5 Things Narcissists Withhold to Torment You

Do you know someone who is a narcissist? Chances are, you probably do. Narcissists can be difficult to deal with and sometimes it feels like they withhold things on purpose to torment us. In this video, I will share five of the most common things narcissists withhold from their victims.

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[howarddavies]

Children need to be educated about this in schools to prevent them wasting their time and lives with these vile people

[John-qvjm]

I think being alone seems to be a better option.

[lolaweed]

They withhold to bait you by keeping you confused and in fog until you become frustrated . They’ll hold that frustration against you and say to you and everyone else you’re confrontational or argumentative

[bostonbutterfly]

Anytime he sees me happy he literally gets angry. I smile 24/7 😁

[deeevansnola]

Baby!!!! This man withheld everything. From sex, affection, attention, money. They withhold any and everything they think will hurt you. Thinking you will come crawling back. I did at first when I didn't know about narcissist. After I learned the game his withholding became my healing. It gave me time to heal and get away from him.

[QuiDocetDiscit]

They definitely withhold approval, compliments, commendation, encouragement, forgiveness.
....and companionship.

[jeffreyzeiss]

The blood bank is closed... so long Dracula! I deserve better!

[HP-inpl]

The withholding affection immediately after they get you on the hook is scary accurate. You're left confused wondering what the heck just happened. Luckily, i caught on and ended it.

[LarsOutzen]

1) Narcissists enjoy manipulating and controlling others, including withholding certain things to torment their victims.
2) They withhold affection as a form of punishment and to maintain control in the relationship.
3) Narcissists may withhold the truth or not tell the entire truth, which can include omitting important details.
4) They may withhold sex as a form of control and to torment their partners.
5) Narcissists may withhold resources, such as money, information, or emotional support, as a way to maintain power and control in a situation.

[arthurcurry]

No victim should have to live like that - being tortured by such a creature in a so called 'Relationship.'

[samuelstewart]

I deserve better than to be tricked, cheated on, lied to, and gaslighted!

[jimycarey]

Sleep deprivation is another weapon.
Audio warfare, screaming and staring arguments in the night.

[morningglory]

The MOST POWERFUL man that ever lived was gentle 95% of the time. He didn't use anyone for $, or anything else, and died for all. Narcissists are the opposite. They are evil.

[RebeccaLovett-fxtg]

Yes he wouldn't show me any affection. Withheld sex then just laughed and left me crying. Evil . Kicked him out after 6 years of hell . So happy to be free . No man will destroy me again.

[naomieleonora]

They withhold almost everything as much as possible.

[dianarowland]

I deserve love. Respect and validation..no compromise

[MarkLupson-itxu]

It is a mistake to underestimate the sadistic element to these individuals. When you turn the tables on them and hold them accountable they collapse. Have no mercy on them. They will have none for you.

[lindamartinez]

Wow, wow,
It hurts me the
More i hear the truth the more it
Hurts.

[mosaic.owl.studios]

I'm a behaviorist. Behaviorists are uniquely perturbed by narcissists because we can see this whole other set of Motivating Operations that are governing a separate, unique set of behaviors which include lying, misleading, and withholding the truth. The MO conditions are unique and special to the narcissist's ongoing behavior and perceived needs. Behaviorists see these conditions that lead to the pathological/compulsive lying by narcissists...and it is SO painful to witness

[lindamateri]

Bingo I got hours of texting from him in the early stage, ,,now I am lucky to get any from him even though we are in the same house