Why We Get Angry or Bothered By People We Love - Jordan Peterson

Speaker: Jordan Peterson Thanks for watching!
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[uckBayNguyen]

This sentiment can be overbearing on children without a sense of purpose, proper guidance, and encouragement. The parents' lost opportunities can never be replaced by expectations alone. This is why kids would retort, "let me live my own life". With that being said, help them discover their passion and encourage them to pursue their dreams, not yours.

[Bellavita]

So intense. We should share this with our adolescent/ young adult offspring.

[Viking_Mom]

Yep! Common sense TRUTH! My papa always told me I could do anything I set my mind to do. Choice is yours!

[marshallmort]

Nothing shows the love and hope of another person so much as when you become aggravated for those not living up to what they can be, because you truely want the best for them and for all that they can be to shine as bright as possible.

[krikvatre]

Ovo mi je poznato. Nijesu samo drugi ljuti, nekad sam ljuta sama na sebe.

[yogibear]

It's painful when you want more for someone you love than they want for themselves.

[prepareforwinter]

How can people hate this man.. he has helped me so much

[sallywalters]

The man that can see the truth in all situations and can explain them beautifully, there will be haters of him and lovers of him, Jordon Thankyou

[llIlIlllII]

Sometimes parents only see what they want you to be, regardless of your actual strengths and inclinations. And they squish any potential you could have actually had, because they saw no value in it. "You don't want to do that, do you? No you don't."

[angieash]

i love you and your wisdom PROFESSOR Peterson

[longcovidwarrior]

Anger at children for not living up to their potential is just a manifestation of the parent’s shadow. Disappointment that they, themselves haven’t learnt the lesson of missed opportunity enough to have passed it onto their children. But our children should be free to learn from their own mistakes, it’s the best way to learn. As long as we’ve guided them, they should be free to take their own road.

[timhartsough]

Those who really love you will tell you what you need even if it's not what you want

[CaptaineRed]

Put the link to the full conference in description.
That s so much missed potential right there, i wanted to educate myself through your channel but it s actually not enough, not all it could be.

[Dudemon-]

My regrets are largely opportunities I took that didn't pan out, and I lost what I had. But I do regret some big opportunities I let slip.

[dianenims]

Once 18 years old, leave the child to become what they want to be! Love and accept them for who they are. A lifetime lies ahead!! As a parent, you may be upset only because you have come to know that YOU could have been more. Stop this madness!!!! Love yourself and others as you are!!!

[izawaniek]

Absolutely the case! Thank you so much dr Peterson.

[karenvanschalkwyk]

Very true, especially when it comes to our children

[danpearson]

There who you could, who you want to be, and the reality o who you are. Who ever you are, if you love them I hope they can Try acceptance

[ricardodemagalhaes]

I get frustrated with myself when I don't take advantage of the opportunities that present themselves to me

[glendalangley]

You touched on a topic that’s been coming up with me a lot lately. I was invited after high school to join Mensa. After reading what it would require I never told my parents. My dad was in the Air Force and with six kids money was spread thin. I knew they didn’t have the money. I didn’t want them to feel inadequate in any way so I tore up the paperwork. I’m just now starting to wonder how my life would have changed had I tried to make it work. To do so thou would have brought hardships to my family. It turned out the way it did and there’s no going back.