6 Signs You Have An Obsessive Love Style

Mania is a type of love that is described as a possessive or obsessive love that can lead to extreme jealousy and codependency. Mania is caused by an imbalance of love and insecurities by two people. But the good news is, even if you find yourself in one of the styles of love that Lee describes, you won’t stay there forever. People ebb and flow in and out of these styles of love. Now, let’s explore the signs you might be experiencing obsessive love.

Writer: Daila Ayala
Script Editor: Vanessa Tao
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Yussie Feng
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[ComicalRealm]

"Love is the most beautiful thing to have, the hardest thing to earn, and the most painful thing to lose" - Fred Flintstone

[khalilahd.]

I feel like you can quickly go from being in love to being dependent and obsessed with someone if you’re not careful. Great advice for those finding themselves doing these things 💛

[Raghav-txym]

0:36 Lack of concentration and focus.
1:10 Codependency.
1:56 You don’t feel good when you don’t get attention from your partner.
2:43 Extreme jealousy.
3:41 Extreme possessiveness.
4:33 Desperately needing your partner.

[Howhughes]

Healthy relationships seem to have a little bit of these issues already present. I think it’s important for both partners to come from a place of understanding and consistently assuring one another’s feelings.

[cringechannel]

Whoever's reading this, I pray that whatever your going through gets better and whatever your struggling with our worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic Easter! Amen.

[clore]

This video has caused me to realize how scary getting into a relationship can truly be... Maybe I'm better off single lol

[wildfyah]

I KNEW IT!! Something felt off about how attached to someone I've been feeling lately

[paradox_himself]

Video idea: How to deal with narcissists, dark empaths and other types of those disorders in a community (like a workplace or school), rather than in a relationship

[isaiahvoss]

If you have obsessive love towards someone, take control of those feelings and tell your partner how you feel. Don't let your relationship go down hill by how you feel. It's how you handle those emotions. It's okay to accept failure or rejection to improve on how to act. When life leaves us blind, love keeps us kind. ❤

[irispierce]

I used to be so incredibly codependent with my ex, but when they left I turned all that ‘love’ I had for them on myself and now a year later I think I’m in a much healthier mindset and can love and be loved in a much healthier way :)

[SCARLETVAMPIREXX]

I know I can be obsessive in a relationship or with a crush, but It’s only because I can’t find my own self-worth, or value like it was mentioned in the video. I’m super dependent, and I really know I need to fix that. I feel like I just get too excited when I get a partner or crush, so it makes me overly obsessive. It could also be because 1. I don’t date too much or for too long, and 2. I’m only in middle school, so I’m probably not gonna be stable for a serious relationship anytime soon.

[NamanyaAndi]

Things i learn about love is, my partner do have another things to do. She has her world, so do i/u.

If u ever feel possessive on ur partner, distract it to something productive. For me it worked both for my productivity and my relationship 🥰

[lesyeuxdemari]

Oh, I accidentally watched this and realized I have 4 of the signs. We already talked about my emotions and he understood me. I've experienced traumatizing moments in life that made my mental and emotional health unstable, my boyfriend understands it and he promised that he'll give all his love to me as long as I love him too. I'm not extremely jealous or have extreme obsessiveness but I admit that I want his attention. We're on an ldr relationship and the only way we can communicate is through calls and chats that's why I want to know everything that happens to his everyday life. He'll be coming here soon and I can't wait🥰

[ravenvalor]

As someone who's been on the other side of this dynamic, it's not fun. Having someone be "your whole world" is not healthy for both parties.

[absentreverie]

i'm the same way with a close friend of mine. i keep a lot of jealousy to myself to help teach myself how to think rationally and keep myself from losing my composure. i have abandonment issues from past relationships and react to negative events based on past experiences and trauma. i'm extremely codependent, and i feel bad for having a hold on them the way i do. i am getting better at keeping our friendship transparent and open, but i still fear those moments.

a lot of the stuff i do though is all out of genuine love for my friend. they mean the world to me and it's hard to think about losing contact with them permanently.

[juliuscaesart]

Feelin’ personally attacked by this channel. Kidding, great content as always.

[Jam_MG]

This is literally me. Every single box checked. I’ve been long aware of my feelings and I know how to recognize that I’m being too much. I don’t think I’ve ever gone too far. I always communicate as much as possible.

[lovebug]

I find this is definitely me, luckily not to the point of being possessive over the person. I’m so scared of losing people I love and I tend to obsessively love them and sacrifice a lot for them. I worry all the time that they don’t really love me and fear every second that they’ll leave me..

[SemiOtterMatic]

Anyone else gone down a rabbit hole of videos like this recently which actually help a lot with reflection and growth. I’ve been watching this type of stuff and I feel I can break down and pin point my emotions much better now and focus on just making memories with my partner. This is honestly a great way to educate people and help mature emotionally.

[OGEdgyUsername]

This is both heart breaking but an eye opener. I didn't believe I was obsessed, but I was checking off everything. I lost someone so important to me and I realized how I acted was toxic. I did pick up on these such as jealousy and always wanting to be with them 24/7. But after the relationship was over, I took the time to reflect on myself. I knew I struggled with an anxious attachment and feeling no self worth, but I never realized I was hurting them. I'm both sad the relationship is over but glad that I'm now seeing what I should do to improve myself. I'm willing to let go, not only to free him from my toxicity but to also to allow myself to take the steps to healing.