Why AUTISM Communication Issues Create ANGER Problems (MUST WATCH)

This is why autism and communication creates anger issues. Understanding how anger and communication work.

People on the autism spectrum have issues with communication, it’s no secret to know that autism route is caused by communication.

Communication is not just speaking it’s actually a whole host of different things like hand gestures social conventions written communication the list goes on.

But if you’re not able to use those communication tools or understand the communicative principles typically then this is going to cause irritation and they rotation will lead to anger.

Autism is at its core a communication issue, and to help this we must understand how to better use alternative communication tools for autism.

You can get an autism communication device that can help with no verbal autism. But this will still present some autism communication difficulties.

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[TheAspieWorld]

Wow we are pushing the likes on this. How many can we get!? 💚

[johnnydollar]

I told my wife that my anger stems from frustration, but I think a person can’t understand it unless they experience it.

[jennifera]

i hate getting angry so quickly. I think past of the problem with communication is that from the beginning of any conversation I already am thinking that I am going to be misunderstood because I'm ND so when I do communicate and I am not understood or taken seriously then it frustrates me because I feel like I am not effectively communicating and then I have to put things another way and it is just the added element of thinking about how to talk makes things that much worse ontop of the issue I am adressing. I am not patient the older I get also and I hate it. I want to be a tranquil patience and kind person.

[davidsiska]

I've been yelled at for hitting myself in the head because it was "childish" and I needed to "grow up" by almost everyone in my family and my life 😢

[wilsons]

Anger management is one of my downfalls, I have Austim and adhd. It does not take alot for me to begin feeling angry but to control that anger is monumental task. I feel anger atleast once a day

[Leathurkatt]

The hitting self thing has been a huge thing in my life, especially when I was younger...

[ElleW-wvrw]

I’d love to see a video on communication and tips/hacks to help with that would be amazing thank you

[ginastotallybodaciousunive]

My last problem was letting what everyone thought bother me on a difficult decision. Everyone was telling me that if I made one choice it was wrong and another was right. I tried to talk about how I felt but since I wasn't very expressive they took what I was saying very lightly until I got mad and bursted into tears and then all that I was thinking and going through came out. They finally understood just how much I was suffering in the situation that I was going through and finally started respecting how I felt instead of trying to convince me of what they thought was best. Once I say how I feel I feel better but it can be difficult for me to say because I'm very sensitive to how the person will react. It can take minutes, hours or days before I am able to express myself. .

[ourmail]

As a sufferer of Asperger’s, I must protest at the amount of waffle in this video and the lack of rapidly getting to the point 🙂

[Jenn-qmni]

Yes to anger management and communication!

[harriettsang]

Thank you for bringing up anger issues, autism and communication!! I recently had a meltdown at work where I was sobbing furiously and near hyperventilating because a colleague had not only stopped my work process but wanted me to revert back to the original. When trying to explain why I burst out, it comes across as so petty and people look at me all confused, thinking "God she cries over everything". I couldn't put into words how encompassing the frustration and helplessness was. Coupled with the fact of all the comments I get like "you need to get better at social cues", "This is nothing. You need to calm down" or "you have to accommodate to others and their workstyles", all of this compounds and twists itself until there's nowhere to go but out. It's so hard to explain the frustration and anger to someone who intrinsically doesn't understand the sheer intensity that we feel those emotions

[nancyduncan]

Communication tools and anger management please!

[bobblefish]

Hey, newly diagnosed here in Texas. Diagnosed with ADHD as a kid. And then misdiagnosed with bipolar, OCD, and social phobia as an adult before finally recognizing autism (ADHD still going strong tho. That one was actually correct, lol).

[ashpense]

I started figuring out how to say "the sound was too much" after I already left the situation or had an outburst and turned all of the stuff off or got angry. I don't know how to tell people what I need in the moment. I only know how to tell people what went wrong afterwards.

Hand gestures make me feel like they are angry for some reason. When my boyfriend is talking to me he gestures a lot and I flinch a lot and back away and stuff.

[nykoserina]

Hi from Jakarta, Indonesia! I'm a 52 year old female and all my life I've always wondered why I feel invisible and feel uncomfortable looking someone in the eye. I can't make friends or keep friends, and can't stand small talk but can talk passionately about deep stuff for hours without realising I'm monopolising the conversation and surprised when someone gets upset at me. Because of dysfunctional communication patterns and also my anger issues, my marriage of 18 years finally fell apart. I've always believed it was my fault because I'm just a not a good enough person. Don't know if I'm on the spectrum but finally it's good to know that not everything is always my fault, sometimes we were just wired that way, on the spectrum or not. However I do feel lucky I have a very loving 25 year old son who lives with me and is very kind and patient with me. Your videos are very helpful and I'm starting to learn to stop beating my self up, thank you!

[MartKart]

When people are talking and making weird jesters, I just guess that there angry for no reason.

[amberjones]

I'd love an anger management/communication video. My 10 yr old gets so aggressive with others at times. I cant explain how the info you give has helped me. Thank you

[muayboran]

Actually, the thing that helped me the most was going through my pickup phase in 2014-16. Literally 2 years non stop I went out and talked to girls because I mever had a girlfriend, and was constantly bullied in school for being this quiet kid. I still have it in group settings as I find it boring, but I got good at conveying what I thinl and pulling people into my world, one on one or 3 people max

[damonalfero]

I lost my temper last night over a communication issue, I felt wife wasn't understanding what I was trying to say, it got real bad, and I'm trying to learn how to recover and deal with the issues I feel when I'm feeling unheard, or misunderstood.

[vongimbelgroup]

Yes! Please make more videos to help us with communication strategies. Specifically how to keep an even temper when talking about something I'm passionate about.

Almost everything I want to share with people gets shut down and cut short because they think I'm too aggressive. Then as they start to indirectly shut down the conversation, I get more upset because I can tell I'm losing them somehow because their "subtle" reactions aren't making sense, then they start getting visibly upset with me because I didn't understand the subtle cues. By the time I realize and start correcting, it's too late, and they just see me as a conversational bully.