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7 Signs He's Fighting His Feelings For You
Love is a complicated thing. Or is it that we just make it complicated? Either way, the heart came seem like a fickle thing as we try to find our way to the right one.

Believe it or not, some guys are just not open to love. The thought of being in a relationship and in love scares some men. He may have been hurt in the past, or dreads the idea of being tied down. Whatever his reasons, he is guarding his heart, and fighting his feelings for you.

A man is only human, and bound to develops feelings when the right one enters his life. If there is a man in your life who you believe to have feelings for you, here are the 7 signs to look for. He may be very interested but hiding his feelings for you.

7 Signs He’s Fighting His Feelings For You
Inconsistent Behavior
Some days he seems like he cannot get enough you, and other days you feel like he is ignoring you. When a guy is fighting feelings for you, his behavior can seems inconsistent and seem to be all over the place.

His feelings for you makes him want to stare at you, and spend time with you so he will give in to this desire occasionally.

Stares From A Distance
He’s giving off vibes that he’s not interested, but then you notice him staring at you from across the room. He will try to ignore you, and wants to be able to pretend that you are not there.

He may try to keep his distance from you, but if you are near, his eyes will find you.
His feelings for you makes him want to stare at you, and spend time with you so he will give in to this desire occasionally.

Stares From A Distance
He’s giving off vibes that he’s not interested, but then you notice him staring at you from across the room. He will try to ignore you, and wants to be able to pretend that you are not there.
He may try to keep his distance from you, but if you are near, his eyes will find you.

Gets Close To You
When the two of you have to interact, he gets as close to you as possible. Although he may want to fight his feelings for you, when he gets the opportunity to be close to you he will take full advantage.
He wants to smell your hair, smell your perfume, and brush against you if possible.

Tries To Make You Jealous
He makes comments about other women in ways that feels like he is intentionally trying to make you jealous. He is almost like a child looking for a reaction. He is very frustrated, he’s confused, and he is conflicted about what he really wants.

He Knows Everything About You
It may not seem like he is listening or paying attention to you when you are talking to others but he is studying and learning everything about you. He is very interested.

He will also stalk your social media. He will be all over your Facebook and Instagram. He will even check out your Pinterest. This is a covert way for him to find out what you like, what you are doing, and who you are with.

Intense Mental and Physical Chemistry
Chemistry is a beautiful thing. In its simplest form it is just a connection with another person. You just click with someone. You feel an intense connection with him. He tries to hide his feeling, but he cannot help how drawn he feels to you.

He physically desires you, and the intensity of his feelings shows in his eyes when you catch him looking at you.
Body Language
A man’s body language will tell you a lot about how he is feeling about you, regardless of his attempts to hide his true feelings.

If you pay attention to his body language you will notice that he gives you lots of eye contact, he will mirroring your behavior, and gesture on appearance such as fixing tie, socks, or hair. He may also get fidgety, and plays with things such as buttons or a pen, and touch his face a lot out of nervousness.

[iisundrxxm]

The fact he does ALL of this and still stares at me every day is just wow

[kimte]

Sometimes i decided to give him time & wait, on the other hand am really frustrated & nervous

[BrazenFinesse]

If someone fights their feelings LET THAT SHIT GO! You dont need someone who cannot love

[saminarose]

This is sick! If he can’t deal with his emotions and be honest Run away!

[Sadiayhi]

Sadly experienced this recently. All of the signs are there but when I asked him directly he said I was not his type which was such a huge shock! I am at the point where I hope he realises one day that he’s made a big mistake.

[Lorenzo]

Be careful. These could also be signs of narcissism. If you get involved with one of these, you're in for a crazy roller coaster ride.

[shaluliz]

If he wants let him pursue me, be open, propose, love, marry, let me see the effort man!!!

[heatherd]

I think patience is key. However, after waiting so long be open to expressing your own in order to give him permission to see where your head is. If he pulls back, explain that you do notice this pulling away and if another conversation occurs, explain that the in and out does not work for you.

[milyonabilyones]

I move on.... Forget everything. Empty the heart being over loaded. That's the best way i can do.

[charichari]

I've crushed on a guy who gave off some of these behaviours (staring from a distance, being close one day and ignoring me the next, etc.) and I realized I'm WASTING MY TIME since this feels like high school teenage immature behaviour... Nope, don't like that! My attraction for him faded the more I thought about how contradicting and inconsistent his behaviour was: this BOY doesn't know how to deal with his feelings. I wish him well, but don't see him in a romantic sense anymore.
I've learned to basically to live my life, move on and NOT to waste time thinking or wonder if he actually is fighting whatever feelings he has. No one should have to waste time on a boy who cannot decide what to do with his emotions/strings you along. I'm devoting my time love and energy for people who are genuine, DECISIVE and not wishy-washy about their true feelings.

[artbygilik]

Sheesh, every single sign... I'm just giving it time because the truth will come out eventually and he does open up when hes ready to speak up

[laquantagaston]

I totally agree with her comment at the end about it better for him to fight his feelings for a woman than to keep stringing her along months or years .

[masonjamess]

Lol this crazy bc every last one of these signs fits the guy who I think got feelings for me 🤦‍♀️

[muffintopz]

Love isn’t complicated. People are. If someone isn’t offering what you want, find someone who is. Don’t force people to give you what they aren’t willing to freely offer. It usually doesn’t end well.

[merrysunuwar]

My recent bf showed all this sign. I just couldn't deal with his inconsistent behaviour and broke up with him.

[IamTierraWoods]

Everything in me is saying GO GET YOUR MAN! lol

[snehadhanawade]

If I like him then i give him time and attention. If I don't like him then I tell him right away and I ignore him.

[emeraldpurple]

I think my Boss has feelings for me! I see a lot of staring from a distance and ignoring me on my face.

[sheenaxoxo]

I say leave he needs to know what he wants he doesn't know could lead to a toxic relationship with communication issues! And you also don't want a guy one foot in one foot out! Be okay with the idea it might hurt at first but your saving yourself from more hurt in the end! And remember that maybe it wasn't your time you will both come back more grown and healed from past traumas or there is someone better out there for you!

[nabilahrahim]

This happened to me and I ignore him. A MAN SHOULD BE BRAVE TO MAKE A MOVE! Only a boy hides his feelings! So be a man :)