How to be confident

[helpmeplez]

The music while walking one is actually so true. I be walking on beat with my earbuds and I feel great.

[Alicsnc]

Heres what i wrote
Im unperfect
My smile
My confidence
My social anxiety
My fear of the dark
My love that i give
My mood changes
My handwriting
My carelessness of seeing what's real and what's fake
My ability to care for someone who doesn't
My ability to cry(wish i couldn't❤)
My lack of confidence

Im not perfect, but i will try to be better

[iriisss_.]

actual tips that aren’t half deadly or terrifying LMFAOOOO:

Be kind to people, you don’t wanna agree during a conversation that is cruel to another being; prime example;

Friend: look at her, she looks like a fury LOL.

me: whats wrong with you?

Friend: it was a joke chill.

me: not very funny.

Friend: okay and?

that is a example of a conversation you SHOULD have if someone is bullying someone behind their back. Prime example of what not to do;

Friend: look at her. Weirdo 💀

Me: yeah- whats with her outfit…

Friend: literally.

TIP 2; be confident (ofc) keep your posture up, chin up. chin down can resolve in a double chin (depending on face shape I struggle with it.) and please don’t do stuff like double chins on purpose- frankly, I used to do that and I regret it sm 😭🙏


Tip 3; overall, don’t “fake it till you make it” dress how you want, dress on what you love and feel confident in don’t feel the need to wear what others wear to feel cool please <3 your perfect the way you are.

[_.carmillacarmine._]

GUYS 🙌
I used to be a total introvert, but I found my way to make a small breakthrough. To make one friend, talk to the person next to you in class. I feel more comfortable talking with females since I’m female! Then, their friends might talk to them. That way, you all can be friends. Keep doing that and you’ll get introduced to more people! More friends=Confidence. Sorry if this didn’t make sense lol


Update: do not do this it’s stupid. Please 😭🥰

[Nobody.]

Please don't do the first one in public. It's safer to be alert and careful outside because anything can happen. 😊

[novalovaaa]

I feel like the main thing I need is a glow up because sometimes I'm not even that shy it really just depends. Also I think I just need to force myself to act the way I do with my siblings and family when I'm at schl bc I'm like acc so entertaining if I'm comfortable with ppl like popular ppl are always so boring when I listen to their convos, it's just confidence. If you're reading this, girl/boy you got this dw ❤️

[mikeoxed]

I look weird if I stare at someones eye, I'm born introverted, I have severe social anxiety, and I'm shy.

[ansdiary]

I've just lost my only friends and my tips for confidence are: head up high, strut and smile! Ignore all the people ruining your life and let them realise that it's there loss not yours!

[jellyhoody]

One time my violin teacher said "fake it till u make it" before one of our biggest concerts, so I pretend to play 💀😭😭😭 and he noticed and got mad💀

[MisterEPlays]

I aint too shy but when i ask someone for help or something my confidence drops by 500%

[Quartzite]

Guys the biggest tip i can give about being self confident- or even being ok woth yourself is adopt a self-centered persona. It doesnt have to be all the time. Acting like i was the hottest person even actually helped me even though it sounds dumb.

[k.cthedogofficialtheog]

Tips:
1. pretend ur a demon possessing this weak human body or pretend to be something paranormal (like a spirit or alien) and u have to act like a human. You can also act like a god deep down and be like "pathetic humans" and stuff yknow

2. Or you can pretend ur life is an actual movie or book series and your spirit accidentally got in the movie/book character!s body, you can only go back to ur own universe if u finish the "plot" or the "storylines". This helps to get rid of the cringe/ challenging moments cuz u think it's because the story required u to and then u can go back to ur universe.

3. I use this one so much like everyday, I pretend that I'm currently live-streaming to ppl except they can hear my thoughts, and if I met someone dumb or mean and I'll be like Yo look at these fools. Or I just cuss out with my thoughts like actually think like actually "talk" deep down and comment on people. Could be hate comments, and you can be like "i slay, they don't"

Hope that helps.

[flooff-mationflooff]

What I have thought of might help with confidence is giving yourself compliments when you look in the mirror, you don’t have to be a narcissistic about it just say things like “my hair looks good today” or “I love my necklace” don’t feel like your being self centered if you do that, you deserve to feel confident!

[Nonexistent_fish]

Tip if your gonna listen to music as you walk make sure it's no when your crossing the road or just near traffic cause it'll me hard to pay attention to your surroundings

[poudht]

I am shy, introverted and have social anxiety. I’ve been talking to a mirror ever since I was young without anyone telling me (Im too shy to express myself to ANYONE, especially my family) and now I’m 14, it never helped and I’ll never change 💔

My confidence in front of the mirror 100%
My confidence in front of people -0%

[nerdsquash]

listen to fashion by britney manson i swear the confidence boost that song gives is impeccable

[we_fishy_fishy_like]

Honestly fake it till you make it is not true confidence. If you have to fake something, you’re never really going to get the “true” product. How can I pretend to be confident when I know damn well I do not believe I am? Even if it gets you somewhere, it is not true confidence. It is about your ability to trust yourself. Faking trust will not make you feel confident. You have to build trust with yourself. I would not try lying to myself just to feel confident… Of course, the advice is appreciated.

[Elireedusb]

To be confident isn’t to fake being confident until you feel somewhat confident you have to look at yourself and reflect on yourself to know your advantages and disadvantages

[stephanieg.]

That girl is do pretty she probably is confident ❤❤❤❤❤

[eenie]

istg she looks exactly like someone i go to school with