The struggles of living with your in-laws - Benjamin Zulu

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[maureengithinji]

"Your woman needs to have her own territory. Women are very territorial." Distance creates peace. Benjamin Zulu

[reactwithjan]

I am in this situation....ive been living with my inlaws and i dont feel like im building myself rather im building them😢😢😢...May God give me strength to make the right decision

[alakorkuol]

Honestly I just love Mr. Zulu, im so greatiful I accidentally found this channel. Thank you switch TV.

[TheLilly]

As someone who desires to be married one day, I have been taking mental notes from observing married couples and I completely agree with Benjamin. I have visited with relatives that lived with their in laws and I can tell y'all, THE STRIFE IS REAL!!! Couples, please have your own space!! In order to maintain respect between yourselves and relatives, boundaries and space are necessary. This is good advice💯❤️

[annejames]

I support Benjamin 101% be in your on compound, I lived with in laws and the relationship ended in 3 months , you find being fought north west east south and if your man isn't on your side surely you will suffer, and I swore never ever again

[SpankyMJM]

I need to like this more than 3 times ooh Benjamin you always teach me a lot.

[promisepromises]

I always say the max days for visiting inlaws is 2days, especially if they are a very big family. Usually we women are mistreated & undermined. Inlaws are competitive, they always wanna show off how they can cook, how well they can clean, how long they can pray, how well they can treat your husband, etc.. You are stuck there feeling small and frustrated ... 🇿🇦

[SuperBervely]

Don’t make my home an assembly of your relatives 😂😂😂😂 that statement right there

[connykgaphola]

Thanks Joyce and Benjamin I'm watching from South Africa, I'm learning a lot may God bless you..

[journeyakidiva]

Benjamin gets it again!You deliver the message with the passion it should be accorded.
Kudos to Joyce and Switch tv for such a valuable platform.👏🏾

[beatricemuringi]

I have seen it in my family. Nyanya has made it clear, kila mtu aiishi kwake. And when she got sick, a help was hired for her in her home, she only comes to Nairobi for doctors visits and doesn't stay for over a week. We need to care and protect our families and lives.

[kaymilan]

PREACH. I am watching this while crying. I will live through this.🙏

[positivejudith]

Benjamin Zulu is the best you're a gift from God to counsel us as humans, thanks!

[n.m]

Marriage is only worth it if its advancing your life 🙌🏾

[Chemu]

I learnt this the hardway and I realised I'm a grown up and I have a choice and that is to avoid contact!!

[brucellamarsh]

This guy I just love him lol lol. Joyce you are the best. Loving the show from Antigua in the Caribbean. Benjamin really knows his it

[AngeLaure]

Since the day i landed on this show 2 weeks ago, i got stuck and i have never been disappointed!! U guys r the best!!! I love laughing and learning with u!!! Watching and enjoying your shows from Rwanda🇷🇼🇷🇼🇷🇼🇷🇼🇷🇼

[ed]

💯 agree with Benjamin Zulu....I have experienced it where the mother-inlaw actually knows the inside out of the marriage than me, the wife and she tells the son how to run the marriage including me. Finally, I realized throughout the marriage, the male I have been married to cheated and a very sexualised predator. In other words, he had hidden life style I didn't know and uses Bible and church to cover evil deeds and after, 12 years I ended the marriage and for me to realise that all these years I was treated an option and not priority! Thanks Joyce and Benjamin for highlighting on the matter.

[pstleilaciku]

Am learning a lot thru this show as am about to get married, it will help me alot

[journeyakidiva]

All that Benjamin has said is common sense to me.My sentiments exactly💯.I have had this very discussion with people time and time again.
Folks end up falling into traps of their own making because of putting sentiment where logic should take priority.