When should you give up on a marriage #marriage #marriagetips

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[crystalthow]

Being married is only good if the partner was the right one

[CharlotteG]

I hate my job … it makes me feel like crap, it causes depression and anxiety. I don’t enjoy life and unable to function fully.
But my husband doesn’t want me to quit the job bc of the money and benefits will be hard to match. Yet it completely destroys me as a person … wish I could quit

[j.lsantos]

Wonderfulness well spoken rabbi insightful informative

[anonymouslyphantomwarrior]

This is the most adult and well balanced opinion I've heard of when it comes to dealing w possible breakup w your marriage

[tamarawolverton]

By the way, marriage has nothing to do with abuse abuse is not marriage. If you’re dealing with abuse with your spouse, it’s gonna take both people to get the abuse gone so that you can have a marriage if both people do not participate in eliminating abuse, the abuser will not enter marriage and you need to break any legal agreement between the two of you.

[rochis]

Rabbi Friedman,
What if you feel that the "interference" *is* your spouse? And you still believe in the power and greatness of marriage.

[cathyjackson]

Marriage is a good thing.Its a beautiful gift from God..But being with someone who is an adulterous person gives you the right to get out and live your life away from the devaluing person who is dishonoring and abusing the gift and the person God gave them.

[defavour]

Rabbi speaks of Marriage in it's real sense, that means considering all the fundamentals of the institution; what YHWH established from the beginning.
That is the "marriage" is good.

[robertcolvin-gduv]

Toda ❤ we are good at massing up, time 😊

[hoangthi]

not all marriages are good sir. Bad marriage should be ended but many people are suffer, dying over drama. Marriage is good, marriage is bad also, marriage kill people too, this is the negative side that you didn’t address. What the heck

[garyfrancis]

I’m older than you rabbi and never had the experience of marriage. Those young women I fancied that rejected me for alcholocs, philanderers and psychpaths are as old as I am now if still alive. I wonder how they liked it? I have no idea living on the other side of the world and losing contct with them 40 or more years ago. I do know some of the guys they marriedand they almost immediately regretted it. I was free though to travel all over the world and I did but I have no heirs to pass on my estate now.

[leonardmulford]

Marriages a contract, a commitment if you’re not committed, it’s not a good contract most unhappy people have uncommitted goals, and they don’t even know why they’re unhappy, but the marriage itself has nothing to do with that. It’s only a symptom.

[michaelanderson]

People listen to Hollywood entertainment script writers, these thing are true..
Nothing is more important than you in a marriage, and who are you, you are a husband & wife joined together as one, not two, but one....children will get along, but the contract between husband & wife and Gods bond, anybody that tries to break up a marriage this include all family members (parents, children, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousin, , friends, even you, employers, are cursed by God for doing so..
If a spouse is mentally ill or criminal in harming the family, medical care, or lawyers should be brought in to help..including your Rabi..you will know a good help from the fruit that they bear..aspects of a good marriage start with actions..become one,

[catcauldron]

Life is very, very good.
I’m not married.
If I was married my life would not be good.
This I know for sure.

[AlanaMorris-zo]

Who marries assuming marriage is happiness?

[isabelguaysuaygarcia]

If my man cheats on me cause enormous quantity of suffering on me and our daugther and I an pregnant but he goes out and has a double life what can I do? 😢

[MattDingley]

Usually love your takes, but you got this one wrong!

[Almneur]

As a man, I can tell you that the secret to a successful marriage is having a mistress.