6 Ways a Narcissist Uses Sleep To Cheat On You

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction
01:25 They Would Come Up With Bizarre Excuses Related To Their Sleep And Their Phone
04:17 They May Fake Sleep On Couch
05:57 They Would Act All Tired And Would Hang Upon You
08:15 They Would Fake Falling Asleep
09:43 5. They Immediately Fall Asleep After An Intense Argument

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[honestlyharsha]

The fact that they can sleep with their partner crying all night is true and so cruel. They are monsters pretending to be humans. Every word is true sir.🙌🏻I hope these videos help people to come out of this deadly fog of narcissism.

[prettyroze]

Them falling asleep while you are hurting and crying has to be the most painful feeling ever 💔 😢

[JesusfavQueen]

I grew up around narcissist and the best way to deal with them is Never claim them and always ignore them

[jlh]

They also use sleep to ignore you, blank you, negate you and dismiss you. Sleeping "at the drop of a hat" regardless of situations or circumstances. If it means they can disengage and upset you, they'll use sleep as their weapon, and you'll be left wide awake, with emotions to the extreme.

[charlottehicks]

This " Sleep Cheating" talk is so
"spot on!". They do a multitude of things like pretending they are too tired, or sick, in pain, or a hard day at work

[scottdogfl]

Another thing they do is to make sure that YOU don't get proper sleep, thereby affecting your work, emotional well being, and then they blame it on you when they intentionally keep you awake before a major presentation at work or a friends wedding or party, etc. My ex used to blast movies on high volume in the middle of the night instead of using headphones. But if I were to do that, there would be hell to pay.

[thomasanderson]

I'm really impressed that you called it evil. Not many people have the courage to call it what it is. Cold and evil. We all do selfish things from time to time but when the selfish behavior is every day or almost every hour of the day, we have an evil person that lacks empathy

[TheOneJPtv]

So true. Phone died, lost phone, stolen phone, phone cut off due to bill, they were sleeping, do not disturb mode, straight to voicemail, the lies are endless

[aishasidiyaro]

I was married to a narcissist for eight years and those were the most difficult years of my life. I was screaming and shouting for help. I thought I was going insane. His "sleeping" is "cheating". I am glad I got the strength to leave. I left him a few months ago and I am healing well. I am now enjoying the meaning of life with my three daughters.

[simonpegg]

Just this morning, I was thinking how a narc uses the most simple things to manipulate or exploit their victim - sleep is definitely one of them.

[HotSeat]

A Narcissist's soulmate is a mirror. 😂

[gigiarmany]

your distress actually helps them sleep better..👾 it's like soothing music to the narcissist, they sleep & snore while you weep..evil creatures 😈

[victree]

"They will constantly accuse you of the things they are actually doing" is the Golden Rule. In a narcs mind, everyone has the same motives and dishonesty they do so they are abnormally obsessed with accusing you of those things. My narc ex cheated for years and I was naive and convinced myself my feelings were a problem with me. Coupled with them accusing me of cheating all the time when I was devoted to them and made every effort to be with them 24/7, I was a confused mess.

[thinkforyourself]

we settle for neglect. When someone seems like they want to "escape", that's your first clue to simply end the relationship. Seriously. If someone is afraid of your feelings, it's because they arent ready for a relationship. If you are becoming "clingy", you are in the wrong situation. Because evertrhing in your body is feeling starved.

[shamikae]

It happen to me. They lied so much. I was so hurt cause I didn't do anything but love them. I did everything. Everything you're saying is on point. So accurate their frauds

[Dee-iueg]

My husband slept on the couch for years while he was having an affair. He complained that his shoulder hurts, and the couch helps him feel better. He is very flirtatious with every beautiful woman he comes across, especially when he takes me out to dinner, he ends up flirting with the waitress the entire time. And yes he does sleep a lot!!! and he is always grumpy, mad & tired, but as soon as the phone rings, he doesn’t realize that his tone changes and he is the funniest guy on this planet.😅

[rasham.]

Once you're out of the relationship with the Narc you can find some humor in all of the effort that they put into maintaining all of their madness lol. I honestly am so very grateful that I can find peace in living my own authentic/honest life. Shoot, I can feel joy just sitting with a hot cup of tea. I can't imagine spending my entire life being a fraud to every person I encountered just so I could gleam a speck of joy from their suffering and misguided trust. I pity them... The karma can't be good.

[tonyale]

1) cheat all the time, but say that loves me
2) would go to the bathrooms or to his parents’ house to play on the phone
3) avoid the phone, sleep, to avoid talking
4) fake sleep: weird sleeping pattern. Once I sleep then he would be on his phone. He would constantly check my phone.
5) calls me drama queen, other names
6) gaslight… been there
7) yes, he could careless about my emotions but I must care about his emotions

[KhaleesiKimi]

My ex was definitely number 5. He could fall right a sleep right after he spent the past few hours screaming at me. And using me to regulate his anger. 😢 I’m happy to be free from that burden 🎉