5 Reasons People-Pleasers are Indecisive

As a people-pleaser, you may find yourself struggling with making decisions. In this video we talk about 5 reasons why this happens and how we can make decisions to prioritize our own needs.

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This video was created by Barbara Heffernan, LCSW for educational purposes only. These videos are not diagnostic and provide no individual consultation. Consumption of these materials is for your own education and any medical, psychological, or professional care decisions should be made between you and your primary care doctor or another provider that you are engaged with. Barbara Heffernan is not available for individual consultation via YouTube, social media, or email, and provides services only in the manner mentioned above.

☀️☀️CHAPTERS☀️☀️
0:00 5 Reasons people-pleasers are often indecisive
1:21 Focus on making others happy
2:52 Misguided view of selfishness
5:39 Wanting everyone to like you
6:44 Lost touch with what you need
8:52 Understanding your values
10:33 What makes decision-making hard?

[Сейдулла-юф]

This is happening to me now. I'm afraid of everything. I am 57 years old. My children, especially my daughter, have offended and humiliated me countless times over the past two and half of the year, despite the fact that other people, on the contrary, praise me. Since I love my daughter very much and this humiliation is very vulnerable from the person closest to me, I get lost day after day, I blame myself for everything mentally. I have one thing on my mind: all the good, smart, able only I am the only one who is good for nothing. Thank you very much, I only recognized myself now 😂❤

[kellysandblom]

This is very much me. My mother is a narcissist and it was always about her, focusing on her…you nailed everything on the head. I did watch your rewire your brain webinar and that was very helpful. Thank you for what you do! 😊

[VashtiPerry]

I ised to be like this sooo bad. I've been doing some work on myself abd learning about how my childhood affected me as an adult. I'm doing better everyday.

[xzx]

I hate being a people pleaser. Hate more that I can't really stop it...