Should I Fight For My Ex Or Give Up?

In this video, relationship expert, Coach Lee, answers the question, "Should I fight for my ex or give up?"

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[itsyoure]

This is refreshing. I’m tired of hearing “you need to just move on” because every relationship is different. Sometimes, getting back together IS a good thing. But all these love gurus just say to move on. This video is great because he gives options for both.

[kundaimazarura]

No contact helps,
But not to get your ex back... But to move on with your dignity

[ulisesroldan]

I think once they get with another person or a rebound, that’s enough disrespect for me

[daniellerose]

I’ve done the begging. I’ve done the constant contacting. Then when I took a step back and didn’t bother him he’s taken steps towards me. Two months. Almost 3 broken up & the other night he mentions he wants to meet up and talk. Be patient.. I know it seems hopeless right now but bugging them doesn’t help either of you.

[dragonslair]

I feel like Hollywood has done far more harm than good when it comes to portraying relationships. The sooner people accept that no relationship is perfect and that romance movies are usually a bunch of BS, the happier people will be in real relationships. The key to maintaining love and passion in a long-term relationship is lowering your expectations and learning to be satisfied with less than perfect. That's how couples manage to stay married for 20+ years.

[mr.know_it_all]

Most of these people that go through breakups, can’t be alone, do not take care of themselves first, I used to be that person. If you are not happy alone, you will always have breakups, depending on others for happiness is a form of addiction. Get your life together before you date. This guy knows what he is talking about. Everything he has said has happened to me throughout my life. ALL my ex’s came back, at least once, sometimes twice. It doesn’t mean that it will workout. Growth happens to people in different times in your life. Live your life everyday and you will attract someone that shares similar values and with some commitment and compromises, also taking care of yourself first. You can have the best days and a great relationship BUT, it starts with a great relationship with yourself first. Good luck 🍀

[coryturner]

Just remember guys, a woman will throw away a perfectly good man to chase after fairytales.... move on and find someone worthy of your time and effort....they will come back if you treated them properly..

[salescustomer-service]

No one should waste time on someone who didn't think enough of you; to keep in the first place. Things don't happen as a mistake but it's for a reason. Meaning another door is opening for the RIGHT person to show up.

Move on and never pursue someone who didn't value you much in the first place.

[wowwee]

"The fight is within yourself". Wow. You are so wise Coach Lee!

[sodiz]

Dear Coach Lee and all! I have "fought" for him. He left me and immediately went into a rebound relationship. My pain was so deep. I thought I was fainting all the time. At the same time I kept watching these videos which eased my pain and trained my mind. It took some time and some ups and down. Today. He is so happy to be with me again and so I am! We started to plan for our family future again! 😍👪 I wish you all the best. And please do what Coach Lee suggests. He is the best👑💗

[Pianowithmitchy]

I hit the 1 year and 3 months mark. It does get easier guys. And through the gift of time...I am healed enough to
Begin dating again. Do I still think about my ex and miss them?? Yes I do and that Is perfectly normal and human...but now i am stronger enough to move on 😌

[Esteban_Narvaez_MD]

I can't thank you enough coach Lee, almost a month after I was dumped, I cried, I get desperate, I'm fearful of not getting my ex back, but everything I've been experiencing goes down and I feel calm when I watch your videos, thank you for keeping the hope of getting my ex back.

[bossen]

It's been a year now. I'm not waiting and I'm seeing others. Her loss.

I actually met someone since a month back. The most wonderful girl ❤️

[svgcorner]

No Contact its not just for getting your Ex back, its for her to assess herself if you still have a place in their heart, but also to assess yourself if you really love them, or you can still live without them, if you can, just move on, NC is teaching us to love our self a bit more and appreciate what you have now, and let go of things that you can't control or have.

[nandemanando]

"To be like a star" I like that 👌🏽

[albaghdady]

This is an interesting philosophy; if you have something unique you should not chase others, you should feel confident and be like the sun.
Fascinating.

[gqjuped]

Just move on its the best you can do for yourself. I moved 3, 000 miles away across the country after we broke up and never looked back and feel better then ever. It takes time guys.

[johnbrown]

I been out of a relationship for 6 months ago and I still Watch Your videos because you Help me move on and do better things in life 💯💯💯 if it's not coach Lee Its not Real and I still Watch until This day keep inspiring men 💯💪🙏

[AlAsh]

I know what it felt like to be in a relationship with her, it was so right! People are telling me to move on but I know what I’ll be walking away from. She dumped me in lockdown, which we did separately. Can’t help but think all this covid crisis has clouded her judgement of us, as she’s a paramedic and was under a lot of stress.

[Jordannnnnnnjones]

youre awesome man i cant thank you enough ... never quit man we need you -- this is science, this is therapy, this is real