How To Leave A Rude Person Speechless

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People can be hostile with a fake friendly demeanor. It becomes tricky to know whether to confront them or just smile through it.

That’s why In today’s video we’re covering a 4 step method you can use to stand up to rude, passive-aggressive behavior without being a jerk. We’ll be using a tense Robert Downey JR interview we covered in one of our first videos, but we thought an update with more concrete advice and visuals would be useful.
 

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 

0:00 - Intro
0:21 - N: Nonverbally warn them to stop
2:21 - I: The indirect warning shot
3:31 - C: The callout
4:48 - E: Exit the situation

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[QuietlyMagnetic]

Fundamental to any of these tips is to first understand that you're being wronged or mocked. There's a whole population of people out in this big bad world that don't even realise something is up in the first place, to even begin to consider standing up for themselves.

[LisaSoulLevelHealing]

I love these. They really elevate the emotionally intelligent way to deal with situations.

[Je.rone_]

No matter how hard it may be, you must learn to stand up for yourself

[nicoleonfeels]

It’s always a tricky thing to do, balancing kindness while not being taken advantage of.

[ManBearCowGM]

N - Shout "NO!" at the person.
I - "I DON'T LIKE THIS!" should follow
C - "CU*T!"
E - Escalate

[timesink]

Man that Robert Downey Jr clip is putting your kids through college :P

[SeanLunny]

Communicate boundaries clearly. Three strikes you’re out.

[kimkimpa]

N: Nonverbally warn them to stop
I: Indirect warning shot
C: Callout
E: Exit the situation

[Timberhawk]

“To learn who rules over you, simply find out whom you are not allowed to criticize.”
– Voltaire (attributed)

[deswill]

I was treated very poorly for years by a group of friends. A few weeks ago I left them for a fresh start. I don't like burning bridges but I couldn't be bothered to waste time to fix my reputation on people that never respected me. I won't apologise for being myself.

[derek_jesio]

Can you guys do an analysis of Vladimir Putin? Also, it might be cool to do an entire series of world leaders

[trolley]

I wish you guys were around when I was a teenager!

[arturk]

"So you have chosen death.." - saying this usually works for me

[godofdreamzzz]

I accidentally went off on this one girl at work one day cause she talks in a belittling tone. I don’t think it was intentional and I wish I had this video before I done that.

[whitneyhowlandspropcomedy]

The older I get, the less I second guess how I handle these situations.

[TakeBackYourMind]

The world is abundant, you can always find a new job, friend, partner etc that makes you just as happy! So don't settle, value yourself highly.

[JournalingWithNadia]

4:30 lol that reaction of getting called out

[TurboSol]

Just wanted to give cudos to you for building en entire business on this stuff, I remember when you just did one off videos here and there and you really made something of it, great job mate!

[sarahanna]

What I liked the most about this video is the examples during the interview! It takes some self-awareness and confidence to get to this level!
Also, can’t wait to start my courses by Charisma University!

[starrazzure]

Non verbal communication only works if the individual picks up on it. The reporter clearly didn't.