How To Fight Fair In Marriage | 5 Tips For Good Communication | MUST WATCH 👀

Today, we are going to be talking all about communication in marriage. Get your note pads ready because this video is packed with info!
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TIMELINE👇
[00:00] Teaser
[00:39] Intro
[03:12] Why I Divorced My Husband
[08:21] Tip 1: Stop Using "Never" and "Always"
[09:12] Tip 2: Stop The Name Calling and Cursing
[10:54] Tip 3: Stop Yelling, Start Talking
[11:26] Tip 4: Don't Get Historical
[12:33] Tip 5: Never Threaten Divorce
[13:26] Advice For Husbands
[14:23] Final Thoughts
[15:04] Outro
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[TheKnallkorper]

I am so grateful that I found your channel. My marriage is not where I want it to be, and I’ve spent a little bit watching you while he is deployed so I can work on myself, see where my issues lie, and how I can improve to be a better wife, because I’m not gonna lie, I’m the biggest issue in my marriage 😅

[estevaobk]

I would add: Women should avoid criticizing their husband in public, even if it's in a "playful" way. And men must be more able to "control the pace" during an argument, trying to help it maintain calm and rational even if the woman is clearly angry, agitated and frustrated.

[emiliakhan]

I'm a fairly new wife! Got married in Dec of 2021 and I'm now a stay home wife (hopefully soon mother) and I cannot stress how much I appreciate your channel!! We have a traditional marriage and I want nothing more than to make sure my husband is appreciated. The other day we had an issue because I'm still learning to properly be a housewife and he expressed some emotions that he didn't feel I was fully holding up my duties as a wife when he was doing his part as a husband. And he was right! As much as it hurt to hear, and it was embarrassing even, he was right! And his feelings were valid! I heard him out, and we discussed it. Things are great now! But we communicated.

[Mystical_Kraken]

I thought the "Don't go to sleep angry" advice was valid, but you made a good point about leaving the topic for another day to prevent things from getting out of hand. Never thought of it that way

[meraki]

I’ve never realized til recently how opposite my fiancé and I are when it comes to our love language, and our wants/needs. After digging into your channel, I’ve greatly expanded my way of thinking. So many marriages would be saved if everyone took the time to look inward. My man doesn’t think the way I do, so why would I expect him to know if I don’t explain and vice versa. I can’t thank you enough for opening my eyes.

[venusbleu]

You keep taking notes from those other ladies and keep passing it on, love your channel, my current engagement/ impending marriage is grateful for you!

[ibnsabeel]

5:50 “I scooped up the kids and was out……… This is so common……….” 💯🎯👏🏾👏🏾🏆
You are so right lady. It is so common —— HERE IN THE WEST. So he didn’t abuse her or the kids. He didn’t have an affair. He wasn’t on drugs or an alcoholic. He didn’t have a gambling problem. He wasn’t unemployed and refused to work. He wasn’t financially irresponsible. I freaking totally understand why you divorced him and took his children out of his home. Got it. 👍🏾

[mgtowbylogic]

Fighting, like dating, is pretty dumb.

Discussing, from humility, with empathy, curiosity and love, that sounds good.

Hope you and the family are doing great! Keep going Rebecca!

[Mrs.Silversmith]

I would add that taking two minutes on your own to pray about whatever is bothering you before you go and start a difficult conversation is incredibly helpful. It may not fix things instantly, but for me it can help calm me down a little so that I can communicate more clearly what I need to.

[jamiehopkins]

I don't know how many Male followers, but I listen to you everyday at work .
You are therapy for me! Hearing a woman's perspective the way you explain, .
I've found myself taking a couple of your pointers.

[nathanielhegge]

Coming from an abusive relationship quite recently, sometimes you need to tell someone that their feelings aren’t real. My ex was in an imaginary present based on a real past. Once I realized this, I stopped getting upset and my patience for her actually grew during a pretty tough spot in our relationship. I hope this framework helps someone dealing with a person with tons of baggage.

[SoSkepticalFox]

Love your channel, idk if ive shared this before, ive been comenting too much on youtube videos lmao, what I've learned with my relationship is how much a man you loves you is willing to do to make you happy, if you can calmly and honestly express what is making you unhappy.
He doesn't want me to unhappy. So when I came to my boyfriend and calmly told him I feel so overwhelmed, there's so much house work and I feel like I can never catch up, I don't feel like I can relax and work is driving me crazy. His first reply was "what can I do to help" instead of saying "you don't help enough around the house I have to do everything" I kept it based on what I was feeling and what the actual problem is. The problem isn't my boyfriend it's the housework.

Edit: so I guess I'm saying, don't turn your partner into your enemy. Keep the enemy on what the extranal issue actually is. Your partner rather fight along side your or for you, rather than against you

[A.HoneyBear]

I really recommend the book “how to
Love your spouse when you feel like walking away” it really touches on everything shes talking about.
This book saved my marriage. I followed the steps…. As much as my pride and ego didn’t want to I did it. And my marriage has is amazing. I feel like I’ve broke through that threshold we will be in love for the rest of our lives.

[sudipsaha]

Fully agreed with the final thought part of your video

[halleyangel]

I needed this right now. Me and my fiance are trying to work on communication and I'm concerned since he's just giving me all the choice and reigns which isnt what I want. I dont need to hold all the power nor do I want it. Were seeing about marriage counseling sooner than later.

[ack]

Now this video I can relate to a lot more than some of your other videos. I'm guilty of a lot of these things but it's really easy to let my frustration get the better of me. My spouse and I also have very hard-headed personalities with an added language and cultural barrier. This video has given me a lot of good things to think about.

[davidmackinnon]

This video is golden! I've been married for 5 years and I've had to learn these tips the hard way.

[michaeldelossantos]

I like this style of video. I’m not married yet, but I’ve learned so much from you in this video and it led me to a deep place of prayer so that I don’t become that spouse that fails to understand my wife. Thank you so much for this.

[shanenolan]

Thanks, Rebecca. Happy Easter to you, James, River, and the rest of the family. Hope your mom has settled in .

[hometowngirlncurls]

This was good!!! I know that I can do better with communicating with my husband. I love this kind of content.