Narcissist hate rejection and being turned down. dating a narcissistic person that isn't your type

NARCISSIST WILL TREAT YOU BADLY IF YOU REJECT THEM AT FIRST. DATING A NARCISSIST THATS NOT YOUR TYPE.

Narcissists hate being rejected and will punish you if you give them a chance after initially rejecting them.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

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Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you so much and lets HEAL together

[ScientificLee]

So
being easy makes you a target
and
playing hard to get makes you a target.
Got it.

[shantelideas]

so true, I ended up marrying one and having a baby for him. The marriage is now over and he has discarded both myself and his daughter. But the thing is When I was going through the discard phase i did not know what a narcists was and when i tried to explain to people what he was doing to me no one believed me. Now I am so grateful for lee and YouTube. All this information is making me a stronger person and I am finally getting off the narcistic abusive hamster wheel.

[ad]

This is my last relationshit. I'm "conventionally attractive" and he is a scrawny nerd type. I rejected him several times but was won over by his persistence. After the love bomb he tried to make me insecure thru triangulation. It didn't work and I dumped him.

[ofbxuku]

Spot on! 🎯
2022, we’re not dating or setting with anyone who’s not our type, spec or out of pity. 💕

[denisewilliamson]

Thank You Lee, live this video! People need to heal before they even get involve with anyone. Please don't go back to a toxic relationship if you are silent right now! Do you! Love yourself! Glad you feeling better!😊

[alexyu]

I thought the whole time that I was doing everything right by everyone, and had this take it or leave it attitude.I’m starting therapy this Saturday to get help.

[bernesemuir]

This is so so true what u say !! Happened to me, caught in a vulnerable state for me the death of my partner everything u speak of so true

[eyeaneye]

Lee every time I listen to one of your videos I feel like I need to bring one of those old timey church fans and rock back and forth as I fan myself because you preach that truth hunty. I absolutely love. That truth is what's gonna set us free. I ask myself everyday why the hell I ever gave someone thats not my type a chance. I paid dearly for it emotionally. Never again

[itsmoenishanotmoesha]

That's literally what happened to me and the narc. I initially ignored him in my inbox. the ex narcissist is attractive but he's really not my type of guy I'd be interested in. it was his pursuit that caught me and the initial charm.

[aparkerstu]

Facts! He used to say I’m going to get you off your high horse. Smh

[zee_lolaj]

Happened JUST.LIKE.THIS for me.
I Can say it didn't last long. But it Did make me Aware of what I need to work on within myself.
Thank you Lee💜💜🙏🏿

[Reedrew]

Absolutely true. He stayed in my inbox. Literally begging me. After months of love bombing I gave in. It was ok at 1st. Then he dissappeared. I was pursuing him. He didnt care. I finally said to him Im moving on. Omg he said he was going to let the world know I wasn't the person I pretend to be. Thank you Lee. I finally understood this type of person..he is a toxic demon.

[lpeacelovefaith]

I actually just went on a date with a guy that I thought I really liked… he immediately started fast forwarding everything, printed out a schedule so we could sync up our schedules with our kids, etc. I took a step back without saying so, just didn’t act as excited as I guess he wanted me to be… mind you, we had one date. Because I backed off because I felt some 🚩 he suddenly texted me saying some personal past issues came up and he had to take a break from “us”…. And that he would reach out at a later date and HOPEFULLY explain more….. Huh? One date? Us? I responded with, “please don’t reach out at some nebulous later date “ ….Peace out.
I thought he was a normal one at first!! Damn.

[latashiasmith]

That's what happened to me i would never do that again

[purplepeanutt]

I call people who reach out to those who are vulnerable right after a break up vultures. They looking to swoop in and get what they want

[debcaramel]

I was not in sound mind at all...I went from one narcissist to another one..same demon different body..working on ME now!!😢

[alexandriasimone]

I hope you feel better lee thank you for sharing this information even when your sick much appreciated

[CS-skii]

Been there, done that. And I wasn't even attracted to him to start with. Listen to Lee

[kshejohnson]

This. I feel like I did charity in the beginning. Now 3yrs later I'm trying to get out. But not before I've begged for love, sex n for him just to speak to me. Finally I've lost all attraction and remembered who I am. Now I look at him like how do u think u can act this way. Not even just the looks but the constant I'm a stick n the mud, never happy, never smile, argue with anything u say, no personality ass dude

[boostmobile]

Biggest FEAR IS REJECTION. RESENTMENT, &( insane state of mind) Punishment FOR. (different interests). Healing? Not able to manage REGULATE ONES EMOTIONS. REALITY? VS. Imagination. Fantasy.
Grudge. Is that behavior RIGHT? BEHAVIORS?