you’re ugly and it’s your fault

Why you always think and feel ugly. It happens. We all do.

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2:08 “Innocent trends”
3:10 that girl
4:15 clean girl
6:48 The Beauty Algorithm
13:07 Is confidence ~delusional~

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[zoeunlimited]

Reminder: ugliness & beauty are dependent on YOUR perception. In case if you didn’t know- you are beautiful and I mean it❤️

[WitchaHorta]

I once read "you're not ugly, you're just not your type" and that changed entirely how I felt about myself

[CaraTheStrange]

Honestly this type of stuff makes trying to love yourself so difficult. Its like there is no line between being confident and being full of yourself in the eyes of society.

[calvoekleiden]

I’m so glad I deleted tiktok bc it’s already hard enough to love yourself without the extra nudge 💀

[lizardofthestars]

I always try to tell myself that I am not THAT girl; I’m THIS girl.

[Rose-pkss]

So true. Whenever I felt good about my looks, my classmates would be so hateful for no freaking reason. Like can’t someone exist outside the Eurocentric standards and feel good about themselves?

[elsa]

I personally find that calling yourself pretty is a good way to start feeling more confident. I am very confident in my looks, i used to be ranked as one of the ugliest girls in my class in middle school (some stupid boys would make these ranks). It used to hurt me but then i realised that caring about what others think isn't gonna make the Earth stop spinning, it isn't gonna pay my bills. These boys were just bitter af cuz girls didn't wanna date them. I believe beauty is about personality. For me an ugly person is someone with a bad personality, not with "bad" looks. Cuz everyone is beautiful in their own ways. Idc how attractive someone might be, if they're mean for me they're ugly lol. Having confidence in myself has made life so much better. I used to have friend who made self-loathing their whole personality. I'm so glad i dropped them. I don't think i'm beautiful i know i am and i know you are too ! Don't let bitter people destroy your self esteem, it's better to be called delusional bcuw of how confident you are then to believe the lies that society feeds you !!!! Love ya'll <33

[user.withoutaname]

one thing i find odd is how i can always find beauty in others, but never in myself

[aishwarjotarafder]

I love how Zoe dives so deep into an issue and yet keep the discussion open ended for different perspectives. Keep up the great job 👏

[K-Pop_Gurl]

I think afer being called ugly/fugly and then pretty gives me so many mixed feelings on how to be

[overgrownghost]

I NEVER understood people hating on others for being confident. It's probably internalized hatred or society trying to say an attractive person doesn't know they're attractive to what? Humble someone? Gross. If you feel a type of way by seeing someone being confident or happy in their looks without even knowing them (social media is fake) then look inwards. Don't project these ideas on others. Like, go outside, eat a fruit, do what you love outside of anyone else. Then maybe you'll feel more beautiful too.

This is coming from someone who struggles deeply about how I am perceived. I always admire confident people. I want to be like that too, not bring anyone down. I want others to feel good too in their looks. My friends are beautiful, strangers are beautiful. The only ugliness is the hatred we have.

[im_just_vidu]

I like how Zoe shows all the good and bad points but let us give our own interpretation to it.

[danmanable]

No matter how good i feel other people put me back in my place.. it's over if you are really ugly.

[darienodette]

The end had me in tears almost immediately. I love how I look and I have been shut down time and time again because I must be "full of myself" and "big headed". Loving yourself doesn't make you a narcissist, being cruel to others and *only* loving yourself makes you a narcissist.

[mckenziebarrow]

I had a guy friend tell me I was cute and I did a bit of a pose and said he was right. He quickly told me to stop and that made me unattractive. It was a weird moment that sticks with me

[chewy_mochiiart]

all i know is theres a special place in hell for the person who started this whole thing of rating people 1-10 based on their looks. AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO THINKS IT'S RIDICULOUS TO RATE PEOPLE?

[ms.misery]

Bruh, tiktoks obsession with beauty is creepy...

[allie_builds]

The biggest problem with my confidence is that I can feel so happy and then I see someone who looks skinny and realize that I don't look like them at all 😭

[BabyBat]

I never felt bothered by my nose until recently. Been feeling ugly and considering plastic surgery, which I don't want to do at all. Thank you for this video Zoe ❤

[AlexaBellaMuerte]

I’m 30 and idgaf anymore. Don’t worry you’ll all get here!!