The Narcissism Doctor: “1 in 6 People Are Narcissists!” How to Spot Them & Can They Change?

Life-Saving Tips: Revealing Narcissists & Breaking Free from Trauma Bonds.

Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a clinical psychologist & Professor Emerita of Psychology at California State University, and the Founder & CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. She is also the author of books such as "It’s Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People."

Dive deep into the dangerous world of narcissism and discover how to spot narcissistic behavior, protect yourself from emotional trauma, identify the 6 types of narcissists, and learn about their covert tactics, like gaslighting and deprivation.

We’re breaking down the alarming rise in narcissism, its connection with addiction, the risks in online dating and why we often miss red flags in harmful relationships.

Dr. Durvasula explains the true definition of narcissism and gaslighting, the negative impact of being raised by narcissistic caregivers, how trauma bonding can evolve from a parent-child relationship to an adult romantic relationship, and the most disturbing aspects of being in a romantic relationship with a narcissist.

She also covers:
- Her top tips for being GASLIGHT-PROOF
- What grandiosity and lack of empathy really looks like in a relationship
- Who is most at risk for attracting narcissists?
- Why online dating is the perfect preying ground for narcissists
- The biggest challenges narcissists face in therapy
- Once you’re diagnosed as a narcissist, is that the nail in the coffin?
- How to have compassion for the narcissist in your life and find a way to engage while sticking to your boundaries
- Post-separation abuse and why some people may stay with a narcissist
- Harmful institutions that are contributing to the narcissism problem
- Why chemistry isn’t the most important thing in a relationship
- Why she thinks so many people are interested in narcissism now

Dr. Durvasula wants you to know that YOU are not the problem.

Don’t miss these critical life-saving insights - TUNE IN to MBB today!

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CHAPTERS:
0:00 - Intro
4:43 - True Definition of Narcissism
10:18 - D.I.M.M.E.R.
17:24 - The 6 Types of Narcissists
25:39 - How Prevalent is Narcissism?
28:38 - Can Narcissists Change?
37:35 - Narcissistic Parent
46:00 - Why Do People Stay?
52:50 - Narcissism and Online Dating
1:00:10 - Gaslighting
1:04:22 - How to Be Gaslight-Proof
1:10:36 - Trauma Bonding
1:23:26 - Why are People So Interested in Narcissism?

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[jandmvideos]

Dr. Ramani Durvasula helped me so much after my divorce from a narcissist. I couldn’t understand what happened until I found her on YouTube. After listening to her for hours, I understood and was able to move on without feeling guilty. When he tried to get back in my life, I was able to see through his every move and not allow him to creep back in.

[jean-pierrep]

Vulnerable narcissists are the worst to be around. They mess with your sanity and are envious of others who are successful. They passive aggressively bring you down to their level and below.

[whipwalk]

Yep. The child is neglected every day and every interaction. As a child, there was no safe space - except being alone. This has made me very content to be alone.

[kristencobb]

30 years with a malignant narcissist. Gaslighting to the point I did question my sanity. When I finally decided to leave he couldn’t take it. I had a mammogram that was abnormal. He told me it was “karma”. Talk about lack of empathy. 8 years free. Some of the best of my life 🙏🏻. Praise God I, and my children, got out.

[grimaux]

As someone who can't afford therapy, Dr Ramani as been valuable to my healing journey

[mahtazdin]

Key word!!!! They are not capable of giving you what you need. It will never happen.

[AnnieRR-mcfg]

It was so validating to hear Dr Ramani say some of her patients are waiting for one to die. That's how I felt about my mom. It was tough when she finally did die at 92. The grief I felt wasn't that she was gone, but that she would never say I was ok. It's been 3 years and I can finally see she had some good qualities, but I don't miss her and I'm glad she's gone!

[giselerose]

Thank you for stating to “throw out the back story!” No excuses for bad behaviors!

[Linda-kjkb]

Hollow empathy! 🔥Perfect description and a huge hoover. They convince you they care and ... they don't. They just don't.

[lulu]

I think that Dr. Ramani should receive a Nobel Peace Prize. She is making such an enormous contribution to society. So thankful for her!

[vanessawhitneypro]

Been listening to Dr. Ramani for a few years now… I’ve said goodbye to two narcissistic people in my life. Appreciate her so much.

[rosyloveslearning]

Dr. Ramani is the GOAT on the topic of narcissism.

[kdevinturner]

Narcs never say "sorry". Never wrong.

[CH]

Thankyou for the reminder that we must accept that there will not be change. Some are born without Empathy.

[jeffheath]

My mother was a respected teacher in a small community. She, IMO, was a covert narcissist and addicted to conflict/drama/anger... she was beloved my many who did not know how she behaved at home. I thought it was normal but later realized, by socializing with friends, lovers, and co-workers, how she exploited my need to be loved and cared for for her personal fulfillment, like a vampire. It took me decades to build up the courage to let go because shes my mom and i love her dearly. Years later, I can honestly say im so much better off.

[ellieramseyer]

This is one of the best interviews of Dr. Ramini Durvasula. What an amazing individual and human being.

[belovedchild]

I woke up this whole thing 6 years ago. I systematically removed all narcissistic, toxic and emotionally immature people from my life. I now live a rich and fulfilling life. ❤️🙌🏻👊🏻🙏🏻

[tracigodfrey]

The narc I divorced and am still living with until our son goes off to college in a month, literally does not say ONE WORD to me. Not in private, and not when our son is around. This is a 67 year old person. A 67 year old who acts like a petulant child. I can not WAIT to be away from this toxic, horrific BABY.

[Transformation.Massage]

My ex husband is a malignant narcissistic and he has abused many vulnerable people. What has been the hardest part to heal from was his complete lack of ability to ever once say he was wrong or sorry 💔. 20 years of abuse and not once could he appoligize to me 😢. I was never going to get closure or understanding or change, and yes as soon as my youngest turned 18 I packed my car and fled while my ex was out of town. I had to give myself closure and rebuild myself and recreate a new life. The happy news is I did rebuild myself and eventually found my new partner who is loving, humble, affectionate, supportive, and I can feel safe and secure with. ❤

[colleenmurphy]

Divorced a malignant narcissist after decades of gaslighting, financial abuse, control, etc.
Had to leave my home in secret with my child and pets just to survive.
It was so worth it to gain my freedom and discover my peace of mind❤