The Momma's Boy Syndrome

What's plaguing many men is the fact that they weren't just mothered but rather smothered

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[jenniferjj]

"You can't ask her to bring something to the table when you don't even have one"😂

[latina]

We don’t need a mami’s boy. We need a real man of God!! Someone who’s gonna lead us to God and not distract us at all.

[VenSpence]

I appreciate this....my son is 16yrs old, and there are some things I need to stop doing too....I totally hear this, as mothers, we create a problem by smothering our sons..

[sammyjane]

Lord, restore the Christ like identity to our men and women

[ayanaxdanielle]

“If you don’t let God heal him, you’ll never be his wife, only his nurse” Whew.

[candidacox]

My WHOLE SPIRIT was CONVICTED. My last relationship was with a Boy not a Man.... He needed me for Life .. and I was Drained.... I'm now finally breathing again.

[Iamlonndanicole]

It makes it hard for a woman to trust a man who treats his mom like his woman

[jackienicole]

If this ain’t my ex .. i finally realized after we broke up that he never really had control over anything in his life because he always let his mom control him . You gave him a little hit of control he abused it & tried to make you feel small . That’s because he felt small his whole life

[Lynn-ipsh]

i saw a post on Instagram that said "mothers baby their sons and treat their daughters like they're grown." I never thought about this till i read that post. Now that I'm aware of momma's boy syndrome i see it everywhere. Many mothers do treat their daughters differently not in a bad way, but as in they don't baby their girls as much as they do their boys.

 It's the same with fathers, fathers seem to baby their daughters more so then their sons. A good fathers usually teaches the son how to get out on his own and succeed. I don't know the psychology behind this but i found it interesting how parents treat their opposite gendered children.

[beedabee]

Pastor you was dead on. I divorced my mommas boy husband because he’s narcissistic and I was mothering him because I wanted to feel loved and appreciated. But it ended up stretching in ways more than I imagined. He told me I was too strong but we were unequally yoked...thank you for validating my choice to move forward and the hope that we would grow spiritually together. You’re so right. I was exhausted.

[gwendolynlacy]

A momma's boy is definitely not a man of God at all!!! He can't make a decision without his momma. When, you hear a man say he wears a badge of honor as a father, son, and a brother... Watch out!!! Also, beware of not hearing him say, I wear a badge of honor as a child of God, as a boyfriend, as a fiance, and as a future husband. In closing, when he's stated several times during the relationship, my momma said!!!!

[abawitx]

Some mothers treat their sons like their husband. If i had not heard this post I would not have realized this was what i went through. I dated a male who was a boy and literally would call himself that smh. Horrible horrible traumatic experience. It's taken so much to heal from the years of damage he did and I allowed in deception.

[jklove]

My ex and his mom act like they was husband and wife. They even lived together for years, never moved out til this day. Everytime I was over she was sitting with us. Couldn't even eat alone without her. Etc. Ugh

[lovemariehobbs]

He not gone be fine when the lights off. 😄😄😄

[coachjessicarich]

I recently got out of a relationship where I experienced a lot of this. Growing up, my parents didn't baby me and I grew up to be responsible and start working in 9th grade. Although he and I grew up similar with struggles from a single parent household, I noticed his lack of maturity was an issue when we disagreed or him wanting things his way. When I held him accountable, he thought I was judgemental or nagging. The attachment and abandonment issues are so true. Even though he started treating me as an opponent, he was very attached. The relationship became draining and I had to break it off. I saw potential and that's where I went wrong. It's been 4 months and I've learned, although I'm imperfect, his healing and maturity was beyond me. My level of peace since then has been amazing❤🙏. Thank you for these video that remind me of my worth and to be patient and focus on my purpose.

[moreliamedero]

I just got out of a relationship with a mommas boy. Thank you Jesus! I tried to push him to be better but he felt “rushed.” And his mom was aw you guys have to be considerate of each other 😒😒😒😒😒

[briangathua]

I grew up with a single mum dad died when I was 3 mum did the best to teach me on how to be responsible and to be a man but I guess there is an importance of having a father figure in your life coz when I grew up and wanted to move out mum wouldn't let me and when she did I was only allowed move in the same area but I had to be a man and I remember talking to her about the importance of me being my own man. It was emotional buy she understood and seeing this affirms that I made the best decision

[arsha]

Imaging marrying a guy and finding out, after the fact, his mother has power of attorney to his finances 😒😒🤯 smh

[ykstar]

Wish I can show this to my bf but then he’ll tell his momma 🥴 lol

[linashane]

This is my life.
I wish I knew this before I got married. So sad but this is so true.