Truth About Traumabond vs. Twin Flames Explained Simply

In this video we're diving into a topic that's often surrounded by confusion and misconceptions: Traumabond versus Twin Flames. We're going to break it down for you in simple terms, so you can better understand these concepts. But before we get started, did you know a Traumabond paves the way to a healthy twin flame relationship?

TRAUMABOND EXPLAINED
Traumabond is when someone connects with another person due to past emotional pain or trauma. It's like a bond formed through shared hurt. This connection can be intense and make you feel like you've found your soulmate, but it's rooted in past wounds. A traumabond teaches us about life and others through repetitive patterns and it brings out your worst side. Each time we prioritize our own well-being, we may gradually lose some connection with the other person.

TWIN FLAMES EXPLAINED
Now, let's talk about Twin Flames. Twin Flames are believed to be two halves of one soul, destined to be together. It's often described as a deep, spiritual connection. Meeting your Twin Flame can feel like coming home, like you've known them forever. A twin flame connection (we often call it a Twin Soul Connection) plays a crucial role in our personal growth, particularly in terms of self-worth and self-awareness. It brings out your best side. That's why you love this connection so much. It helps you to become the better version of yourself! And each time we prioritize love and choose it consciously, we find ourselves drawing closer to one another.

THE KEY DIFFERENCE
Here's the key difference: Traumabond is based on shared pain, while Twin Flames are about a deep, spiritual connection. Traumabond can be intense, but it may not always be healthy because it's rooted in past hurts. On the other hand, the Twin Flame connection is believed to be a union of two souls who complement each other on a spiritual level.

COMMON MISUNDERSTANDINGS
There are some common misunderstandings about these concepts. People sometimes mistake a Traumabond for a Twin Flame because both can feel intense and all-consuming. It's important to remember that not all intense connections are Twin Flames. Sometimes, they might be Traumabonds or even other types of relationships.

CONCLUSION
In conclusion, Traumabond and Twin Flames are two different types of connections. Traumabond is based on shared emotional pain, while Twin Flames share a deep soul connection. It's essential to be aware of the differences to understand the dynamics of your relationships better.

Remember, not all intense connections are Twin Flames, and it's crucial to prioritize healthy and supportive relationships in your life. My twin flame and I have experienced significant personal growth! People have noticed the remarkable transformation in my twin flame; he now radiates inner strength and light.

Labels like "traumabond" and "twin flame" can be useful in describing our experiences, but what truly matters is love. While labels can be helpful, always remember that love and compassion are what genuinely bind us, fuels our growth and guides us through challenges!

Sending you love, light & awareness,
Lorraine 

#twinflame

[MaríaGarrido-mz]

I didn't look for this video and just came to me now.

[majakodzoman]

Such a huge thing.
The more you heal.. the more you are in that "why was I ever with this person" mode

[MaryConnelly-ck]

I think I am learning that everyone's path on this twin flame journey is different. Im sure there are many good twin flame teachers out there. We just have to find the one that resonates with us. You resonate with me with your kindness and love that shines through. Thank you Lorraine.

[kukulcangod]

We both have lost partners we loved...but she told me she wanted to be my friend because I made her happy...I can't sometimes help against my will to go visit her at her desk against my military-like discipline and because we work in the same company.
I've been living here alone so she can figure out things as she asked...But it has been pure hell for the past two weeks...But I hold my ground... And texted her...She was positive and confessed that she spent the most terrible two weeks as well!! That I should stop hexing her!!... I didn't respond to that...But I was so happy that she started to believe there is some sort of connection, it intrigues her!!, Yes, you are right.

[aliceharper]

This is really what I needed to hear tonight. I have been struggling and struggling and struggling because of The past behavior of my twin flame. He cheated on me for 7 years and married another woman. We have been in a relationship for 16 years. We recently rekindled our relationship and he says he wants a new and improved version of what we used to have and he is filing for divorce. But the shadows of the past keep plaguing me. When you said you need to believe in the new version of your twin flame, that is what I really needed to hear because the hurt that he caused is so deep. Thank you for your insight. He and I really want our relationship to work this time.

[monicabraathu]

Thats right
Theres no information out there
I had to learn it my self

[reema_f]

Thank you for this video ♥️
I would like to share my thoughts and from my experience.
On the tf journey we are learning non duality (we are all one) and non judgement by not labelling - amongst many other things! 😄
In my journey I have found it so transformational and liberating not to have labels such as toxic, trauma, karmic, narcissist, bad etc. If we see that in someone/ something that is what we will continue to see and receive.
I personally have seen a huge shift in what I considered in the past as toxic and narcissistic behaviour in people very close to me when I started changing my perception. The 3d was still playing out the old behaviours but I was assuming the new behaviours (versions) I wanted to experience and with time I have seen a 180 turnaround in people very close to me including those who have been in my life my whole life!
To be in Unity consciousness we know that everything and everyone is a part of us and a sacred mirror reflecting back to us the story we hold about ourselves and them/ the situation.
Imho, disconnecting from the 3d and going within to create the reality you want to experience can make anyone or anything change in your reality 🤍

[gloriavine]

Thank you, I know that him is my true twin Soul, but I find dificult to be patience, the separation is more then 3 years and I am consciess that we are the perfect mach,
I am so grateful for the support ✨️

[gloriavine]

Thank you Lorren, I know I am perfect for my real man an twin soul and I have the best of my husband my words are positive seeds

[sternchen]

Thank you so much❤
Is your handbook available in English, too?

[nimasoraya]

I appreciate your teachings and videos. Ir is next level, just like my now state. 🙏❤️❤️🙏

[BeSimple]

Running away (by DM) if you are not in your power.

[flowergirl]

In Elizabeth Claire Prophets teachings on Twin Flames she mentions that twin flames can experience intense interference from "lower orders of consciousness" who are envious of their union, so I don't know if I would listen to what other people say about whether we belong together!

[transformationsbegleitung]

Thank you very much. I made also the experience transforming the traumas pushed me away from a karmic partner because he wasn‘t transforming, evolving.

What do you think about toxic family structures? I decided to leave them and of course I did a lot of transformation work, inner forgiveness. I‘m staying true to myself and to my values but sometimes it’s not so easy because of the toxic family. I‘m in no contact with them. There happened a lot of bad things. I feel more peace since I left this toxic structures.

[Zenzy.]

Zijn opa zei 24 jaar terug.
Hij vindt jouw leuk.
Die zag het al.

[Tanjastrbac]

This is veeery good explain! We wait for your book in English ☺️☺️👍💪

[patricia_rs]

I understand we need information in different ways, from different sources.

[defiancemusix]

Do DM TF are narcissists? My DM TF is now continuing posting herself on Instagram and she is now following lots of people to get Likes. What do I do then?

Her last words to me were:
Hi xxx, I hope you're doing well. I've been reflecting on things and wanted to share that I'm currently in a different season of self-discovery and personal growth. It's been really liberating to have this time for myself without any pressures or controls. I'm truly enjoying the freedom that comes with it.

I want to emphasize that throughout our journey, I never promised you anything beyond what we shared. I believe it's important for both of us to embrace our individual paths and and continue bettering ourselves.

I value our connection and would like for us to stay friends, supporting each other's journeys while we heal and grow 😊

[Killorbekilledofficial]

My partner never did anything to put me down or hurt me until after we separated, to where she gaslighted thru saying insults, and jealously attempts were “jokes”, everything makes sense that were twins throughout our relationship, but now out of no where it seems like it’s revealed to be something else, it doesn’t make sense to me I could use some help

[ownyourself]

I am vegetarian and my twin flame is non vegetarian. If we don't share the same value on food can we be twin flame? I find it deal breaker. But still want union.