What Does Compatibility Really Mean? The Gottman Method Relationship Advice

Jumpstart Your Relationship:

Do you think in order to be compatible with your partner you have to share certain interests, values or goals? Think again. On this Episode of Small Things Often, we explore what it truly means to be compatible.

Sign Up for Love Notes and get the latest on relationships, parenting, therapy and more, from the experts at The Gottman Institute. Includes a free download every month.

[garyzornow]

Hello
We are already married, our goals are different, my emotional intelligence is next to none, and I fear talking with my spouse. I have never learned about being in relationships or what work it is. I don't think I ever felt love or the things that are associated with love. I got married for the wrong reasons, twice.
Is there any hope of developing love or even friendship?
Help!
Gary