How to *Actually* be Happy Single | Nika

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[NikasInnerBeauty]

Hope you guys enjoyed this video and found it helpful! So sorry for the weird light changes... the weather in Slovenia has been all over the place 😅

A really cute and meaningful gift for the holidays, or just a sweet little treat for yourself ❤️

[jonaebaskin]

She said “there is no ‘the one’ that’s going to make my life amazing..I’m the one that makes my life amazing”... that was good.

[sarbear]

I have been single intentionally for 1 year now as well. I was broken up with at the end of 2019 and and i was really upset. But then i took a look at my life and realized all throughout my 4 years of university, i was constantly from one relationship to the next. And during those 4 years i really struggled with my mental health. After the break up in 2019 i tried going on a few dates in the beginning of 2020 but then i just realized i didnt care any more. And honestly loved being a lone and in my own space, and doing whatever i wanted to do whenever i wanted to do. When you said "i am the one" i couldnt agree more. Since being single for a year, i got off my anxiety and depression meds, i am learning to love my body, i havent even touched makeup, and i havent been happier with my life. Lots of love ❤

[yoshitaarora]

I am so proud of you girl. I have decided to "intentionally" stay single as well this year. I won't enter into a relationship unless I forget that I'm single and untill I stop yearning for 'the one' all the time. This video was so powerful. Thanks so much!

[SoulSugarJoint]

I’m gonna write out what she said at the end as affirmations, because!!!

I am whole and complete as an individual
I don’t need a relationship
I know who I am without a relationship
I know that I have a beautiful and fulfilling life without a relationship
I know that the way I feel isn’t dependent on a relationship
I know that the way I think and feel about myself is not dependent on a relationship
I know that I can live without a relationship

[tonismith]

That part when she mentioned on a scale of 1 to 10 if the level of chemistry you feel towards this person is a 9 or a 10 in the beginning, its probably going to be toxic that really clicked for me. Its so true. You want to just be comfortable with some one not crazy over them. I'm going to keep that in mind going forward

[lugab]

Yes. Single life gives freedom. It doesn’t require sacrificing or responsibility to someone.

[patriciaraedejesus]

Going through a breakup at the moment BUT Im gonna watch this again when Im in a meaningful relationship just so I dont forget that I AM THE ONE.

[psychicbeautyaustralia]

Thank you🥰
I am 34 this year and it has taken me 18years to be single, Be alone, value my self worth and after watching you and this video three times- I feel even more enlightened and I know this is what I have to do for myself mentally, Physically, , Spiritually and most of all emotionally. Thank You
Light, Love & Friendship x

[FreeSpirit]

I made the choice in 2012 to be single & celibate by choice. I spend my time volunteering, helping others, working long days to keep building my wealth portfolio, working out at the gym for that wonderful muscle burn.
If I had known how good life could be, living this way, I would have done it a long time before this. Life keeps getting better.

[rudig]

Am I the only one who learned how to be alone and still happy in 2020?🥺🧸

[SheilaTrueLove]

BENEFITS OF BEING SINGLE

- Everything in your house is yours

- You don’t have to hide receipts and other purchases

- If you buy something yummy, you don’t have to buy twice as much

- The only person you have to dress up for is your Boss

- Only the Doctor can tell you what to eat

- You decide when to shave and where

- No Anniversaries to remember

- No irritating in-laws to deal with

- You can walk around Naked whenever you want

- You don’t have to share

- You don’t have to change your life because someone else has jealousy issues

-  The only insecurities you have to deal with is your own

- No complaining about the volume of your music

- You can fall asleep anywhere without hearing anybody complaining.

- The only person who goes through your stuff is you

- More time to spend with friends

- If you want to go for pizza at 3:00 a.m. no one can stop you or ask why

- You can date more freely

- You don’t have to share your closet with anyone else

- You always get to watch what you want

- You don’t have to deal with no one else’s annoying or disgusting habits

- You can talk and think out loud to yourself without anyone thinking you’ve lost your sanity

- The only annoying friends you have to deal with are your own

- You don’t have to wonder if you love the person or if they love you

-There’s only one way to do things...your way

- You are the master of the thermostat

- The only messes you have to clean up are your own

- You don’t have to make excuses for yourself

- Dinner can be as simple as a Frozen Burrito

- When you eat, you buy and cook for one

- No one else is going to eat your leftovers

- You no longer have to hide your stash of sweets

- You can decorate the whole house according to your taste

- The only person spending your money is you

- The only debts you have to pay off is your own

- You don’t have to bicker and argue with anyone

- Less pressure about your weight

- It’s easier to focus on your career and dreams

- The only mood swings you have to deal with are your own

- The toilet seat only moves when you move it

- You don’t have to deal with anybody else's kids

- No endless Nagging

- You never have to answer the phone “right now”

- You don’t have to have doubts or worry about someone sleeping around and cheating on you

- Things stay where you put them

- You can meditate and have your quiet time when you need it

- The only thing whining about not being feed is the cat

- You can take out the trash when you feel like it

- You can shower or bath when you want and for as long as you want

- You can even leave the door open when you shower

- You don’t have to worry about a bad relationship ruining your day

- You can be as eccentric as you want

- You decide how long it takes to get ready

- You get your weekends for you and your projects

- You get to put your happiness first

- Silence is golden

- Being Single is better and smarter than being in the wrong relationship.

- I’m Single because it’s so much Easier.

-Don't have to worry about being Cheated on and Disrespected.

- Can get Completely Naked...wearing clothes is optional

- Don't have to feel Guilty for not Cooking or Cleaning

- Can Fart Openly

- Can do Any and Everything I want without Answering to anyone

- No Jealousy

- Life is Less Stressful, which = PEACE. 

- Can be Spontaneous

- I can be Lazy

- Don't have to worry about what I look like- - Can wear the same PJs Every night until they need washing

- Don't have to Share my Bed

- Don't have to Argue

- I save so much more Money

- I work harder at Staying In Shape

- I can be Friends with a 100 different Guys

- My friends can Sleep over

- Toilet Seat is always in the right position

- No one Eats your Food

- You can keep your house clean. No one making a Mess

- I can Pee with the Door open

- I can be as weird as I want to be.

- I can think out Loud

- You don't have to do anything you Don't want to do.

- Less responsibility to take care of somebody else.

- I can be selfish...No Guilt.

- I Don’t have to Compromise or get Permission to do things.

- I Can FOCUS  on my Research, My YouTube Channel,   being a Motivational Life Coach and, the Books I'm writing.

[bionbbor]

I have been single for 22 years now, I am so happy too !!
and I am 22 hahah... wait, why am I crying ?

[shotsndocs]

Your idea of "the one" gave me a new perspective on it. Thank you

[sarahdawn]

GIRL we are the same person!!! I literally could not believe how much I related to what you said! After ending my last relationship, I decided I needed to try and stay single for a whole year. Currently 8 months in, and although there have been a few bumps in the road, I am SO proud of myself. For the first time in my life I’m experiencing what it’s like to be HAPPY single!! Wish I had found this sooner but so glad to have came across your channel :))

[insomniacbabe]

Oh I needed this! I've spent most of 2020 single doing shadow work, trying to figure out my unconscious patterns. Painful, but so liberating. I also chose Psychology as optional subject at university and I'm learning so much. I have so much love to give, but for now I'm giving it to myself, my friends and stray dogs and kittens. It's okay. Comparison to others is the hardest part, though.

[lea]

I think if you are the "one" for yourself, than you also can be the one for your partner, and if he thinks the same he will be the "one". I had so much problems with myself& i needed to love myself and so i can enjoy everyday. Even if i am alone, the "one" ist at my side.

[HS-lvis]

This actually blew my mind. I have had an ongoing list of things I want to do on dates, and I was thinking that finding the one is totally a slim chance. So I was just going to go on casual dates so I had people to do those things with.
But after watching your video I went through my list and realized like 95% of it is stuff I'd be happy to do on my own so... yeah!

[kymgarcia]

been single for 2 years and it feels really good to spend my time just for myself

[livinglovingnature]

Love this thanks!! I have felt this way for a few months but still kept convincing myself I needed a guy....now I'm good....I don't NEED a guy. If one day I meet someone who is happy and whole he can share time in my happy whole life as I can share in his. Nobody should have the responsibility of making someone else's life happy! I love myself now and my life and it's been a long hard road to get to this understanding but it's so worth it!! Good luck to all you beautiful people ... be content with who you are as you are amazing just as you are xx