Should I Give Up Or Fight For My Marriage?

We know how difficult it is when your marriage is in trouble: the pain, helplessness, and hurt seem overwhelming.

Here at Marriage Helper, we not only know this pain, we understand it, and we've had the privilege of helping thousands figure a way past this marital mess, and to find a path to being in love with each other again- even those who said they were not in love with their spouses any longer, and even those who wanted out because they felt they were deeply in love with someone else.

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0:00 Introduction
1:49 END THE MARRIAGE?
2:14 YOU CAN FIGHT FOR YOUR MARRIAGE
2:55 HOW? WHY? FOR WHAT?
3:48 DO YOU LOVE SO DEEPLY...
4:48 THERE IS A WAY TO RESCUE & RESTORE
5:23 WRONG ADVICE BECAUSE THEY LOVE YOU
5:49 BAD ADVICE BECAUSE OF THEIR PAIN
6:16 DO WHAT'S IMPORTANT TO YOU
6:50 DON'T LISTEN TO BAD ADVICE
7:36 THERE IS HELP THERE IS HOPE
8:35 IF ANYTHING CAN SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE THIS WILL

[Jmanmadness]

I have to pause the video occasionally to get myself together. It feels as if he is speaking directly to me. Pray for my flight as I pray for yours!

[lisa-marieshy]

I can't be the only one that's calmed by this man's heart. His voice is a soothing balm amidst the chaos. Thank you 🙏

[morebrides]

Thank you for going against the grain of the world and speaking hope into what is worthy of hope.

[MrsLaAutentica]

I'm the only one fighting, literally ready to give up because he's checked out.

[koosmangat]

Its really tough when your partner is refusing to see the improvement and positive changes but focuses on the past hurt.

[maryannwalters-fiallo]

When marriages hit a rough patch, always great to recognize that changes need to be made to move forward.. but, if one person has emotionally moved on or just doesn’t want to be with you.. then what is to fight for.. hold your head high, take a deep breath and know that you will be ok. Never try to force someone to love you..

[ms.marynailz]

My husband makes me feel like I shouldn't even be married. Like I feel worthless. I know that I am a good wife...just tired of fighting. I really don't take much advice to leave because of the very reasons Dr beam stated. I'll leave when I'm ready and I think I am. Can't live someone who continue to push me away by ignoring me. I wish every marriage well. ❤️

[jehovannamendoza]

Hi guys God is faithful ! He did it for me and i know He will do it for you.
Work on your P.I.E.S.
Physical self
Intellectual self
Emotional self
Spiritual self
Use this time to improve in these areas and know that this is for a season and have a peace that what ever happens you WILL be ok by the GRACE of GOD.

[natashakirk]

I watch this video each time I question my stand, reminds me why I’m fighting.

[lotsaluck]

Why fight for a spouse that just blames me for most....I’d like to stay married, but I’m getting tired of being blamed for about everything under the sun

[jerryanddiannedennison]

I am grateful that I am now reading the comments from all of you that are standing up for your marriage, comments that let me know that this world is full of wonderful people! Thank you all for your prayers 🙏 and I am returning your prayers. Thank You my Father God for standing with all of us. I love You! ❤️

[jeffangelo]

Please take a moment and pray for Jeff and Shay to be reconciled in marriage. Thank you.

[garyzornow]

I don’t know how to fight, I have been avoiding the fight for over a decade. I avoided contact or conversations other than the daily, good morning, being asked about the weather or what I would like to eat. No interest in being at home. It’s a lonely and sad situation.
My goal No is waiting to die. No I don’t have cancer or an illness, just have nothing to live for as a goal.

[mikefr]

After 7 months of going through the grieving process and healing, working on my PIES with dedication I have now realized how much work I needed to do years ago. I know I took my wife for granted, that I disrespected her, and as you said I want nothing more than to change those behaviors from the past. Today is today and I finally know what unconditional love really means. That I don't love her because of fears but because I love her from my heart. I haven't given up despite external advise as you mentioned because I loved her then when we met and I love her now at a much deeper level. I am not ready to give up on us after 23 yrs. We are a beautiful couple and I know deep inside a small spark is all it takes to win the fight. Until then it's understanding, acknowledgement of the hurt I caused her, and unconditional love, commitment, and I am here still standing.

[johnmagee]

Please pray for my marriage to be reconciled! It’s been two years of separation, despite us living together with our kids, for the past year because of covid.
My wife is basically checked out and rightfully so but I’m believing for a miracle

[gladysfurrer-shonga]

You are wonderful!....
I will keep fighting for my marriage even though I know my partner won't trust that I have changed, God understands that I have changed.i hope we can be happy again some day :(

[kegwayhuntep]

I pray for God's miraculous healing... I always see hope...

[TheMatrixofMeaning]

I'm so sick of being called weak, spineless, codependent, a simp, trauma bonded, or of having Stockholm syndrome. They always tell me to set boundaries and enforce them by leaving but never how to understand what's happening and what my options are.

This is the first video out of hundreds I've seen that accurately described what's happening and how I feel about it.

[jessecunard]

Since she walked out it is now 2 months and I continue to work on myself and use PIES. Thanks to marriage helper I have found strength.

[joja]

Just when I'm about to give up, then this video. I will continue the fight! Thank you!