5 ways to stop feeling ugly | simple tricks for insecure women | tips you have not heard before 2023

Stop seeing yourself as ugly and unworthy. I am going to give some advice on how to revamp your vision of self. You deserve to feel beautiful and special. You feel insecure for a reason, it is not your fault. But you do have the power to recognise your unique beauty... I want to help you 🦋✨💙

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[cherrypandas]

i see beauty in everything and everyone except for myself

[nancyvelazco]

Have you ever felt so ugly you would want to unalive yourself for that reason? That’s how I feel right now.

[RachelWrenches]

I grew up feeling ugly, I am African American and was adopted by a white family and grew up in Canada. I never had a boyfriend, got my hair cut, and grew up believing Black people are bad (compliments of a biased education system ans news).

I am over 50 and am just now starting to look at myself in a positive light and loving myself and ignoring the pervasive negativity against people who look like me.

Best thing I ever did was stop looking at magazines, commercials and watching tic tok and FB.

[Sm]

I really appreciated how you acknowledged your "pretty privilege" at the outset. I respect your candor. Many women with your privileges do videos and refuse to acknowledge this fact which I find disingenuous. Your experience will differ from that of say "a black woman" who for the most part are deemed unattractive due to mainstream media. I had to like and subscribe.🤗. Great vid

[stephaniestephens]

I feel like I’m never going to find someone because of how unattractive I believe I am, I’m insecure about my weight, my hair, my arms and I feel like I’m going to die alone without feeling attractive ever. No matter how many people tell me I’m being silly, I just don’t believe them. I’m trying so so hard to get out of this negative mind state but it’s just so hard.

[sofiafernandez]

is not the same feeling ugly and feeling ugly and being ugly by society standars. The second one is FUCKING HARD and is not only about how you feel is also about how people treat you

[taesrose]

I’m black and that’s not easy. I have hyperpigmentation, I’m in the middle of overweight I try to lose weight I go to the gym. I hate my face shape and I always get used. I mean why can’t I have no one?? Why is it so hard for me to have someone?? To be confident?? I just want to be beautiful?? Everything about me is ugly

[sofearazalee]

you have no idea how much this video helped me. while I still feel kinda ugly it made the scary thoughts feel less harsh momentarily and I thank you for this. Lots of love!<3

[reallifekichen]

I feel ugly often because I like my pics in selfie but when others take my pic I look so different and I lose confidence

[bradyshearer]

omg. the 2nd u started talking i was like “aww she’s so cute” i literally love u already and this is my first video of urs ive watched

[sparecash]

Forget being HIT with that horrible feeling!
How about ACTUALLY BEING CALLED UGLY BY MEN IN FRONT OF YOUR PRETTY FRIENDS - at least 3-4 times a year in every single decade of life???
Being compared to your friends.
Your friends being told SHE IS UGLY - why are you hanging out with her??

Having men pull faces and recoil when they see you.
Guys who do talk to you.. interrupted by their mate who tells them… you can do so much better than that.. IN FRONT OF YOUR FACE!!!
I never got over any of this I wanted to die!
It still happens and I’m almost 50!
I am still single and can’t shake this horrible feeling of being a piece of crap that is so unattractive and unworthy!
Even when I try to silence the voices! 😞

[allrounder]

I was suffering from BDD from a few months and this video gave me so much confidence and positivity. Thank you so much Alessia ❤️

[Leggs]

I'm a Male, I feel Ugly when I was younger. Now I lost 70 Lbs They look at me differently now. More Positive looks.

[almighty.saumya]

Girl, please don't stop making videos❤️

[mabelccr]

Lately I’ve been feeling very ugly because I have a crush on this guy and I want him to like me back and I know it isn’t all about looks but I just want him to like me and being pretty always helps :((

[redspiderlily]

Thank you for the tips. I never thought of thinking in the ways you mentioned. I feel better now.
I have always felt ugly and these days the insecurities were getting much much stronger and affecting my daily life. I just cry all day because I have no money for surgery or good clothes or makeup. I cry and compare myself a lot to my peers. I am trying to change this thought process and i appreciate your video and tips. Thanks.

[AleR]

Thanks a lot for this video. I'm trying to become stronger, it's not easy after being left for a younger woman after almost 20 years of marriage. It really feels bad. Remembering that I almost lost my life after giving birth to a son (even if I have very little maternity feelings) makes it even worse. I could have avoided all of that ordeal, getting my body and my mind scarred after that experience (all for nothing). I just wanted that marriage to last, I just wanted someone to keep me company in my older years, I didn't need children. Now I am left with a son that I don't love enough and no husband. Twenty years and my happiness down the drain.
Sorry for the venting, I just wanted to take this out of my heart. Thanks to whoever will read this till the end.

[efficircus]

You cant give the speech when you are a pretty princess

[moonieri]

Thing is I've felt like I was horribly ugly since I was 4 and by then even adults approached my parents and told them how cute I was but I got so used to my mom talking bad about all types of women that it made me develop horrible body dysmorphia. I remember when I was 14 I couldn't even look at myself in the mirror and find one good thing and once my mom's friend took a picture of me and I looked exactly like what I wanted to look like.

Right now my body is ill and I have tons of acne and swelling from hormone imbalance that is finally getting treated and it makes me feel so bad because I felt like I was the one truly ugly person (like my face was missing ''it'', the spark everybody else had) for so long and now that I know I really don't look good to people is when I need to try to embrace my body and it hurts so badly.

[alexisCalled]

I feel so ugly for the last year I've been going through this idk why I don't understand I've never felt this way in my life