Why Narcissist Really Ghost You: What They Are Really After/Narcissistic Ghosting Lisa A. Romano

Narcissistic abuse is a form of emotional abuse. A narcissist relies on manipulation to control their victims. Gaslighting is a form of narcissistic abuse and is used to manipulate a victim into submission. Narcissistic ghosting is a form of emotional manipulation and an attempt to dominate and control narcissistic abuse victims.

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[lisaaromano]

Have you ever been ghosted by a narcissist and did you figure out what they were really trying to do?

[hmanfilms]

I don’t care what anyone says. The trauma from experiencing the discard and betrayal by someone you loved and considered a friend leads to intense grief and psyche damage. It throws your reality and self esteem and ability to trust in yourself and others through the emotional ringer and can take a long time to come out of. The saddest part for me is losing touch entirely with someone you actually loved and cared for. The person and relationship might have been fake, but you are grieving it as if it is real. This is truly heartbreaking and my thoughts go out to anyone who has to experience this. I’ve been through it multiple times but it is a pattern I am close to breaking.

[meraki]

Funny how we miss the relationship we never had.

[ivantheterribler]

They ghost you, because they no longer need you, they got what they wanted from you and will only call you when they need you again.

[GodHelpMe]

If you’ve been ghosted,
celebrate!
It’s the universe putting you back on your purpose!

[downhomegirl]

Ghosting is a form of abuse anyone who does it is a damaged individual who is a abuser. It shows tremendous emotional immaturity. A lot of these people are avoidant attachments. I don't care why he ghosted me. I have too much self worth to care anymore. Very cold hearted people.

[emeliabailey]

How can you miss a friend you never had.

[andrewcross]

It’s not a form of domination it’s a form of cowardice

[notagain]

They want you to stay focused on their opinion of you. They want you to work harder to please them and to care to ensure that you have their continuing approval and affection. If you're beginning to see this and don't fall into their plan, but instead feel indifferent, and it shows, you will see signs of anger and spoiled brat behavior.

[cityreadings]

That ghosting game will always backfire 🔥with me. Ghost me & you’ll get ghosted right back✌🏽keep your power by being okay with them staying gone forever & love yourself

[MichaelSmith-jzxg]

I’m actually relieved that the narc is ghosting me right now. The last thing I am going to do is worry or chase after them! It just proves they are unstable and unreliable.

[AprilSunshine]

I'm guessing they ghost because they actually think their presence is a privilege. Wrong. Good riddance. XD

[Rbl]

They ghost because they have a secret relationship they are paying attention to.

[AngelofHogwarts]

I really had no idea how traumatizing ghosting is until I experienced it a few months ago. The emotional, psychological, and physical pain is indescribable and quite frankly -- incomprehensible. From 4 months of consistent communication to just being discarded like all of that didn't happen. Just a few weeks later, my mom and dad had brought in a potential 'courtship offer' and I had to say no because I couldn't even start to get to know somebody else when I was dealing with this insanity. :'l

[ruthadlakha]

The relationship was never real but the grief was intense. Just came of one ! It’s like you loved a person that never existed .

[alimccreery]

My reaction to getting ghosted by an abuser, oh thank you so much 😊and please continue to not contact me 👍

[wendellignatin]

I have experienced this. It is a dominating techniques. It establishes power. It allows the narc to demonstrate their frustration and contempt for the other person. It allows them to live in that victim mentality that narcs love so much. Anytime they don't get what they want, they are the victim. And when they don't speak to someone, that makes them feel that they are the powerful one because they are the one that is punishing the other person rather then the person punishing the narc.

[JesusIsTheWay.Truth.Life.]

"Two people, concerned about one person...and it's not you!"
You nailed it!
Going on 3 years in. 50 ghostings and silent treatments later, I think it's finally settling in to my co-dependant brain. Thank you, Lisa.🥺💜

[eeomwyu]

When I heard stories about silent treatment, I would think it was funny. But I when I became the object silent treatment by somebody else, I felt real pain - the backstabbing pain - and now I know it is not funny. Abuse is never funny.

[eeomwyu]

That's the trap. First their attitude changes and turns so cold without warning. And that starts to hurt. Then, when I try to talk about it and figure out what's going on, I get blamer for being negative, for starting a fight for "no reason", for complaining too much, or for being too sensitive, or too needy. So, on top of being hurt, I get to feel guilty and left in total confusion about what's going on. This state of being hurt, confused, and guilty at the same time was just a nightmare. Only through the help of youtube videos about gaslighting and multiple provided examples of gaslighting could I figure this out!