How to Stop Being Socially Awkward.

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[WHlFF]

I’m not nervous. Everyone just hates me

[princess_zulica]

my mind freezes and i have no charisma. i stutter and i cant think of anything smart or funny to say. i understand i have to focus on others, perhaps thats my biggest problem, but i freeze. im too stuck to think about anything else and im tired of hating myself for it. just talking to others wont bring some inner me ive been missing for a long time.

edit: I think i found out why i feel terrible about myself. turns out im not a shitty person, I just have unrealistically high standards on myself and how I should be in social interactions. I think I need to be ontop of every aspect whether its being charismatic, funny, kind, yada yada, but no one really cares.. as long as your nice and you can make people smile here and there, your an amazing person. my standard of a good person was too high so if you never feel like your ever enough, maybe your just being too hard on yourself. maybe you are enough.

[renegade-master]

Been surrounded by the wrong company makes you socially awkward

[rmart]

"...or when they say something you dont understand, ask them a question."
Me, asking "what?" for the 27th time because I can't hear them 🙃

[braydoncoker]

You don't have to be interesting, you just have to be interested 👍

[lv]

It's been years I tried and almost nothing changed, I think I'm definetly damaged

[dylancarter]

I’m tired of practicing it’s been this was ever since I was a child I never made friends everyone always leave no matter what I do or try it’s hard to keep going when there’s no reward for trying I give up

[animalfun]

Guys, this is absolutely true, dont make excuses even if the only thing you can manage to let out is a simple hi do it, yes feeling nervous while doing it is completely normal but keep doing it and overtime you'll get used to it, good luck on your journey everyone ❤

[Nbs.joe]

I ask a question they look at me like I’m stupid🤦🏻‍♂️😂

[kalilah]

Ik you think it's ridiculous or like hell nah, but it's seriously work, and find the technique + you practice it you'll make it. I've been there

[dr.a]

I really like this advice. This is exactly what I am doing. I honestly don’t see any other way. My thing is how to recover from the awkwardness and move on without feeling like a complete loser. I had 3 conversations today all of which were, to me, painstakingly awkward. I guess you have to push through the toughness, pay attention, and learn. When it’s a singular incident I don’t feel so bad, but when it’s a person I will see again….I guess for that instance, the positive aspect is another opportunity to get it right. Ultimately I do believe I’m far more awesome and sociable than I think.

[Redmirax]

"get the hell out man, and practice" yeah.. no

[Tienzu]

I tend to latch on to what people say and overthinkand dissecting the interactions to such an extent its exhausting.

[GlobeofBeauty]

I am social death. Can't think of anything to say ever. I can just be sitting there in silence for 5-10 mins trying to think of literally ANYTHING remotely interesting to say/ask. My energy is so low that most the time I just give up on saying anything and come off completely unenthusiastic.

You know how some people are just bad in person, but when they get online like discord they can be funny and know what to say. That's still not me even online with friends I've know for years I still never know how to converse.

[Disqualified_Identity]

Practise is almost always how you get better at something. Learn to properly manage your negative self talk and then take the leap. Say yes to some of the social opportunities that you've been turning down. Choose social settings that allow for free flowing conversation. Dont just go watch a movie with someone. Go out for a coffee and chat. Join a creative team of some kind. Do you play an instrument? If so, try searching for other musicians who would like to jam. It doesnt matter what your interests are. Opportunities for social interaction exist anywhere you'd expect to find people pursuing their interests.

[ron]

This is really good advice most people love talking unless your also talking to a socially awkward person but thats how you get them to open up and feel comfortable with you just seem interested in what they have to say

[pacificosur]

Your advice is an energy draining situation, makes no sense asking what they like or not !

[kalilah]

Reading all these comments get me deja vu, if you have tried going out there free yourself but still not seem to work out. My suggestion focus on yourself and start the self love journey or the "be the best version of you" journey. Good luck you're not alone

[Crabs]

I just don't care about anyone but my family 😂😭its hard to be social when you don't care but you need to be social to fit in

[Rose-tgyd]

1.3k likes with 0 comments lemme fix that