6 Draining Relationships and What to Do About Them

We all have our own personal encounters with people who are emotionally draining. What are the signs of a draining relationship and what do we do about it? In this broadcast, I want to share about six types of draining relationships and give you some practical insights you can put into practice today to help you walk in greater relationship health. Draining relationships do not need to own your life!

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[embracingpeace-now]

My mom was an alcoholic from the time I was 12yo-23yo but then she quit after her liver transplant. My dad was a perfectionist and battled OCD but he never even knew what his battles were. I battle guilt in ALL of my relationships. I battle perfectionism and OCD and I am eternally grateful for your continual encouragement to overcome.

[wesleybarnes]

Accept, cut the codependency, boundaries, separate for clarity

When I complained to God about my partner, I heard only 1 thing - accept them for where they are at. Not easy, but so much wisdom in it, and now Mark even says the same

[DancerLucy]

Would love for you to do a video on the topic of aging parents, who have complex health issues and are needing more and more from their adult children. Many of these tips, while excellent advice, take on a whole other meaning and a new level (or many levels) of complexity in navigating.

[SarahScripture-serenity]

I think my husband operates out of guilt instead of love. It’s clicked with me watching this video and has made me realise why I always feel like we’re playing by different rules in our relationship. I’d be interested in hearing how you navigate these kind of issues in a marriage as you can’t just avoid being with them unless you want a divorce which I don’t. Thanks xx

[joelgrumblatt]

I have a hard time exiting groups and conversations, and always feel guilty if I leave before everyone else does. Going to work on my “wrap-it-up” skills - thanks for the insight, Mark!

[disaj]

This is so good, brother! I've become a graceful (and gracious) eggshell walker! I used to try to be all things to everyone, i suspect because of both parents demonstrating bona fide narcissism (one was overt, the other covert) & a sibling who was/is the golden child. After i figured things out (took me way too long because, you know...denial) i started taking care of my needs first & the guilt trips they relish putting me on became futile for them. They even sounded so much like the accuser at times b/c i would no longer play the role of the mangey mutt to be kicked round. I did run situations by multiple mature believers, even secular folks too (just to make sure i wasn't at fault). Sometimes i did overreact though in some situations, attempting to protect myself. It's a process...sorry for draining any readers! 😉

[MasonsMotions]

Ah yet again, just what I needed: I’m highly open with a high tolerance for negativity, so I tend to be the monster. Thanks a lot for your flow of insight from which God granted you.

[reginaadair]

I might have been a mee monster. Help me Lord!

[a.v.]

Mark include more stand up comedian videos! That was hilarious and perfectly delivered your point! It was great to have a little segment of laughter in your videos!

[Brian-rsug]

This is fantastic! I spoke to my counselor about this topic today, mainly boundary setting and people pleasing. This is not an option, Must learn to say no and choose how much time you allow for draining people.

[yro]

That comedian is one of my favorites! He is so funny!!! Thanks for adding the clip, forgot about him. Laughter is good 😊😂❤

[Jesusindahouse]

Hello my brother from another mother ;) All of these points describe my mother. She is so self absorbed and entrenched in her victim mentality, a NONSTOP talker, I call it "oral diarrhea" ..Thank you for your teaching!

[celestialstorybooks]

This was so incredibly helpful. Watching the movie is great because I’m always afraid of getting sucked in to the drama and the argument. I think I laughed just as hard at “who wants pasta” as I did at Brian Reagan! ❤

[shellyfister]

Omgosh … I just got off the phone with my Mom and UGH …. GOD KNEW I NEEDED THIS VIDEO 😜😂

[RobinHolland-ihgx]

Always asking for more than you are willing to give

[wesleybarnes]

Sometimes, loving someone as God loves them means stepping back and letting them face the natural consequences of their actions. Even God allows people to experience the impact of their choices.

[Bstill]

Brian Regan did a classic sketch on the self-centered person. He nails other life experiences as well

[lindaolson]

Thank you, loved the comedian, couldn't stop laughing

[embracingpeace-now]

Thank you, Mark! Excellent! I look forward to taking notes on this video in my journal soon! *A Guilt Tripper...was in my family.

[smirnadeleon]

This is soooo good!! I need this! Thank you my brother from another mother!! Gonna listen to again and again❤️