How to Kill a Marriage Part 11-Keep Passwords Private-Should couples go through each other's phones?

Should couples go through each other's phones? Is it okay for couples to keep secrets? Is there a difference between secrets and privacy in a relationship? Secrets vs privacy – Is there a difference in your relationship? What is marriage advice about the question of what do you do about Phone Passwords & Privacy? What do you do about Marriage, privacy, passwords and social media?

Tonight we take a look at a very hot topic for couples. How do master couples, couples who report happiness, handle the issue of secrets and privacy when it comes to electronics? How do master couples, couples who report happiness, handle the issue of secrets and privacy when it comes to social media? How do master couples, couples who report happiness, handle the issue of secrets and privacy when it comes to phones? Should couples go through each other's phones? Is it okay for couples to keep secrets?

Is it okay to have access to your partner’s email account? Is it wrong to say that your partner cannot have access to your email account? Can your spouse or partner log onto your computer at ant point? Does your partner have permission to log onto your phone at any point? Are passwords kept private? What do you do? How is this to be handed? Do you remain secret on various social media outlets? Do you remain private or secret on various apps? Is there a difference between secrets and privacy in a relationship?

Can you text privately without your spouse knowing to whom your texting? Can you receive texts from another person and it remain private? When you’re covering things up, it makes you look bad. When you keep passwords private, it creates suspicion. Secrets kill relationships. Should couples go through each other's phones?

If you do have something to hide, you end up being on guard all the time. This then creates anxiety in the individual. This anxiety is then perceived and felt by the partner. The partner then begins to try to figure out why their partner is so anxious and often interprets it in a way that says that the other person must be hiding something. This then creates friction, or distance, or both. Is it okay for couples to keep secrets?

So, it is our belief, that there must be absolute transparency in the relationship. There must be absolute transparency in the marriage. Without this transparency it beomes a secret. This secret will then eat away at the marriage. Thus so, have a great marriage and make it a policy that everyone has access to everything. so, Should couples go through each other's phones? The answer is yes, if they want to do so. Secrets vs privacy – Is there a difference in your relationship? Not a lot. You might want to keep a journal that is private, but other than that. You're treading on very dangerous ground. When in doubt, share.

Questions and topics from tonight’s show:
Should couples go through each other's phones?
Is it okay for couples to keep secrets?
Is there a difference between secrets and privacy in a relationship?
Secrets vs privacy – Is there a difference in your relationship?
What is marriage advice about the question of what do you do about Phone Passwords & Privacy?
What do you do about Marriage, privacy, passwords and social media?

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[rachelchenoweth]

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[serebear]

I 100% disagree, you don't have trust and you won't earn it by giving away every last bit of your privacy. Hie about you loose yourself trying to satisfy your partners suspicion. I think this is ridiculous. You are not selfish for not wanting to share everything with your partner, nor does it mean you are up to no good.

[couldntholdacandle]

I had a partner that had to have all my passwords and bank accounts, he still didn't trust me. He became controling and narcissistic. I asked for his and he refused as he was cheating I found out later on, he was angry I went through his things. I was angry he wasted my time. Relationship is over for good now.

[awomansstory.]

Affairs start at workplaces very often. My husband cheated on me for 1 year before I knew anything about it. I found out on Day One of a family vacation. He lied and lied once I confronted him. PLEASE continue this series.

[robinw]

😢 I was married for 28 yrs. Not able to have friends, being stalked, taking away Vehicle’s, at the time I wasn’t even able to have my own computer. After 28 yrs no computer I divorced, he remarried, I didn’t and never will, get married and low and behold he met a woman online. 10 yrs of their marriage ended, I ended back with my ex spouse which I am very sorry I did. He has once taken away everything I have ever owned. 😢 What have I done to my self 😢

[kelseycolon-schwenk]

My favorite part of this video is that Lindsey has a Mac — she wins 🙃

I do have a question about digital privacy — how would you advise someone in an abusive relationship to handle their phone/messages when the abuser is using it as another method of control?

[aaroncecil]

i have always watched your videos for help, i have been in a very rocky marriage and all i tried to make sure the marriage worked, never worked tried everything but to no avail, we got seperated last year, sadly i still love her and i dont know what to do.

[sarapieluch]

Some people just are very territorial, starting from what I do finishing on my phone and if I am told to get over myself I can only laugh at it...

[narcissismcentral]

This is one of the reasons I’ve ended a relationship he was so defensive and I find he sent ❤ to inappropriate bikini clad women and said there was nothing wrong with it?! I said I had nothing to hide and he could look at any of my stuff but he’d twist it and say trust someone until they prove me wrong not like you?!!

[ecclairmayo]

Does this apply to people who haven't cheated/ lost trust? Or are we talking about people who have shown they can't be trusted and now measures must be taken for the innocent party to feel safe with you again?

[jessica_saxton]

Thank you so much for going against main stream. This is absolute truth.

[thecowboy]

Is it possible to win back someone's trust after you have broken it badly, especially when they're at a point where they no longer believe a word you say? Is it then possible to earn their trust again through action, or is it a lost cause at that point, and therefore an exercise in futility?

[owowcherubim]

I appreciate this so much! Subscribed!

[EdwardL-dbtx]

It's great advice guys I recently found out that my wife has a private Facebook account. Also I found out that she's posting photos of herself with photos that's really not her at this time she's pretending to be someone she's not and she's living two lives a secret life I just recently found out about it What should I do

[bigdadi]

Been too open to your wife as a man about everything can damage the relationship... Divorce on a rise because women can never get satisfied

[jadeypeach]

No! Absolutely NO.
If your partner is insecure, that is not YOUR problem, it is something that they need to work on!
If you wants your own privacy and parts of your life to be kept to yourself, that is NORMAL and perfectly okay!

[kemzheps]

does she have access to your bank account

[iam]

Very good subject, but perhaps a little less pointless chat, especially at the start, as everyone is so busy nowadays. Thank you

[JPWick]

Poor people problems.

The only person that should have truly pertinent login credentials is your estate attorney to access upon your death, and facilitate your trust.

Anything else is immaterial.