware, but that is indeed cause both come from the same ground.. Even the Narcissist have been abused indeed.. Abuse is repetitive inside that generation, and than they bring it outside that world from work to all hyerachic systems, and all the situations you said..and we have now indeed a totally sick narcissistic society, all over the world, every country affected.

[hman]

0:45 - Complex trauma happens because of the abuse of power.

[rehabhassan]

I am so grateful that I found this channel, Thank you so much

[AwakenedOne-qu]

I made sure that my guys never experienced abuse, they were all treated with dignity and respect, my supervisor told me that I was too forgiving. My guys remember that I was.

[Tempist-Strike.]

I had attended the Jehovah's witnesses church for my entire childhood. This series is my first step. I will see my first counselor at 43 years old. That guilt based doctrine captivated my grandmother, mother and most of my family. It's my time now.

[yumaychang]

You described how my narcissistic boss behaved perfectly!

[robertafierro]

I will be listening to this as i walk to my Counseling appointment..its the one quiet time i have to work on myself as i enjoy my Remission. Tim Fletcher's videos and lectures came into my life at the right time. For that HUGE MIRACLE id like to Thank God AGAIN. The real Truth is that I am Blessed.

[bingbangbong]

This is a good explanation of what happened in the year 2020.

[Cardio_gram]

Indeed true.❤Thabk God people like you exist. In the cpuntry I live in it's hard to find a therapist

[basiabarbara]

For me, the christian part was absolutely mirroring my journey. And I got encouraged. Thank you Tim and I thank God.❤️ He is good 😌

[RobertaFierro-mcub]

Theres a sparkle in their eyes that cant be denied. Tim is alright with me. Im glad I listened to the entire video.

[hdmccluskey]

My father was brutal. I have trouble with the commandment... Honor your father and mother....

How do you honor someone that you never felt safe around?

I'm 68 and still working past Discovered recently that my inability to organize clutter stems from the brutality. I was never sure whether a decision I made caused the beatings.
Every bin of my stuff contains the emotional impact... As if I was a kid again...
At least now I have the awareness of how useless that impression is at this point in my life.... Even writing this makes me feel like throwing up....
Thank you for sharing your wisdom....
All the

[CM-uotq]

So glad I found your channel; breaking decades of shit is tough