6 Mistakes Men Make When Women Pull Away (Every Single Guy Needs To Know This)

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[mrdanno]

If a girl knows how you feels and she still wants to pull away, let her go. Forget about it and move on. Concentrate on the essentials.

[wynonasbigbrowndragon]

The mistakes, for those in a hurry

1) Obsessing over why she pulled away
2) Chasing (not pursuing- she has another video explaining the difference. Check it out when you eventually finish your deep dive on this one. )
3) Grand gestures/Being overly nice
4) Getting clingy
5) Trying to change her mind/Begging
6) Waiting around for her

My cheesy summary? She may not respect you either way. But she DEFINITELY won't respect you if you don't respect yourself. Go out there and kick ass, my dudes. But before you do, give this video a thumbs up 👍

[Virginian]

My biggest takeaway from this is be a good man and if she doesn't want that, let her go. Someone will appreciate everything she didn't.

[za]

Guys, at the end of the day, you can't control other people and if the girl pulls away, just forget about it. All you can do is present your best self to a girl, show her why you are the real deal and a good choice, and after that, it is up to her to connect the dots and open the door. If she can't do that, just move on and another girl will be able to get you. A real man with value doesn't need to chase someone or clobber them over the head on why he's high value; people will be able to see that make the connections as needed, and if they can't, that's their loss.

[mattlogan]

Rejection breeds obsession. If she’s running away from you, good indication it’s not meant for you. Don’t take it personally and move on

[joaquin]

This is why it's healthier to chase/obsess over your own hobbies, and interests. When a woman pulls away, put that chasing/obsession energy towards your hobbies and interests. This will not only help you cope, but you'll feel happier and will make you a more interesting person that other women will respect and admire.

[ChrisLee-yrtz]

Where's the video telling women to be consistent, say what they mean and mean what they say and to not say and act like they want you and then pull away? Can't wait for that episode.

[breakingthenotion.]

It’s a tough pill to swallow but don’t chase after people. If they want to be with you than they will make time for you. This goes for friendship and relationship.

[nykia]

We as guys need to get out of our logical mindset when this happens..and searching for reasons. Just let her go. If she is someone who you want to circle her way back to you, you have a far better chance of succeeding if you leave her be, and live your own life. It seems counter intuitive if you havent experiencd this or have failed at it, but it's true.

[JasonEscalera]

I've done every single mistake listed here lol. I'd love to say I wouldn't have made these mistakes if this video was out 6 years ago, but I know my heart would have been too stubborn. Everything here is true and I hope guys who are going through something similar take this advice to heart.
While I feel lonely from time to time, I never want to go back to the anxiety and depression of being infatuated with someone who would take 3 weeks to 3 months to respond to my texts. This goes for friends too. I'm ok with people walking in and out of my life; now I'm just focused on my peace and solitude.

[roejogan]

Went on a couple dates with a girl. On the final date, got the “side hug” at the beginning and end. Caught the friendzone vibe. Moved on to the next. No hard feelings

[HANASANAChannel]

Never chase or beg. Let her realize what she’s missing and if she truly cares they will always come back.

[moolis]

Pick someone who picks you. Period. Don’t waste time & investment with someone who feels lackluster about you.

[kevinc]

If she is pulling away, frankly she is already out the door; take the hint. It is just a weak way for her to break-up with you.

[Ironmanu]

I take being rejected as a " blessing " in disguise. Love is reciprocal & works " both ways!". The love you get should be equal or greater than the love you give!...To be validated, appreciated & respected is PARAMOUNT in ANY functional & healthy relationship! You can't control and make somebody love you! There are nearly 8 Billion people on this 🌎 earth!... Co- dependency or insecurities are not going to get you anywhere with anyone! Acting thirsty and with scarcity are going to attract the WRONG people who have the WRONG motives...intentions & agendas! Being used and abused isn't worth being with ANYONE who has those characteristics! So, relax, take your time and really get to know that person before making any serious commitments to them.

[tommygunn]

Very helpful!
A mantra I developed a couple years ago in situations like such is this...
"Personally, it's not personal"

[machinesofgod]

I recently got ghosted by a girl and I thought things were going well. Fortunately for videos like this and life experience, I am not upset in anyway. She actually did me a favor by revealing this major red flag early on. Fellow men, when this happens to you, I hope this post and this video help you out.

[standardofexcellence]

I once won a girl over i like with this along but it was just not obsessing over and realizing I needed to work on myself and bad timing. You never know what a girl is going through better or worse, she made it back around and we had a really good relationship and chemistry after.

[RedHoodFH]

Don't be on anyone's bench. Like, don't let anyone string you along with hope because honestly hope is a terrible fucking thing when it comes to this

[sorlexx]

Feeling heartbroken that she suddenly lost interest in me after many dates that were going well. It hurts even more when you knew she liked you a lot, you kissed and did other things together. But you can't do anything about it. You just move on😔