Ready to Give Up on Dating? Watch This... (Matthew Hussey)

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I can’t tell you how many times a week someone online says to me: “Matthew, I’ve had enough. I’m just going to give up on dating altogether.”

It may be because they are sick of getting their heart broken. It may be that they are exhausted from going on dates that don’t go anywhere, or online conversations that never even get to the point of a date in the first place.

It could be the frustration of never meeting people they have true chemistry with, or when they finally do, discovering that they aren’t looking for a relationship.

If you feel any of these things, I made this week’s video for you.

If you feel you’re close to giving up on this area of your life, I have no righteous ground to take in telling you you’re wrong. I completely understand it. It is unbelievably frustrating, especially when you want nothing more than to just get on with sharing your life with that special person instead of more time passing without them in it.

You’re not weak or crazy for feeling the way you do, so give yourself a break. But before you give up, just do me one favor – watch this video today.

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[stayhappylittlemermaid]

Until you get comfortable with being alone, you'll never know if you're choosing someone out of love or loneliness.

[blackangel]

To quote an excellent 80's movie, "I rather be alone for the right reasons, than with someone for the wrong reason." Amanda Jones😎

[SamElle]

I feel like Ive been meeting the wrong people for so long that I've become so pessimistic about meeting people, which I know is a bad attitude to have, but man oh man, it's so rough

[ivoryvignettes]

Okay, I changed my mind. I'll date again. What are you doing this Friday, Matt?

[teekay]

That "give energy only to get energy" thing is something I really needed to hear. It's selfish for me to say "I'm only going to put in this energy if someone is willing to give it in return". I need to do it because that what I want to see in the world! Not because I want a return on my investment

[caseyc]

The idea of dating the world is beautiful and it’s that type of thinking that we could all benefit from

[joymae]

I feel he’s my therapist and knew I gave up

[stephm]

I have absolutely and truly given up entirely. The loneliness is oppressive, but the feeling of constant disappointment is even worse. Stage four lockdown here in Melbourne still and I can’t leave the house for longer than an hour a day. No point whatsoever in wasting my energy. I’m exhausted.

[stayslickwithkit]

The No.1 thing that trips a lot of us in dating, is choosing the wrong people to give our energy and time to.

One thing that is so important to recognising someone amazing, is our own self awareness.
The more self awareness we have of our amazing traits and things we need to work on, will help us recognise an amazing quality person when they come along :)

Thanks Matthew, always an inspiration for my channel :)

[mistersir]

I see the kindness in this man's eyes.

[mahaabdelkhalek]

Introvert here, literally everything drains me. Even going out on a social event just to meet people is extremely draining. And being friendly to strangers is also draining.
Being an introvert is just a challenge and I just can’t.

[sohalidina]

I’ve been following Mathew Hussey for five years now. Since then, whenever I go through a breakup, I leave gracefully. I write down all the things I’d say to my exes as if I was confronting them, but after a few hours, I delete the notes. After calming down and rereading the notes, I feel it’s not worth risking my dignity. I make myself clear to them about what I want, and if they still fail to meet me in the middle, my words will not convince them to come back. I keep my integrity in tact, and usually, my exes contact me after some time gap.

[jhitchcock]

Single for 8 years now, while I've been in college (as a grandmama). This gives me hope. Not just for myself, but for all my friends out their who want a loving relationship but are tired of the superficial. I have no interest in online dating or artificial meetups, but this reminds me that I still want to live my life to the fullest and, if Mr.Right is out there, that being actively involved in the things I love out in the world, is probably where I'd run across him. Thank you. :)

[sashamotovylets]

Just focus on finding, accepting and loving yourself. When you find yourself, you find love because they are the same.

[monikapfingstl]

Exactly I am just so done too. I do want a relationship to share life and give love. But maybe you can't find it through dating...Maybe it's just destiny. Been looking for so long and even fallen in love a few times ..but you can't make it happen just because you want it even for all the right reasons.

[lamebrane]

When life has has left you feeling like the only person left on Earth sometimes, you just wanna turn off your brain forever. It's hard to not have bad thoughts, hard to not think the worst of people, and to feel like the world don't care about you. Guys like this can give advice all day but this guy isn't getting turned down. Billions of us alive, I can't imagine we all matter in the end, some of us just don't get a good hand. That's the way of the world. The world doesn't care.

[sheffieldamanda]

It's even harder when you're a single parent, go to the trouble of arranging child care, then just get ghosted after the date!

[aroacilynn]

I've been single for a really, really long time. Finally starting to date again 😌 I remember why I hate dating apps 😑

[katem]

14 years single, loving life, hate online dating

[sihlem]

#2 is basically the draining part for me... after dating a narcissist I’m so demotivated from pouring into people who just take, take, take 😩