This will KILL your marriage

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[kristinwood]

This needs to be talked about more for sure.

[abbygale]

This is a hard lesson that took me years to learn(admittedly I still have moments) my father raised me to be independent. I now know the reasons and am not angry with him for it. But it definitely did more harm to me. I went through so many mental trials in 2021/2022 when my grandma passed away. I finally learned why my dad did what he did and I lost it. I quit my job which was never a thing for me. I was the bread winner. I was the one who paid everything and had complete control. My husband was never the head of the household because I wouldn't let him. So when I quit my job it forced me to rely on him and forced him to be the head. I doubted his ability to be the head but by the grace of God he has been and I'm truly blessed. Now we are expecting our 3rd baby which is a shocker to us(but not to God) now I get to live the dream the little girl in me always dreamed of but never thought was possible. I thought that little girl who desperately just wanted to be a mom who cared for her kids and spouse was dead and buried. But the Lord brought her back to life. Praise God!! We have always joked about who is more stubborn and over the last year I've noticed my stubbornness has substantially lowered.

[olivierforget]

Keep the Sabbath is FOR ALL Isaiah56
REMEMBER!!!Exodus20v8

[connie-zmws]

As a Christian I would have loved to be dependent. But my husband made it impossible. I had to be very independent. Not good for a God centered marriage.

[lindagarris]

It's true. I was not independent until I had to do everything in my own w 2 kids.
The result was me not marrying bc I didn't want someone else having a day in raising my children.
Very sad bc we needed a man.😢

[chrisbuilt]

Absolutely beautiful! Also a little more depth on the word grace. In Hebrew it is Hen..and it is the image of tents...as in the days they wondered..we think of these tents scattered all over the wilderness..but that wasn't how they were arranged..they were arranged in a circle formation..inside of the circle is provision..with the tents arranged like this..the people were guarded from attacks..my daughter's name is Grace..she is 12..beautiful young lady..sharp and witty..with lots of personality..I pray for her husband daily..she has a heart to serve and love!! By the Grace of God she lives every day..inside His camp..safe and loved..come what may!!!

[mikepanchuk]

❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰Amen Beautiful Brother. We make each other stronger or we can be a mill stone for one or another if we don't share our daily load together. One often works too much for Both and the other has too much fun, will not work for long time. Someone is gonna wear off and snap one day. Patience has limits. See it around often and it's usually a dog fight marriage🌞🔥🙌☝🏻😉

[WORDversesWORLD]

No law being broken for being independent! In fact God has no law for you to marry! Independence is how you have a deeper walk with God! Don't let these thieves steal from you!

[tabithao.abiola]

I beg to disagree. To be strong means to have the ability to weather the storms of life till the very end with little or no drama. However, to be independent means to have the ability to make sensible, rational decisions if/when required in the absence of the other.

Independence and strong do have a slight overlap however, arrogance is many times misinterpreted as independence, that is where the real issue is.

Its just as assertiveness is also many a times by many misinterpreted and manifested as aggression🙏