Rebuilding after divorce | How to rebuild your life after losing everything

Meet Pete. Pete is recovering from divorce and feels like he is on a treadmill struggling to make ends meet. Pete wants to start a new life after divorce but he has a sense of hopelessness and is unsure of what to do next to rebuild his life.
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👋 About this channel : Hi, my name is Mark Waite the creator of Mark My Words and the 10 Bold Steps. In 2008 life dealt me a hand of cards that shook me to the core...in every area. A catastrophic business and financial collapse, marriage breakdown and health issues....all happening within days of each other. The good news is that over the years since I have completely recovered and I am in better shape now than ever before. I’d like to share with you the steps I took to regain my family, my health, my wealth and most importantly my confidence. You no longer need to struggle with setbacks. Your best stays are ahead!

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[debbiesday]

I understand this man's feelings. I'm going through a divorce I didn't want. We were together forty years. I stayed home and raised our two boys and my niece after my sister passed away unexpectedly. My husband just walked away and told me he had been cheating for many years. He burned through our savings and has left me with no income. I'm 64, have very little family and no friends. I had to move away from the town we lived in and into a small home in a town I never wanted to live in, but at least I have a roof over my head for now. I have no resume, poor health and I'm afraid. I hope and pray that everyone else going through this will be able to recreate a good, purposeful life. God bless you all.

[kpzza]

I recently divorced my wife of 8 years. I'm 31 and this was a tough experience. I still have adolescent children so its made it hard on me. It is always great to get experienced men share their knowledge and experiences to help us all get through this. Thank you for the videos Mark Waite

[Kauwa]

Facing a divorce with my wife after a 30 year relationship. It was a "it's over, no contact" text. Been alone for 4 months now. Not drinking but having a hard time getting out. Work is still good, church is still good but don't have any make friends that have been through divorce let alone gray divorce. Worried about losing the farm litterly, and ending up homeless. Trying to figure out life again. Wish I never got married to begin with...

[stevekostakis]

I am going through this now. She had me arrested three times and the Police slapped me with a current AVO which does not allow me to visit my house nor live at my Mothers house nearby.

My limited exposure to my kids is now affecting them and I feel like an Uncle, not a Father.

She also managed to recruit my 21 year old daughter against me, of which she assisted Police arrest me.

I now live in a studio, still run my little business and plan for the future.

I suggest exercise daily to keep your head straight. I would rather be in the gym not thinking about my kids than a prison cell.

The system has it all against us. The woman you married, is no longer her. You have to let her go. For me, 29 years of marriage.

[indyd]

This video has sage advice! I appreciate that you really break it down into something conrete and actionable. This is do-able! I'm inspired.

I took some notes during the video to help myself:
1. Change your habits. Break the inertia of the downhill slide with small wins. For example, exercising when you feel stressed, instead of eating poorly. Small wins help rebuild your confidence!

2. Write down what you DO want. If you're going through a hard time, don't stop! Consider what you want in the key areas of your life. For example, write down what you want in these 5 things: faith, family, finances, fitness, and fun. Understanding what you really want will change your thoughts, which will change your feelings, then we act on our feelings, and our actions will create our new reality. Vision/thoughts > feelings > actions > new reality!

3. Write your dreams/goals in 5 key areas of life. Develop a specific and written framework of your dreams/goals. See his template. Think where you want to be in 5 years, and work backwards. For example, you can then break it down into 1 year goals, then monthly, then weekly and daily action plans. We now have a plan of action!!

4. Plan your work and work your plan! Back it up with massive action.

[Pachi]

I could care less about her or my money...my son, I miss him every second.

[MattaLac]

My wife and I are separated. I'm living a sober living house. Life feels like it has no point. Trying to cope with depression and anxiety. Emotionally I'm a wreck.

[CarlosAlvarez-gbkc]

I feel I might be going into depression losing everything

[bbarnett]

He’s takes a while to say it but he’s spot on.
10, 10, 10 plan
In the beginning it’s 10 hours, 10 days, 10 weeks.
As you start to execute and recover you can stretch that out to 10 days, 10 weeks, 10 months.
Also, a lot of people saw their relationships fall apart after the pandemic. You are not alone and you are not being punished.
The sheep are being separated from the goats.
Embrace it and grow and know that in its previous state your relationship was going to be a hindrance to your survival of longevity.
The split was required for you to get back on track.

[Tommystroke]

A man helping a fellow man makes it still a beautiful world.

[hal]

I was 60 when she left. She was younger (and NPD). Just about destroyed me but managed to plod through Hell. Great advice but It's difficult to pick up the pieces when retirement is just around the corner. I had to remortgage to pay her out and that together with maintenance payments has all but crushed me. My mortgage runs for eight years after retirement. I'd almost bought my house outright when I met her. What a bloody fool I was. I'm trying to keep it together for the kids. Keep up the good work. 👍🏻👍🏻

[EmersonBosworthJr]

She makes more than me, I lost my son, the house, a chunk of my 401k and got hit with all the martial debt. I thought that the nightmare was over after the divorce, only to be shook down monthly for daycare costs, which have now put me in poverty, while she is flush with cash. It sucks.

[bro]

3 days ago I was living in my very nice house in a very nice area in the Southwest. Tonight after 3 days of driving, I’m laying on a blow up mattress in a sh*t apartment in a sh*t neighborhood in the midwest. I don’t drink and I exercise so I need to keep that up. I have a job that I start next week so I’ll get by but holy crap, this is going to take a lot of f’n work! I have no nothing. I am literally starting my life over again as it was 20 years ago. I’m getting too old for this crap. I am deep, deep in the valley like you said. I will try to focus on the good and not dwell on the bad. I know this will can do this! My ex-wife is texting asking how everything is. I really want to tell her to f-off.

[barry]

Thank you.Especially for the F's a 6th one I have added is Future, because I have to look forward, looking back is of no consequence other than pain.Thanks again.

[drummer]

If your a drinker, she can use that against you. I found that out when I sought treatment and got sober my soon to be ex wife was angry with me because she lost that leverage.

[adashing]

Mark, Great calming video. Thanks...AD

[edgregory]

I can't imagine genuine combat grunts relating to anything or anyone.

[julialednicky]

Looking at the channel for the first time.
This video is encouraging and makes a lot of sense. Points back to hope and taking personal action. Good job!

[trader]

Thahks for this man, going through the same...been in the valley things are slowly turning...I can afford to go back to the gym, eat good, and pay my bills on time...but my income is not there yet. But it will slowly turn..we

[PierTampa]

I am not the classic go-getter type of guy, and certainly far from being a social animal, but the learning experience for me is that I can’t do it all and alone. I know now that I can look for and deserve sponsors, mentors, experts to take the burden where they’re best at, and teach me where I can’t do by myself.
As if almost driven by instinct, I went online and looked for bucket list ideas. I was surprised by how many things I wish I wanted to do.
I have found a financial advisor, to counsel me on how I can achieve these goals.
I have a therapist, to counsel me on how I can reach the best growing version of myself.
I joined the gym to get fit.
None of this eliminates the pain of a divorce. The only way out of the pain is through. Yet i can rely on others shoulders for support. One foot step at a time.