Before Marrying Someone, ASK THEM THESE QUESTIONS - Deepika Bhardwaj

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Deepika Bhardwaj is a men's rights activist. Indian journalist and now also a documentary filmmaker. It was an absolute pleasure to be speaking to someone with so much depth and clarity about what one stands for.

Deepika talks about finding the right partner for yourself. She said, “There is no right formula for it.” She suggests it is important to have clarity on what you want from marriage for both men and women. I feel it is important to date people when you are young as it teaches you a lot about what the other person wants.

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[shrikaracharya]

When you become more intellectual, forget marriage, u r so done with people n world

[rishisuk]

I asked her all these questions (that concerned to my life and job, family): She said Yes, BIG YES (I was not compelling her to say Yes, but I was looking for someone, who is okay with all my concerns)... before the marriage! But just after marriage she did completely opposite to what she said. When I reminded her words, she told me, she acted as she thought I was testing her. Life is not a game, but she assumed it is. Unfortunately, it damaged my life too.

[ksb]

Main points discussed were-
Does she want to live with your parents? ( Yes/No)
Does she want you to live with her parents?
( Yes/No)
Will you be okay if she leaves her job for few years for baby?( Length of time, Yes/No)
Will you be okay if you have to leave your job for few years for baby?( Length of time, Yes/No)
Will she move with you, if you have to go elsewhere for job?
Will you move with her, if she has to go elsewhere for job?
Will you financially help her family members?
Will she financially help your family members?
(Brother/sister education, parents health expenses)

[Himanshu_K]

"Men are blind by 'all women are good' that they don't want to see a red flag"
This line was so correct by her, often I have seen my friends behaving like a complete idiots and go behind a girl while keeping this whole stupid narrative in their minds. They gotta have some questions and put in forward what they REALLY want.

[conor]

Great one. But i disagree when you said men are less emotional. Being emotional is something which is subjective.

[dnyanrajkale]

One cannot change men / women when they are above 25 so you better have to observe things through their actions. Because saying something is very easy but one cannot do something they haven't done in their lifetime because behaviour comes from habits, upbringing.

[srikrishnavasanth]

8:36 I would rather choose to make friends with opposite gender than dating because during dating people tend to show their best self and while in a friendship good is good and bad is bad.
Dhoodh ka doodh, pani ka pani.

[Bozojimmy]

There is no such thing as "choosing the right partner". Obviously there are red flags, but you can never predict how someone will behave in certain circumstances

[Yadavlakshya]

After listening to this podcast i have decided not to get married ... ❤️🤣

[tiger]

When people date, couples meet, they put in their best "self" forward; they can be in this state till marriage and even till the honeymoo phase; after that the real person with his good and bad emerges and that causes all the issues. Main issue is not knowing the person in totality before marriage. Besides people change with time, environment & situations. One needs to know the other well enough to deal with such changes. Marriage is not like buying furniture... that one can change after a couple of years.

[ashwinisv]

I told him, "I want to study after marriage". He said that he will support my education!! And after marriage, I was treated worst than a bonded labour... Now with two kids, I am left to fend for myself!! Best thing in life is to be independent - emotionally and financially...

[pussycla]

I just went through divorce and she spoke brilliantly about the mistakes about mistakes I made as a man. Hats off

[swati-hyuv]

Just to let everyone know it is not that this is that straightforward. If you ask someone yes, no questions. And expect them to answer honestly. I find in marriage or before people lie a lot. Everyone should focus on their goals and if anyone helps them to be in that journey then you should marry. It works both ways!

[punkaj]

I have decided a long time ago not to get married but after watching this podcast I am more convinced to not get married. 😂😂

[sachinshetti]

We still leave in a society where dating is not totally accepted. For arranged marriages, we get to decide in just one meet. And just to have a good impression, people tend to say yes for everything. Like RishiS UK mentioned problems starts later on. Its not about men or women, its the way our society is.

[imblueeyeboy]

3:14
"The idea is all women are good, so they do not even want to see the red flags".
story of my life 🙂

[SB-hovt]

relationships r fluid, continuously evolving...this is not a school admission tht you ask yes/no questions...rather focus on getting to know the person over time, and this also means working on your own self awareness levels, give time before committing to relationships or marriage.

[nickraja]

She is absolutely right.
I am 36 and unmarried.
People blame me indirectly for this.
But I figure out the big red flags of all the marriage offer I have received.
I am only one to take care of my parents and they live in a very small place. So, I left my job from Mumbai and moved back once my sister got married. No girl would like to shift here after marriage.

[sd]

Johnny Depp's case is the best example for what will happen if you go for a person only for their looks rather than their mindset. "Don't trust a woman's words trust her actions". A woman can move mountains if she is truly in love with you. woman's words are connected to her mood Once her mood changes so does her words. Sometimes They'll deny what they said. They'll put the blame on their period. Communication is never the key for a perfect relationship, both genders can lie without hesitation. Women think that it's okay to put blame on their mood for acting crazy sometimes.Find a woman who is mature, find a woman takes accountability for what she says or said, find a woman who accepts her mistake instead of arguing she's always right. Stop doing this social media shit "Miss always right", "women are never wrong".