10 Great Questions to Ask on a Date | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

Nothing is worse when the conversation falls flat on the first date. In this video, I give you 10 great questions you can ask to start engaging conversations and keep those awkward moments at bay! Be sure to check out the FREE 100 Questions guide by clicking the link above!

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[texmom]

"What was your first sexual thought?" First date?? I'd be out ...

[michellecollins]

I would be so offended if someone asked me on a first date what the first sexual thought I had. I would never see them again. Totally inappropriate. Would make me feel like every boundary had just been violated.

[calinicated]

The problem is that to ask these questions comfortably, you need to be very confident and comfortable on a date already. They push you out of your comfort zone, making it even more awkward.
A better approach is to be as natural and comfortable as possible.
Here are a few tips:

1. The goal of the first date is to get to know each other as humans, and see if you both are interested enough to have the next date.
So keep the first date short (~1 hour). A good plan is to have a coffee/drink/dinner or walk. The place doesn't really matter much! Don't overthink it, it doesn't need to be fancy. It just needs to be quiet enough for a comfortable conversation. Don't go to movies or loud bars! Save that for the second date.
Don't make it last much longer than 1 hour! If it's going well, you both will be looking forward to the next one. If it's not, you don't waste each other's time.

2. Before the date, think about a few things that recently provoked (positive!) emotions in you. It could be books, movies, stories, or events. Let's say you watched a great movie that moved you and made you think.

3. When talking on the date, follow the "question-answer-comment" conversation pattern. Here is how it goes:
a) Ask a question about one of the topics in #1. E.g. "have you seen any good movie recently?"
b) Listen for the answer. Give the person time to say what he/she wants to say. Stay quiet and don't interrupt.
c) Comment on the answer. You might comment on something she just said, and then tell about your own experience. The key thing here is to tell your story emotionally (that's why you needed to pick such topic). It doesn't have to be super witty and funny. Imagine you're with your close friend and you're telling him about something interesting or amazing that happened or occurred to you. That's the frame you want to create.
Repeat. You can ask another question related to what you just discussed, or start a new topic (from your list in #1).

Why is it a good strategy?
- it avoids the interrogation pattern. You don't just ask questions.
- it avoids the narcissist pattern. You don't just talk about yourself all the time.
- it keeps the conversation flowing naturally. Both people have the chance to talk.
- it provokes emotions. That's why it's important to talk about something that interests you. When you're talking emotionally, the other person will get excited too.
Note: it's applicable to any conversation too, not only for dates.

Good luck!

P.S. Second date is an entirely different story from the first date.

[elliequinn]

NEVER ask about someone’s past relationships on a first date !!

[anastasia]

if a guy asked me any sexual questions on the first date, I wouldnt want a second one with him.

[granny]

No sex questions on first date. Id be creeping out and it would leave a bad impression.

[TherealgoddessK]

if a guy asked me these questions on a first date I am not so sure i would even finish the date.

[bonezbaaaby]

10 Great Questions:
1. How many people have you killed?
2. What are you afraid of?
3. What are your weaknesses? (I love this one because guys are used to being tough so it catches them off guard)
4. How are you different from most people?
5. Do you have any allergies?
6. What's your weapon?
7. Someone tries to kidnap me. What do you do?
8. Have you ever saved a life?
9. Did you google me?
10. If you died today, what would you leave behind? A song? A painting? A work of literature?

[sandylane]

This is REALLY bad. ALL of these questions would make me extremely uncomfortable.

[J.M..]

I would be pissed off if a guy asked me these questions on a first date. They are too random and strange and they have no significance

[ffsf]

Sorry, but these questions are ridiculous.

[chanelh]

I would ask, "what was your favorite childhood memory, what's one hobby you cant live without, if you had to get rid of all but one possession what would it be and why, if you could switch places with anyone in the world who would it be and why, if you could live anywhere, where would it be, what do you want to do and go when you retire"

[Dixie]

Thank you for actually telling us the questions instead of just selling us an e book or directing us to various websites and linked pages. I very much appreciate that your videos provide the information you claim unlike the other "dating guru's" in Youtube land. You're entertaining and informative.

[aligboyakasha]

This dude loves laughing at his own jokes

[kimjin]

Took 5 minutes 37 second to talk about the questions, the build up is way too long ... and repetitive

[thebrain]

When he said the first question I was like say

[potloodt]

Give each other rapper names... really??! Dude... cringe level to the maximum

[SuperTahitiBoy]

The fact that he loves his questions so much is quite worrying..

[King_Idah]

this video should be named "10 question NOT to ask on a first date."

[kimberlyfoster]

First sexual thought? There is so much poor dating out there and this would just open the door right up for unwanted advances.